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Hey there, my name is Amanda.I am the type of person whom will tell you things straight up. Go ahead, ask me any question. If I can't answer it, I'll try my best to help you find it. I'm online a lot so questions will be answered asap.

Also, I love to get feedback. So, please take the time to rate my answers. Thanks.



Anyways about me,
Loverocks has just been a nickname for me for about 6 years now. I am 26 years old, happily married to my hubby of 10 years. I am a stay at home mom of 4 great kids. Proud cub scout and girl scout mom. Also proud to be mom of a gifted child. Me and my hubby are starting our own auto repair biz. So...I'm a part time mechanic. Right now one of my main goals is to raise my kids the best I know how. I love to pull minor jokes on my friends and family. Dance with my kids and listen to my rock and country cd's.

advice

does anyone know any websites that let you take test that will tell you what you would be best at majoring in?like personality test that can evaluate what you should think about majoring in and test that dont ask for personal information like your address and phone number would be great!thanx!!

Found this one for you that has a list of majors that would be good for you.

http://www.blogthings.com/whatshouldyoumajorinquiz/

Hope this helps.

~Loverocks~

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16/f.
is is possible to be pregant without ever having sex and having your period two months in a row?

me and my boyfriend have done everything else besides sex. i gave him a hj one day and he cummed. but then he wiped his hands with a napkin. and a little while later (i don't know how long after) he fingered me. is it possible that i'm pregnant? even though i've gotten my period two months in a row now

No. Next time I would suggest him washing his hands thoroughly. That way to make sure all cum is completely off.

~Loverocks~


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me and my stepdad fight all the time, my mom always takes his side even though he is unreasonable. he tells my mother how to parent me and raise me even though i am 16 years old. it makes me so mad how he patronizes me and treats me like im 5, my mom pretends not to notice. i hate it..... ive tried talking to her all she does is tells me he loves me and that i should listen to him.
any advice?
thanks



I'll be completely honest there really aint nothing much you can do. I went through the same thing but later on becoming you could say friends years later. There is hope. Some step moms or dads just act that way. I would think of saying(calmly)something like mom we need to talk alone and please hear me out first. See also if you and your mom alone, might can solve some matters that might come up. That might help some too.

Hope this helped at least a little.

My aim id is Loverockandrolls if you need to talk.

~Loverocks~

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my friend is turning 15 on cindo de mayo... may 5th. so its next week. im her best friend and im not sure what to get her. im gonna try to make a little slide show thingy with al our pictures but we dont have that many so ill just take a lot with her this weekend and give it to her late...no biggy but not i need like a material thing(s) and i have no clue what to get her cause her bf got her a necklace which she wears everyday. she has 2 rings from her grandparents that she wears everyday and i dont wanna get her earrings cause thats what she got me and i dont wanna like copy her. i want something unique but not weird and i like write her a letter every year so ill have the letter anf the video...
HELP. ps not to pricy but under 50 would be ideal.

What about a nice bracelet?

~Lovercoks~

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I dont know whats wrong with me but i'm like afraid of people touching me. I'm not like germophobic or anything. Seriously though like even just like if someone is sitting too close or something. Even with my best friend like we'll be sitting next to each other watching a movie and she'll be too close ( which is'nt even that close) and i move a little farther from her. I dont get any of this it's weird. I know alot of you are probably going to say like well if you have a problem with it then stop having a problem with it but i dont think it's that simple. Does anyone know whats wrong with me? Has anyone felt like this before? Help please!

You probably have a phobia of some sort. Like for example I'm Snakephobic if I see a snake I will run like crazy and if its too close I've even screamed. The same is with you and people being close. You just move farther away. I have no idea what it is called though.

Hope this helps
~Loverocks~

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Hey guys I need helppp!
I haven't changed my facebook profile picture in like four months, but I can't decidee!
Which do you like?

http://i26.tinypic.com/2mqrbfc.jpg
http://i29.tinypic.com/30thoat.jpg
http://i32.tinypic.com/289lxqp.jpg

Thanks for your help!

The fist one on the list is better my opinion.
The last one sort of has red eye.

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Hey, I have big boobs, like 36 C to D. I need to know what kind of bathing suit would look best. Last year I had one from hollister, super cute, but my boobs looked soo bad. Help please!!

here is a site that might help http://fashion.about.com/od/swimwear/a/findswimsuit.htm

~Loverocks~

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Im 19 and ive bin going out with my girlfriend who is 17 for 1 year and 4 months. I live in PA and she lives in NJ. I am obsessive with her. I want her all to me. She use to have alot of guy friends like that was all her friends. she told me that she isnt happy and she wants to hang out with her guy friends and im not good with that. i call her alot more than i should. she said that i have till the end of the summer to change or she is leaving me. She has bin the best friend i never had. I love her to death. im just afriend that shes gona meet a guy better than me cause theres alot better guys that she could have.

I need steps on how not to be obsessive. i want to be with her longer then 4 months.

Give her space. Show her you trust her by letting her have guy friends. Call her occationally not too much.

Hun, dont keep her all boxed up for you. Let the world see what a great girl she is. Amd be proud you have her.

If you over obsess too much it will just push her away and thats the last thing you want to happen.


~Loverocks~

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What are ALL the possible symptoms of pregnancy?

Have you guys been through it?

Or can you give me a website that has definite true information on it?

Thank you so much.

Check this out http://pregnancy.about.com/od/signssymptoms/a/25signsofpg.htm

Hope this helps

If you need more info let me know I have had 4 kids of my own.

~Loverocks~

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F/15

okay so recently i kinda feel like Im a total lesbian and i mean believe me i have nothing wrong with LGBTs at ALL. But I think the main problem for me is like the future. I mean i guess i can give up on the fantasy of me marring an amazing guy and having kids.
I keep telling myself it doesnt matter and i have time to figure it out but id just like to know you know?

help?

Oh and if you are just gonna be rude about homosexuality please dont even respond

I know people who are gay,les, and bi. It is not an easy life I'm sure. I found you some info that might help you http://lesbianlife.about.com/ they have teen links on there too.

Hope this helps.
Feel free to ask me any questions.

~Loverocks~

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okay so i hate bringing my boyfriend over my house. my parents dont let us shut the door anymore because i guess they see we are getting more serious..they know he is in a gang so now they think he is a criminal...which he isnt. my dad thinks im going to become a chola (thats a girl gang member in my boyfriends gang) and all i hear is how they think hes a nice guy but hes a bad influence. they treat me like i have no brain and cant make mature decisions every since i got a tattoo. its like the tattoo labels me as "DANGER SHE IS GOING OVER THE HILL" kind of kid. AND IM NOT. i make smart decisions. they think im going to turn into my older brother and get myself locked up. what do i do? i dont want my boyfriend coming over anymore and when i go to my boyfriends house im not aloud over for longer then 4 hours. and yes we are sexually active and im planning on asking my mom for birth control...i want to prove to her im responsible and im looking out for myself. i dont exactly know what im asking...i just want to know peoples opinions on my situation.

-15/f

Well, lets see first of all I am not judging anyone. This is just my opinion. Gangs gets bad wraps because of all the media attention on the "bad" ones(I'll call them). Where you hear of drive by shootings and stuff like that. I guess as parents they fear for your safty more than anything because of it. A tattoo aint that bad its just tattoos are like symbols of rebelion you could say.

You need to prove to your parents you are a good person and you don't like trouble of any kind.

Hope this helps.
Feel free to send me any more questions you might have.

~Loverocks~

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recently... everytime me and my bf make out, hours later my throat starts to hurt and get sore... what can be the cause? this has NEVER happened with anyone else... could it be and std?? help greatly appreciated!!!

sincerely, SICK.

Could be mono (aka kissing disease) I would check with your doctor and see what they say for sure.

Here is some info on mono http://www.coolnurse.com/mono.htm

~Loverocks~

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This may end up a bit long, I'm going to try and make this as short as possible.

For your information, I live in a country in Europe where the drinking age is 16, I don't live in the states.
Me:15/f Paul:17/m and the others are from 15-18.

A couple of weeks ago me and a whole load of my friends went to a concert, we all got quite drunk and ended up going back to Paul's house. His parent's weren't home so we had some more drinks and watched a couple of movies. Most people paired off and the ones that had boy/girlfriends went home. I ended up hanging around with Paul all night, and we got to know each other way better.
At his house Paul was lying on his couch and I climbed on top of him and started kissing him. We kissed for a bit, but then we both fell asleep. I didn't have sex with him or do anything like that, dw.
The next day I called my parents and told them I was gonna spend the weekend at my friend's and they didn't care. That friend happened to be Paul. He invited me, since his parents were gone, and he was gonna be bored. I helped him tidy his house and we just hung out all day messing around, and when we went to town for lunch, and to get food and replace his parent's alcohol he was holding my hand all the time.
On Sunday night I went home, and then until Thursday he wasn't in school. I dropped by his house and he was just wearing jeans and he looked pretty tried. He said he'd been getting drunk all day cause things had fucked up. I stayed there talking to him about the problems that we're going on until the doorbell rang. He went to open and in walked some girl we'd made friends with at the concert. She went over and kissed him on the mouth so I guessed I should leave.
Now It's been about a week and a half, and he hasn't been in school, he's not at home, and he's not answering his phone. Basically he's disappeared. I called his house and his mom told me that he's staying at a friends for two weeks, so I went to the guy's house and he said that he hasn't heard from Paul for weeks.
Yesterday I called his mobile again, and he answered.I asked him where he was and he said he was at Charlie's (this 18 year old druggie that the cool people in our school hang around with) and he was sorting out some shit. He said he loved me and then he hung up.
I saw the girl a couple of hours later(the girl who was at his house before Paul disappeared) and she said that she's known him for two years and they've been dating on and off for a year.
Now, what the fuck is going on? Why was he like that with me? Why didn't he tell me anything about the girl, why didn't he say that he's known her for two years? Why would he be hiding at a druggies house?
I'm worried...
And confused.
Sorry it was long, and I understand if you don't answer.

I would honestly be careful around a guy acting like that. Sounds more like trouble to me. Who knows you might not know everything about him that you think you do. I'm sure you dont want to be just another girlfriend for this guy.

Hope this helps.
Feel free to ask me questions.

~Loverocks~

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ok well my bf and i broke up because he doesnt have time for a gf and im moving in a little over a month. its been really painful for me and i dont know what to do. i dont really care about dating him anymore but hes my best friend too and we have been best friends for a while. he knows everything about me but now he doesnt even have time to call me-seriously. he never calls and when he( or i) finally calls he is like im really busy i cant talk now sry we can talk later. i dont know what to do and last sunday he was flirting with me A LOT and we ended up kissing a couple times because we still kinda like each other but its really confusing. the thing that i cant handle is i've never had a friend who didnt even have time to talk to me! we go to different schools and now he never has time to hang out so we barely see each other except at church and youth group. please help me!! he doesnt have time but he means so much to me and i am leaving soon!!! thank you so much and i will rate :)

Yeah take it easy. It probably aint sunk in yet that your leaving. When you do see him at church or youth group ask him if you he wants to go out somewheres or something like that. While you are alone talk to him about it. He probably has no idea how you feel.

~Loverocks~

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ok, so i was born with curly hair and i get my hair relaxed. i wash my hair 2 times a week because i have to use a blow dryer first, and then a flat iron. i wanna wash my hair more often but i dont wanna have to use heat all the time. But if i dont use hear, than my hair will frizz out (badly. more than you know its not even funny)

so what i wanted to know is do you know any cream that i can just put in my hair after i wash and condition so my hair is scrunched or wavy but not frizzy?
and do you also know anything that protects hair from humidity? because thats a BIG one for me. thanks

I had the same problem till I started using Garnier Fructis Curl & Shine shampoo and leave in conditioner. They work great. After I comb my hair out I put In the leave in conditioner. I barelly have any frizz at all with it.

Hope this helps.
Feel free to ask me questions.

~Loverocks~

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ok so my english teacher is not really the
most liked person but i behave in her class because she will make your life a living hell if u piss her off!well i talked to her alot afta school because when shes not in one of her pissy moods its fun to chit chat with her!well i hav her as a homeroom and study hall teacher and my bf is in there to. we had a talent show and me&my bf were sitting really close 2-getha and he had his arm around me.well the security guard person that i talk 2sumtimes told him to take his arm 4rm around me.well then that teacher came and told my bf she needed to talk to him.well he comes bac and said that she said to lean up and she kept sayn that we wudnt be sittn so close if my dad was here(hes the principle).well the whole talent show she was jus starn at me the whole time.then afta the show she told me the same thing about how we wudnt be doin that stuff if my dad was there and shit.then she was like well if you dont want me to say anything to u guys then ok and i said no that wasnt the case.then when we got back to school in homeroom i didnt say anything to her which most times im really talkative and she said so i guess were on a non-speakn term and i was like no but she kept askn me the same question like she didnt here me so i just didnt say anything to her.well i got home and my dad was like someone told me that you were all layn on some boy and that i cant go anywhere which i never do anyway so it didnt really fase me!but i was jus really pissed that someone would tell.well the next day i asked her if she told and she said yes and that just really pissed me off.before that i kinda trusted her and i came and talked to her alot aND then shes gonna sit there and tell on me.and it wasnt even that i
important .she kept sayn that she told my dad that it wasnt anything to get overly upset with and hes a reall good kid but my dad doesnt care.jus the fact that he had his arm around me makes him overly upset.she keps telln me that if i wanna continue to giv her the cold sholdier thats me but she will still treat me the same way and she still loves me and all that otha shit.and she was like i only told him because i care about
u and all that crap which i didnt understand. well im still really really pissed and i dont know if i wanna talk to her again!! do you think i should give her a second chance or continue to keep to myself seeing as how she kinda betrayed my trust with her!! please help!!again sorry for being so long!!

I agree. If you do give her a second chance. I would just watch what i say or do around her.

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Okay, so there is this guy that I freaking love. I mean, it is true love no joke. He is my soul mate. If I describe him to you, it's gonna make me love sick, but I will tell you anyway. His name is Broox Brown. (It is actually spelled Brooks, but he likes it spelled with an x) His hair is blond and it goes down to halfway down his neck. He is 11 and I am 12, but we are both mature. His lips are shaped like a heart. I love them so much. Also, I love his eyes and his hands. They both show what he is like perfectly. Anyway, I know that he likes me, but he is too shy to admit it, actually, he is not shy, but it's just really complecated. But he likes this girl named Kaitlyn more than me and also he likes another girl named Ellie, but Ellie likes Trevor and Kaitlyn likes Mark. They are going out. He also likes Delany, but i don't think they are right for each other, I have never thought that. We have never been out before, but I really do love him. I just want him to admit that he likes me. So does anyone have an idea of how I can get him to like me MORE and ask me out???

I agree. The only way you will find out anything is to talk to him.

Good Luck!

~loverocks~

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:/ i have a strange problem that i'm sure millions of other teens are facing right now but are in denial about it.

ok well i realized that i'm literally addicted to facebook. i probably spend 4-5 hours a day on the computer on an average schoolday, refreshing my facebook homepage constantly. it's pretty bad.

i sit on the computer and when there's NOBODY on, nobody updating or anything, i get so bored. some days i stay up really late talking to my friends on facebook.

in any case, my crush and i talk a lot on facebook so naturally, i'm addicted. but i'm also kind of a facebook stalker, hahah. oh goodness, newsfeed is life. but it's just like.. i know other girls facebook stalk and all but i read my crush's wall-to-walls with EVERYONE. it's sort of obsessive.

i know, i know. "get a hobby." but like i just love the internet... there's so much to do and so much to learn. it's so easy to access and it's so much fun.

what should i do? i can't set a "timer" or something on myself. i've tried that stuff; it never works. i say "i'll just go on for TWO minutes" and sit there for thirty. but when i go out and do something else, i don't think about it. i only think about facebook when it's right in front of me. i'm not obsessed with it when there's other stuff to do.

ok so like what should i do... i mean i obviously do homework, go to after-school activities, hang with friends & family, play with my pets... but on an average school day, i go to school, go to an afterschool activity, come home, homework, and non-stop facebooking until late at night when i take a shower and then go to sleep. i check my facebook when i get back from school and in the morning before i leave. like some websites say, "it's the first thing i do in the morning and the last thing i do at night" it's really quite sad -- i end up getting ready faster and faster (inadvertently) just to be able to check my facebook in the morning!

ok so i think you guys get it. -- please don't suggest deactivating. i'd die. i did it once before but i reactivated in less than a week.

i also read to try going on every other day, but that's such a stretch! should i just try to say "okay only 3 hours today" "ok only 2 hours today" everyday? how many hours / minutes do you think the average person should spend on facebook in order to remain mentally stable & physically / emotionally healthy? hahahahah

i took a whole bunch of surveys & quizzes about being addicted to facebook, and i'm hella addicted.

somebody help me?

Me and my Little sister were both like that for a while. Might i suggest trying to do other things on the computer like learn new things. Have you tried reading some good books. I know you said not to say "get a hobbie" but have you even tried that? Thats how I keep from being online some much. I do crafts, listen to my CD's, watch tv.

Feel free to ask me any more questions.

~Loverocks~

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I jeard bon jovi used to be gay before he got married. I dont know how u can just turn straight but watever has anyone else heard this? Its not true right?

I haven't heard this. I honestly doubt its true.

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it seems to me like there is this universal standard look of beauty..... long flowy hair (even beyoncay, hale bare, maraiah carey spend hours turning it into something Caucasians and Latinas have) what ever happened to curly hair? even curls the curls the have are fake!
not that i am saying all those women are ugly or anything but if thats the standard then heck i'm way out of the picture....... and its making me feel terrible. i am not fat or anything, my face is clear no acne... its just that my nose isn't a ski slope, my hair is super curly and my eyes are pit black (i know that is anatomically not possible but it is the last shade of brown before black!) i'm not tall (only 5'4) and i only fit into a size 8 (sometimes!).........

this sounds cheesy but seriously with that high of a standard what are my odds to look beautiful in the eyes of someone?! if there are any odds at all...

this is really depressing ...

Wow, me and you sound a lot alike. Trust me there is nothing wrong with curly hair, dark eyes, and a little short. Have confidence in yourself girl. Your beautiful and dont let anyone tell you different.


P.S. Curls are great thats why the celebs put the fake ones on, to look like us of course. Plus, lots of guys like curly hair.


~Loverocks~

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