well i think im fun and i have lots of bestfriends.
i like to hang out and as long as i know u thats good
i was born in seattle and i moved there when i was 9 and now i live in TX i think i like TX better...i miss my old friends but i think it was a good move!
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This category probably doesn't match my questions but oh well. Anyways... I really don't have that much body hair but most of what I have is black hair. Does anyone know how to bleach my like arm hair blonde? Don't say "be happy with who you are and don't try to change your looks" but just to make it clear to yall, I am doing this for myself, not for any 1 else. Please help asap atleast answer b4 like July 9 or 10 or w/e. Please and thank you! I will rate you if you answer and if it's a reasonable answer. Thankz so much! Luv yall!
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well if your dark then you should not cuz that will look bad,but my mom she has this thing from clinique and it works so i would go to clinique and ask about some bleach thing and ask them!
hope this helps!
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my mother is very unhappy about her figure and she wishes to hide it. Are there any specific colors she can wear to make her look thinner? If So Please HELP!! Shes always so unhappy. Thanks!! (link)
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well if i were her i would go for black but then like some light colors can look good on her!so i would look around. but don't wear black all the time wear different kinds of dark colors.
hope this helps!
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I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move? (link)
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i would back off for a while!
hope this helps
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i need help im a guy and my hair is like out of control its super wavy and when i try to grow it out it compacts and wont go down how can i straighten it out or fix it please? (link)
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i would go to the hair dresser and get some tips!
and if that doesnt work take a shower in the morning and blow dry make sure you brush ur hair everyday adn then if that doesnt work GEL!
hope this helps!
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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?! (link)
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well actually waxing your upperlip doesnt hurt that much as much as plucking..so if i were you i would wax...im 13 and i've been waxing since 11 so it doesnt hurt that much...but the thing is the more you do wax the less the pain is!
hope this helps
xoxo
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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help! (link)
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i wouldn't worry that much. But all my friends at skool have b 36 and im a b 36 also and im 13 but if i were u i wouldnt worry that much!
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
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i dont know what to say on the pill part but i mean condomns work so just use those and go for it!
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I'm a teen girl going through puberty and my private has losened up. I never had sex before so it couldn't have "stretched" that way. Also, around the edges of the viginia it's turning a dark tan color. What is this and is it normal? Also, are there any exercises i can do to tighten it up?
thnx so much, i really need your help! (link)
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it's perfectly normal around 12-16 and u dont have ne thing to worry about
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ok me and this girl are pretty good friends i mean we've done sleepovers movies went to a bat mitzvah together and went trick or treatin together!! well shes jewish and im not well newayz she recently sent out her invatations.... but im not invited! i mean i thought we were friends after all of that but i guess not! i almost cried but i didnt because i found out at school! but newayz ya! and when i ask her about it she just acts like she doesnt hear me or anything! it makes me so mad bc she invited people she barely knows and then she doesnt invite me! what shud i do! (link)
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well, if she's acting liek that then obviously she was using you. I think u should tell her straight up that like she needs to not b like that.
hope this helps
aliya
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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance! (link)
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no, having a crush on a black person when your white is not wrong.
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14/female Okay well this is going to be long, so I'm just going to warn you ahead of time, but please help. Well, a friend of mines mother has tumors in her head. Well about a month ago they were removed and there was this tube thing that the doctors put in her. Well less than a week ago the tumors came back and she had to go to the hospital for surgeory. I was pretty close w/ my friends mom and it's hard for me and one of my other friends to deal with it, and so were thinking about how our friend who's going through it is feeling. Well the girl who's mother is in the hostpital (Brittany) is being checked for tumors, and we just found out that she has one and will be getting her head shaved. Well a few of us girls (about 5) and a few close guy friends (about 10) were thinking of shaving our heads/cutting our hair really short. If you were the girl Brittany, how would you react to that? Would you think it's kind of mean/too hard to handle, or do you think it's a good gesture? I am so willing to do it because it's such a great friend, but I want some other opinions, the guys are defninitley doing it, and I got her a bunch of x-mas gifts and we've talked a lot. Brittany is very sensative when it come to her mom and her own problems and we think she'll either be sooo happy that she'll shed some tears of joy, or sooo sad that she won't be able to face us 'bald'. I know you guys don't know her, but if it were you, how do you think you'd respond. Again, I apologize for the lenght, I just wanted to add some detail, and sorry if it's confusing I tried to make it not confusing, but it still sounds that way to me. Thanks in advance for any help. (link)
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well if i were Brittany then i kno that i would obviously not be happy, because to me it would feel like my friends were mocking me adn making fun of me. but then i dont know Brittany but i'm just telling you my opinion
hope this helps
aliya
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Ok. I was friends with someone for 3 years. Then last year during our Freshman year alot of crap happened between her, and one of my friends. After that, someone told her I said stuff behind her back. And I didn't. But she believed that person over me, so now we aren't friends. But I guess that's not really a question, but I wanted to tell you, and see if you had anything to say about it. (link)
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well, not to be rude but ok if she believed someone over you then maybe that person was better friends with her than you.
aliya
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Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think? (link)
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I think that if you really wanna give them a present then you should give it for New Year's. Just say its a New year's present. thats how i do it
hope this helps
aliya
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Well!My friend a while ago started cutting herself, but then she stopped. Today I hit her arm and she said ouch. I knew right away what she did because she gave me this look. Then she laughed about it. I honestly don’t think that it is funny. She is one of my best friends and I don’t need her going off and hurting herself. When she laughs about it, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want me to care or anything. She showed me her arm and it looks pretty bad and shes like ooo its not that bad. I don’t want to tell an adult but she has been pretty depressed latly and I don’t kno anymore if I should continue helping her about it or just give her her own space. (link)
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what you should do is u should tell her to get some help. And if you are her best friend then you should tell a parent because she shouldn't cut herself. Ive lost a friend because of that. Also tell her that w/e she is going thru can't be so bad that she wants to die.Tell her that god never promised to make things easy but he did promise that he will never give u something so big that u cannont handle. To make her stop from hurting herself and others you should get her a punching bag or something to ease her anger.
Hope this helps
Aliya
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!! (link)
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well, if he likes money then i guess you could say that if we dont have children right now we can save enough money and have children later. Also be like I don't wanna go thru the pain right now. If he loves you then he will not want you to go thru the pain.
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My moms new boyfriend has a 13 year old daughter and she is the only one in the household that I can talk to, even though she is 3 years younger than me, she is very mature for her age. She is a great person and I talked to her about everything and we shared some great moments together. Here lately she has thrown me away, its like she doesnt want to be around me anymore. i feel like an inconvienence. I feel like there is no reason to stay here anymore, she is the one that gave me the courage to go on living! Now I want to die, just thinking that for some reason she hates me. I am a cutter and have attempted suicide several times in the past. i feel like I am a failure now and have no reason to live! (link)
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EVERYONE HAS A REASON TO LIVE. And trust me i lost a friend to suicide so don't go there. Ok first you need to ask her what her problem is, if she walks off then maybe you have done something mean to her or she found something about you. Did u do anything to her? Then we all know that at the age of 13 things are going around...you should know what i mean...every girl goes thru that...
hope this helps
xoxo aliya
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OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks (link)
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well u should first of all talk to him in person and if he doesn't listen then he totally isn't worth it
aliya
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what would you do if a 16 year old guy asked you out and you were 13?
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well i would first make sure that he's not the bad type, like drinks and he does bad things to girls. Then u should go on dates but only for movie and a pizza nothing serious like at his house or like somewhere in the car or something.
hope this helps!
~aliya~
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ok me and my best friend have been friends for like a year. she transferred to our skool 2months into the school year during our freshman year. well when she first moved here she still dated her this guy from her old town which is only like 20miles away...maybe less. well they broke up and no its been like 9months since they broke up and lately she has been sayin that i should go out with him. from what she has told me about him he sounds like the kind of guy i would date and i think we could be good together but she is my best friend and i dont kno whether i should date him or not. i mean there is the best friend rule..no dating ur best friends ex...idk i have brought it up to her and how im afraid if i date him it will hurt out friendship but she insists that it would be fine bc she wasnt in love with him and she thinks he and i would be good for eachother and stuff. i just dont kno wut to do....plz i need sum serious advice on this one... ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~ (link)
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well, I think that you should go ahead and date him. But make sure it's completely ok with ur friend. And maybe she just wants you to date him so she knows how he's doing.And take it this way that maybe she's helping you get a good bf!
hope this helps!
aliya
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