Q: Oka well this is my probblem.My friends and i well we are kinda falling apart, like we dont talk to eachother that much like we use to.And also we havent spend that much times with eachother it just seems like we falling apart.It all started when school started back and we been busy latly with other things and what makes it worst is that we all dont live close to eactother so that makes it hard to just go to each other houses.I just want to know what should i do.How can be become closer like we were before.I really need your help on this!

Q: I was born a natural blonde, and when i was younger it was really blonde up untill i was about 12. Then my hair started getting dark blonde almost brown, so i finally got sick of it and dyed my hair blonde for the first time around Sept. Now i have dark roots and the blonde color looks ridiculous. I was thinking about dying my hair really blonde like anna nicole smith or marilyn monroe, but im not sure where to get the dye. I've looked at walmart, and some local stores around where i live, but i don't want to buy another dye, and it doesn't come out the color i want.

Q: I'm 16 female. After a few years of wanting a boyfriend, I've decided that I'm staying single in highschool. My question is, is how bad is it to have sex with a person you are not in a relationship with? If your emotionally ready, and understand the consequences, and take pre-caustions, is it still bad? What are your opinions? Thanks!

Q: ok well for valentines day i have like NO money to spend so i was thinking of maybe getting my bf a fake rose and putting a little note in there sayin my love for him will last as long as this flower or something else we will have been dating for 6 months on valentines and and are very much in love and he is a halfway emothional guy do you think he will like it becaus ehe's doing TONS of stuff for me that idk about yet because the are surprises and i want to atleast get him something.

Q: Mmmkay , WELL...I really really really like this guy [ we'll call him bob ] and he was new a month or 2 ago and my group was the only ones who would hang with him.So he hung with us for a while , now he;s populerish , and he says I can hang wit hhim at breaks and lunch and he wants me to but I don't like the people he hangs with and I told him that and he's okay with it...but them we talk a lot and everything.

I asked him out 2 weeks ago and he said he didn't want to wreck the friendship.But I like him SO much...Also , my gy friends that I have gone out with / am comforatable with I flirt with a lot even if I don't like him.But with Bob , I'm trying to be suddle and everyone keeps sayin I'm flirting SO much with him ?

Anyways , I really want to show him that I'd be good as a more than a friend :) I need helllllp xD
BUT the problem is ... I'm flirting [apparentlly] and he still isn't doing anything diffrent and RAWR neither am I because i'M A CHICKEN Dx


Help ?
Please ?

Q: Ok, so I know I really shouldn't even think about being anorexic or anything because I know how unhealthy it is and of the risk factors, but I can't seem to shake the thought of being anorexic. It's because I am like seriously 60 pounds over weight. I am considered obese, although I don't look it. The thing is I am really not happy with how I look or feel and it disgusts me big time. Does anyone know of how I can get rid of these thoughts on wanting to be anorexic? I'm not saying that I am, because I am not....at least not yet.

Q: When i wake up i wake up with a bonar every morning..howcome?

Q: I need a slow song that truly is beautiful.
I am helping my brother propose to my best friend
And basically I need a really beautiful song (a slow song)
Its going to be playing in the background
And its going to be the song that they’ll have for the rest of their lives, you know?
These are the two people I love the most in the world
It really needs to be beautiful

He’s 26 and she’s 24 and I’m 22 so we’re not ancient but we’re not teenagers either.
So as long as the song is slow and beautiful, it will be fine.
Help!

Q: Does anyone know if it is safe to go tanning while being pregnant? I am not positive and I do not want to hurt my baby. Thanks in advance.

Q: I'm 19 female. Do you still get that clear stuff in your underwear if you are pregnant? My stomache has been acting very weird lately. I do take birth control and my boyfriend who I live with generally uses a condom or pulls out, but like I said only generally. I'm just a little worried and good prego tests are expensive I think.

Q: I am a 16 year old girl who has taken a babysitting course a few years ago and is certified in CPR. I don't have a lot of experience. I have only babysitted once before, not counting my younger sister. I babysat for a family that had a two year old and a ten year old.

Now I am babysitting for a family that has three kids: A three year old, and two 18 month olds. I only babysit for an hour or so, and the 18 month olds are napping, so unless they wake up, the only major responsiblility is the three-year-old.

My question is, is $10.00 an hour too much? I didn't ask for that much, the parents just gave it to me. I feel bad accepting it because even though I don't just watch TV when I'm babysitting, I play with the kids, it seems like a lot. But then again, I don't know much about babysitting rates, so any help would be appreciated. Thanks!

Q: Hello there,

I have a really violent brother who often for no reason throws things at me and is really quite horrible to me. I do get on really well with him, its just that sometimes he flicks and becomes some violent monster. What should I do? Is there any way that I can help him to overcome this violent side of him? Most of the time he is just fine.

Please help,

Germany

Q: okaaay so heres the story, me and my bf had reggg sex, then anal, then reg sex again in the same daaaay. welll he wore a condom and he sai dhe checked it and it didnt breaaak, but when we were having anal i felt really light headed and dizzzzzy after he stuck it in. then the following weeek my stomache was acting up so i got really sacared and took to pregnancy tests and both came out negaaative..but its been two weeks now and my stomache is really like feels like its pushed out or i get sharp pains in itttt and right under my breast bone? i dont get my period im irregualr ive only gotten it twice in my lifeee and the last time i did was last summmer..i dont get morning sicknesss or anything like that. am i paranoid or could i be pregant? im going to the doctor on monday..do you they do prenancy testing? sorry this is soo lengthy..14/f

Q: me and my girlfriend were doing stuff and she gave me a blow job and swallowed most of it but there was some left on the tip of my penis so when i put it back in my pants could it have got on my hand and when i fingered her got her pregnant.

btw there was like a 2 to 3 minutes inbetween me putting it in my pants and then me fingering her

Q: I'm from Algeria but live in Pakistan..I'am 15.. and i need serious help! so.. i have been having a crush on this guy named Bob for about 2 years now, we used to talk allot ... and last year we had a huge fight and that changed everything! so i didn't talk to him for about three or four months.. and wen i did start talking to him on the internet i also started doing other things... like i would strip for him on the web cam... i really like him! one night i was online talking to him so he told me too talk to one of his friends, his name was Ali!! so i did and I've never meet this ali guy before an he asked me out an i said yes because hes nice an hot! lol, i asked Ali why did you ask me out you've never seen me before! and he said that Bob told him that i was pretty and that hes been crushing on me for a while!! i was surprised to hear that because if he did then why didn't ask me out instead of hooking me up wit his friend!!! so a week passed and i haven't meet this Ali guy yet but we are still going out!! and so one night i was online talking to Bob and he said that he loves me!! and i said i love him too! then i asked him if i should stay with Ali or not! and he said you can... i said ok.. so we also talked the other night and just yesterday! i took pictures of myself and sent them to him and then i said lets just talk and then he started saying that i dont want to go out with a whore and that his bro knows that I'm going out with Ali and that Bob was just kidding wen he said that he loves me! i was so depressed because i really like him!! and i don't know what to do!! help... HELP SOS

Q: Okay so there is this kid i have been liking for a VERY long time. lets call him aaron.

Well me and aaron are REALLY good friends and stuff and i knew he has been liking this girl dana for a while. So one day me and him both went over our friend chris's house. And he was like flirting with me MAJORLY!! always getting so close to me. And then when we all went home chris asked aaron if he liked me and he said idk. and then chris asked aaron if he still liked dana and he said no.

but then like after that he kepty ignoring me in the hallways, and like not talking to me as much idk why. I was first on his myspace top and now im like last and the 2nd girl.

But then like dana told chris to tell aaron she likes him. and chris did and then aaron asked her outtt!!!!!!! =[


but ever since they were going out, he has been talking to me SOOO much and in the hallways he is ALWAYS trying to get my attention now, but i kept ignoring him.. but then today he moved me BACK to number one on his top!! And he is still going out with Dana.

I don't know this whole thing is so confusing. I don't know what he is trying to do. I need to figure out this guy.. Helpp!! =(

Q: Ok well I have this shop class in highschool and I think I recall the teacher saying that even if you have little cuts, report it. I THINK!

Well, this metal I had to cut was sharp and the corner gave me a little cut on my finger but hurts liek hell! Do you think it's just like a normal cut or do you think I need to do something else? I never got got by that type of material before.

Q: This is going to be a very odd question, hard to answer, and it technically has nothing to with "Spirituality" other than that I would appreciate some answers from a christian point of view. What excatly am I being taught here? All advice is welcome, though.

Well, I've always been low in confidence, but it's the past week that it's gotten extreme, I've literatly spent hours crying for beauty, praying for it, and envying those who have it. All my diary entries have been about it - and how life is without it. Today I woke up, and while looking at my reflection said "Please, make me feel beautyful today".

I went out on the town and was introduced to a french guy (a friend of a friend) who paused in the middle of a conversation at dinner, looked me in the eyes and randomly said "It's a blessing" it was weird, and I didnt know what he was talking about,, until he said "..you're eyes, you look like a princess" I said "thank you!that's so sweet" and that was it.

On my way home from the dinner.. Literally 30 seconds after I said bye to them, and stepped out of the restaurant.. an old-ish man comes up to me and said "please, miss, wait".. I thought he would ask for directions or something so I stopped. And he said "you have amazing eyes, so sweet, so pretty, where are you from?" (I've been dying for attention, to feel beautiful again.. to get stopped in the street like I did a few years ago.. so I was happy, and not creeped out at all) I said "aww thanks!" and gave a friendly smile. He asked me if I wanted to go get a drink somewhere, and that's when I got scared - "no thank you, I'm just 17 years old.." he pressured me a bit, so I started walking and he said "No, dont be scared, I promise I'm a good man, do you have pierced ears?" then he brought out earrings and almost forced me to accept them as a gift (they're still in my jacket) we talked for about 5 more minutes until I got really creeped out and made an excuse and ran. 2 minutes later I recieve a voicemail (I did not give this man my phone number!) BUT yet, it was from him. It had to had been. It was the conversation we had just had RECORDED somehow and sent to my phone, I ran as I cried, and now I got home just 20 minutes ago.

It was scary, might not sound like it, but I'm really really scared. I can not tell my parents, jut this morning they told me not to go out, and I said "you're so freaking scared of everything, how can you live life like that??" I will never be allowed out again. I already have to be home at 6 pm, and cant go out unless they've talked to the firned, know her parents and are assured there wont be any guys, if I tell them.. my very vague definiteion of a social life will be over.

So what is this? Someone's trying to tell me that its good that I'm not beautiful cause when I am creepy men come up to me? That I should appreciate not being pretty cause it might lead to rape someday? That I should never go out ever (this is the first time I've been out in forever, it was in broad day-light for gosh sakes!) why me? howcome others can be pretty and go out, and the once I do it.. this happens?

I DONT UNDERSTAND ANYTHING, can you please help me understand what's going on here? Is it all just coincedences??

Q: mkay. well i'm 16/f. The last time I had my period was April 21st. and that lasted until April 25th. and was completly over April 26th. Then, my boyfriend came over and he fingered me for the first time. Now whenever he comes over, that usually happens. I give him a handjob too. My periods supposed to come anywhere from yesterday and tuesday. I'm scared that it won't come because I heard you can get pregnant from doing handjobs and then having him finger you.
What are the chances of me getting pregnant from that? Sorry, this is an akward question for me.

thank you!

Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months in June and he and I are really in love with each other. He is always there for me and I love him more than anything! The only problem is that he has trust issues and doesn't like letting people get close because he thinks that he is always going to end up hurt. I tell him everyday how much I love him, but he gets so paranoid that I am going to leave him hurting. I want nothing more than for him to be happy and I have no intention of leaving him. He and I have discussed our future together and it's clear we want to be together. I just want to know how do I let him know that he can trust me and open up to me the way I trust and open up to him? I am 17 and he is 19. I know we are young, but my love for him is real and I know his love for me is real too.

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