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Hey! My name is Kenzie, and I am your average 14 year old girl! I have lots of friends and enjoy helping people. I like listening to music and playing my guitar and volunteering at my Local Humaine Society to get animals new homes. Hope you e-mail me and if you have any problems. Don't be shy.
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My good friend Rose just started dating my ex-boyfriend Justin. We had been broken up for quite a while, but I am still confused about how I fell about Justin, although I think I am mostly over him. I am also seeing other people. But why is it when I see them together when I go out, that I get jealous, or more upset?
It may be because there is a part of you that doesn't want to let him go. But remember that you two are over and that there are other fish in the sea.
(16 female) The problem is I have this boyfriend, whom I care about a lot but I dont really love him like he loves me. He thinks everything in our relationship is perfect but its not. We really have problems. Well, its more of i have problems with our relationship that i really need to work through. Recently, I realized that i don't want be with him any longer, but i don't know how to break up with him. I don't want to hurt him or break his heart but either way i do it i will. I just need someone to tell me a way to break up with him without me breaking his heart too badly and him never speaking to me again. And if there is a way to do this, please give me the courage to go through with it. I am soooo scared it makes no sense. I am terrified of hurting him. Pleeeeseee Heeeeelp
What you should do, is let him down easy. Tell him you think its better that you two just be friends because you need time to sort some things out. If he loves you as much as he says he does, then he will understand.
Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
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Tell your friend how the move makes you feel and that you didn't choose the way things are now. Tell her that you are sorry about moving away but if she stays mad, then your friendship wasn't anything at all.
kay well, my (old) best friend was a guy his name was ryan.. he liked me..but he loved his ex girlfriend victorea (they were going out for a year on and off) me and him were soo close.. i liked him too.. but he is going back out with victoera. me and her are not friends AT ALL, she told ryan he cant hang out with me,But he still does but he tells people he hates me,and when i ask him he said brb to me (online) and idk who to belivie my other friends or ryan. but anyway i really really wanna be his friend is there a way maybe i can say something to him that can make us friends again? or tell him i love him or some thing?? please help
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Just tell him that you really want to stay friends. Plus if they are friends on and off (or more than that) then she shouldn't really care about who he hangs out with. Only HE can make that decision. Don't tell him that you love him because Victorea can think you are trying to take him away from her but by the sound of things, she is telling him who he can and can't hang out with. That isn't right. He should make his own choices.
I’m 14/f and no one have ever asked me out on a date. I am not ugly in fact I recently learned that the boys from my old school which I left 1 ½ years ago thought I was the prettiest girl in the class. I am extremely shy and I really can’t flirt. Also usually even if I like someone I am very cold to them for a long time, it’s like a protective action. But now I just feel so lonely!
Let down that barrier and be yourself around guys you like. That's what they go for and talk to them so you begin to feel comfortable.
there's this boy in my class that's really cute but i'm too scared to talk to him about crushing even though he asked me twice if i liked him I was totally scared I kept saying no i didn't have a crush on him I don't know what to do should i kick him out of my heart and life or keep trying someone please help me
Forget about being shy. Tell him your true feelings. If he asks you, its possible that he really likes you and wants to know if you feel the same way.
Hey, does anyone know a good way to make your leg go higher in an arabesque and such? And also, how to get your split better? Thanks so much!
Stretch your legs each night and practice your routine.
what should i do? the boy that i go with use to go with my best friend a long time ago and wen we started goig out she said that she didn't like him anymore. but when they went out he didn't really like her and he cheated on her with her cousin. so after two months they broke up.
now that we have been goin togather for 5 months she has some stuff to say like that he cheatin on me and that he's just usin me for sex but i don't think that, that's true because he alwasy with me and all this other stuff that we do togather. should i break up with him so i wont lost my best friend but lose the one boy i love or should just tell him that i don't beliave her and stay with him?
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Tell him you don't believe your friend. She most likely is jealous that you are seeing someone, and she isn't. That can be typical of friends to be jealous. Ask your friend why she thinks he is cheating on you, and if she doesn't have an answer, then most likely she is jealous.
OK, ladies. i just turned 14 and i've been having my period since i was about 13 and a half. im kinda wondering about my breast size. I'm an A cup right now, like i've always been. i havn't felt any breast pain in a few months except ocasionally on my period. I'm really worried that IM NEVER GONNA GET ANY BIGGER!! i asked my mom and she said of course they will grow(shes a large c and was a smaller c before child birth naturally)but im afraid she is just saying that to make me feel better. anyway my question is, are my boobs still growing?
They are. Don't think that they will never grow because that isn't true. Everyone is different and soon you will realize that they are growing.
Sorry this is long.
My stepmother is really scaring me. She really has psychological problems. It started with little things like her moving my stuff, or ripping it up, or being jealous over my mother and father who were still friends at the time. She started coming with my father in the car every time he picked me up because she was so untrusting and thought he'd go off with my mother in that 20 minute time. I don't see them any more because of completely unrelated issues, but we started getting odd stuff through the post about a year or two ago (around when all this odd stuff started happening). Stuff like magazines writing to us saying a friend had referred us and stuff. It got worse; with items actually being ordered and sent to us - pornographic books, clothes catalogues for women over 50 or size 16+, that kind of thing. Around six months ago we recieved a parcel that said 'From Connor' on the back. Connor is my seven year old cousin. The parcel had an 18 rated horror movie in it that had obviously been watched before. We checked with Connor and his mum and they definately did not send this.
Then two nights ago, we got an envelope with 'from Ryan' (my other younger cousin) on the back and a picture of me in a swimming pool inside. We couldn't figure out why Ryan would send me a picture of myself so rang him up but his mother and him both confirmed none of them sent this envelope. The next day (yesterday) we got another one, still saying from Ryan, this time with several parts of pictures - cut out so I was the only one in the picture - of me in the same swimming pool, this time with the fragments of pictures stuck on a piece of purple card. I recognised the pool this time, it's a place I went on holiday with my stepmother and father a couple of years ago.
So, it's obvious it's from my stepmother (who really hates me and my mother, I should add). But I don't know what to do about it. Me and my mother are considering the police, but I;m not sure. I don't want her to be charged or whatever and then get all mad and come after us - because she is psychotic like that. I don't want to have to be part of witness protection or something, and there is a huge possibility that she would keep doing this or doing worse if we accused her of anything. What the hell do we do?
Thanks, and sorry it was so long.
xxx
What I would do, is call the police and tell them what has been going on. Tell them soon because she could get much worse and send you other things.
The Witness Protection Program is for people that have witnessed murder or are on a hitman list so you wouldn't need to worry about changing you identity and moving away.
Be sure to tell your Dad what has been happening because he may be able to sort these issues out along with you and your mom.
My mother and I rarely talk and I'm losing people in my life to talk to . I lost the best of friend and I can't truly converse with a lot lot of guy friends of mine. Some , no a lot of girls don't lik me . I don't know why. I feel complacent about that and me but why do they have to hold stupid whatever against me. I don't even know if it's something I did: which isn't much at all.My dad's going to be gone for 2-4 month's; I have no one to truly talk to . All these teachers are giving us projects at once and I'm so unbalanced and stressedand unmotivated . Our school is messed up when it comes to this . A guy who is arrogant that I am getting over and I don't know and don't care what he feels I just want to know why he cares so much of popularity.Another guy I am fallin' for is nice and cute and in a way I feel comfrotable around him but I'm restricting myself so I won't be the only one in love. I fear what it makes you go through and I kind of know what it makes you go through . I just feel like everything is against me and I really need help . I need advice on how to deal with all of this .
First:
Don't take in everything at once. Focus on the school work at first then once that is cleared up, you can focus on getting over your ex.
Second:
I understand that you and your Mom rarely talk, because thats how me and my Mom are. But once you do talk to her, say that you really need to discuss how you're feeling and she will understand and try to help you as much as she can. I had the same issue last month but after I figured out how to work everything out, it helped me feel a lot better.
Is it legal to have a tag cover (the tag on the back of the car) that covers up the county name?
I live in georgia by the way.
I think just to be on the safe side, you shouldn't cover it up.
I've been really close with my friend Ron for a little while now. We are both 15 and we tell each toher almost everything. Recently I ahve been feeling something more for him. We joke around though like I always give him nuggies and in return he puts me in a head lock or something. Yesterday he was towering over me just to see how much taller he is then me and I jsut wanted to lean up and kiss him. Which I might have done if my other friends were not around. I just don't know how he feels about me though. He read a poem that I wrote about him and he really liked it. So today he shows me a song he wrote and it was about his life but then in one part it said
"When times get rough his thoughts to to her, she has helped me through so much.
I will always be there
Don't let me dissapear"
I know it was about me but the second part I can't tell if the second part is saying that he'll always be there for me or that Hes always going to be there and he doesn't want to be forgotten, as if he's afraid to be forgotten. Which he knows I would never forgett him. So today I gave him another poem I ahd written about him and it had said that I never wanted him to leave and that when I move I need him to call me jsut to say hi so i know he still cares. Well he saw it and hes like "Whats this?" And I told him and his eyes sort of lit up in a good happy way. I have such confused emotions about him. I like him so much its scary I know its not love but I scare myself at how much I like him. What should I do? And do you think he might like me as a girlfriend or jsut as a friend?
I think you should tell him how you feel And he might like you in the same way you like him. He probably is just too shy because he doesn't know how you will react. Tell him your true feelings before you have an outburst!
I feel like my life can't get any lower. Everything I was good at I am no longer good at. No matter how hard I try people are always a lot better. My grades are slipping and nothing I do makes me happy. I hate my life and I just want to stay in my room and be alone forever. What do I do?
Do your best and remeber all the things you like to do.
i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God.
Read the Bible and Book Of Mormon. Pray every night,
Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's.
Books that you are interested in.
hello to get straight to the point i lost some one i loved and i dont mean a family member.im happy he moved on and im happy i have a boyfriend now to. he says i can talk to him about anything its werid to talk to him now though. and i like my boyfriend alot but i still think about my ex ALOT and i cant get him out of mine. its driving me crazy. please help
Im sorry for your loss. DON'T forget about him! Just try to think about something else that you know will always cheer you up.
Hello everyone i have a grandpa ( sorta ) well he doesnt talk to me ever i try calling him to see if he would like help around his house and garden and stuff but he says no ill ask katie to do that. On Forth of July last year i was trying to help clean up and then mii cousin ran in and spilled water all over the gradage on top of me so when she was sitting in there i did it to her and i got "grounded" to my grandpas basement by my grandpa. He has Ryan, Me , Jon , Katie , and Jessica as his grand children but he is always bragging about Ryan mii older brother and my 2 cousins Katie and Jessica its like he doesnt even notice me and my little brother. Please Help Me
You can tell your parents that it seems like he doesn't care about you and most likely they will address it to him and he will explain himself. Then, tell him that it makes you feel the way you do.
Alright heres the situation. I am in love with my boyfriend call him Brayden, I'm honestly in love with him. We dated for two months over the summer and then broke up. Today is our one month anniversry and I know that I love him. We live a state or two away from each other but we can't deny our love for each other. I just went to a new high school becuase i moved away from my old one and I met my friend, lets call him Josh. Well me and Josh have gotten really close we're not best friends but we know almost everythign about each other. He's the first person I see when I go into school and I find my heart begin to race as I think about seeing him. He's ussually the last thing I think about at night and the first when I awake. He's the only one I really talk to at my school becuase I drifted from my other friends and he jsut got over this one girl he liked. I helped him get through it telling him that if she doesn't see what a great guy he is and how amazing he is then its her loss and he deserves way better. I have been there for him though all his problems and vice versa. During the 4 months I didn't date Brayden I was in deep deep like with Josh then i stopped liking him when Brayden asked me out again becuase I was still in love with Brayden. I know its really confusing but I love Brayden but I deeply like Josh. Brayden's a state or two away and Josh is right there in my school. What should I do? .... ((Josh doens't like me, He goes for the skinny preppy girls and im a bit on the heavy side, but not real big and i'm a bit punkish ... 15/f))
Date whoever you feel is best for you. If I were you I would go for Brayden because you two seem to know a lot about each other and that is what makes a good relationship. Be a good friend to Josh and get to know him better.
A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??
This isn't wrong of you. Just because your friends like her, doesn't mean that you have to. Don't tell them how you feel if they mean that much to you. Keep it to yourself.