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kay well, my (old) best friend was a guy his name was ryan.. he liked me..but he loved his ex girlfriend victorea (they were going out for a year on and off) me and him were soo close.. i liked him too.. but he is going back out with victoera. me and her are not friends AT ALL, she told ryan he cant hang out with me,But he still does but he tells people he hates me,and when i ask him he said brb to me (online) and idk who to belivie my other friends or ryan. but anyway i really really wanna be his friend is there a way maybe i can say something to him that can make us friends again? or tell him i love him or some thing?? please help
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Just tell him that you really want to stay friends. Plus if they are friends on and off (or more than that) then she shouldn't really care about who he hangs out with. Only HE can make that decision. Don't tell him that you love him because Victorea can think you are trying to take him away from her but by the sound of things, she is telling him who he can and can't hang out with. That isn't right. He should make his own choices.
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I wouldnt tell him that you love him, just because of the way he is handling the whole situation of yall be friends, he would only use that against you. Evidentally his girlfriend knows that he use to like you as more than a friend,and she is scared that he will like you if he hangs out w/you...Just talk to him about it and if the rumors keep goin that he says he hates you more than likely hes just sayin that because he dont want his girlfriend to think hes interested in you. If he cant tell his girlfriend that he wants to be friends with you and her respect that and he wont be friends with you move on to someone else, there are better friends than that.
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She is not real smart telling him who he can and can't be friends with or talk to.He is not real mature going along with it.He is groveling at her feet like a whipped pup.I don't believe I would tell him your feelings until he gets tired of being told what to do.Just continue to talk to him online if you enjoy that and hopefully he will get tired of her soon.THEN,you can say something if you feel the need.
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well since there on and off well all you can do so you don't get on his nerves and agervate him is to just be there for him when they aren't going out. and just to let you know that girl has not right to tell him that he can't hang out with you. the only reason she did that was b/c shes jelous and scared that that friend of yours will like you instead of her.
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ask him wtf is going on. why would you want him as a friend if hes listening to his g/f. thats so rude and if he was was really your friend then he wouldnt ditch you and all. yea you can be loyal to your g/f but not to the extent where she is making you give up one of your good friends for her. they might not even go out for that much longer. my best suggestion is to talk to this "victoria" and ask her why she is being so rude. tell her you are just friends. shes obviously jelious so add that to the conversation. and there is no point in liking a guyyy who is going to totally cruch your heart by not talking to you. hope you kick victoria's ass!!
~nat~
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oki well i think that if he tells stuff to his frends bout you then when you ask him he says no is that his emarassed to talk about you in front of his friends and if you really do love him then you should go for it! good luck =) x0x
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