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HEYY evveryone! okay soooooo...i am a very open and caring person, i love to speak my mind so dont take it as if im being mean! because im just trying to help. when im older i would love to be a psychologist so this is great practice. dont be afraid to inbox me with any questions! i would more than love that.advice
My ex is really shy, but sometimes i think i still have feelings for him and i want him to feel the same. how do i get him to want me?
i think you should start textingg him so he remembers how things used to be and miss you and then he would want to talk to you more and see where things go from there.. :)
hope i helped ! inbox me if u have any questions
16/f
There is this boy in my class who always insults me for to me unknown reason.I never did anything to him,I didn't even notice he was there until he started insulting me.Of course I didn't keep quiet,I insulted him back and stuff.Then I tried to ignore him.Then I tried to reason with him.Nothing worked.We're very different by the way...I'm the smart and pretty one(not being egoistical here) and he's a troublemaker,he drinks and smokes a lot,also has bad grades...but from 23 other girls in class he's picking only on me.I don't think he likes me cause if a guy likes a girl he'd never treat her that way.But I don't understand why he acts the way he does.He claims that I'm ridiculous and he never looks at himself first.
i think you just have to stick up for yourself.
you dont even have to insult him backk.
iff he says shit about you
just turn aaround and be like "SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU FAGGG"
and he probably will...
haha
you cntt be nice to kids like that or else they step all over you.
hope i helped!
if u have any questions just ask.
well i got a big nose and i dont know how to lower it haha but i keep pullen dem gurls but i dont know what to do
wait you have a bigg nose and you get girls?.....
so whats the problem? lol
19/f
I grew up with pin straight hair until puberty and then it went really really curly. I used to straighten it a lot when I was in high school but stopped the everyday straightening about three years ago. I now straighten it like once a week when I go out with friends. I wear my hair curly during the week using moose and hair spray (not a lot just a bit so the curls aren't crunchy). I literally wake up, put my head in the shower, add a little product and walk out the door, that's how easy it is to curl my hair. Recently, the curls aren't holding. I didn't change shampoos/conditioners or styling products. Half my hair goes straight and the other half is a little curly (but no where near where it was before). Is there any reason why my hair is acting like this? It's not damaged I get the dead ends cut off every few months I just don't understand how it could be so easy to curl one day and now I can't even get half the curls I used to.
im not really sure why your hair is doing that all of a sudden but i know a way to help you out with even curls!
1. shampoo only twice or 3 times a week
(curly hair is already dry and if you shampoo it everyday it makes it more dry)
2.Condition everyday
3.after getting out of the shower towel dry hair for only around 3 min.
4. put your usual product that work best for you
5. MOST IMPORTANT STEP
**BUY A DIFFUSER**
this is how it looks if you havent seen one
http://frizzyhairproducts.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/lipton-diet-green-tea.jpg
it is used for spreading air through your hair evenly which prevents frizz and makes your curls even, shiny, and bouncy!
it is very cheap :)
hope i helped !
if you have any questions just ask
Do guys get turned off if a girls never made out with anyone?
no i dont think they get turned off.
but i do they they get turned off if your bad at making out...
not sure though! im a girll haha.
This is my last attempt to safe my marriage. I have tried and tried and no luck. I asked my husband to attend a marriage counsling session with me. He said yes unwillingly though. The day came and he decided to tell me he didnt want to go he wanted to try and work things out our self. Obviously weve been trying that and its been a no go. So this time I wrote down all the stuff that has been bothering me and he wrote his. We also wrote good things down. Well he asked me about what he wrote. I said I dont 100% agree with what you wrote. I asked him about what I wrote he said.. its nothing I havent heard from you before I said should that not be telling you something then if i have to keep saying it to you. What can I do to make this through his head. I am unhappy but i truely love him.
loook... i might be young and all but dont give up on your marraige. keep tryingg to fix things and if things get bettter than im happy for you! but if they get worse then you both should probably go to counseling if you want to save your marraige and be happy again.
hope i helped!
if u have an questions just ask:)
So lately my friend has become really close with a girl from her work. She hasn't blown me off for her, but she's postponed our plans a few hours later several times lately. And while doing this, she was arranging plans with the other girl, although she's not aware that I know this.
Today, we were hanging out and she informed that she needed to be home early because she had college work to do. So an hour after I find out that she's at her house. I can't help by being slightly offended by this and I'm wondering if I should confront her?
i went through the same thing.
the thing i did wrong was not let her know and that made the problem worse because it kept on happening.
dont make my mistake.
call her or ask her to come over and talk about it with her it will make you guys closer and you will feel so much better.
if u have any questions just ask :) ! gooodluck
16/F
I've had a boyfriend for about a month now and we've liked eachother forever now too. My mom doesn't know, and I think its because I'm scared to tell her. I know she wont care, cause she's my mom, and she loves me and just wants the best for me. I dont know why it makes me scared to tell her things. It's just not that that I don't tell her. I barely tell her anything. I want that to change. I love my mom dearly, but I don't know how to change. How do I do it?
im going through the same thing as you girll... lol
but this is what i would do, i would take her to your rooom and close the dooor and say mom i need to tell you somthing.
then tell her. it willl bring you both closer and you will be able to talk about anything.
or you could even go out to dinnner and talk about it.
my bf dumped me because i wouldn't say i love him...its a long story but the short of it is that a while back a guy really hurt me and ever since then i've dated lots of guys, but never loved them. its never been a problem before even for this guy i dated 7 months. but he is obsessed with me and he knew about how i am but randomly it got brought up and yea..were done now. since then i just cant stop crying over it and i never cry..i'm so hurt and i don't know what to do. i need advice a.s.a.p cause just writing this is making me cry again:(
YOU DO LOVE HIM. your just scared to love someone. but dont be scared if hes the right guy. if hes obbsessed with you that means he loves you tooo and its not a bad thing.
you really shouldd talk to him and TELL HIM you love him and want to get back.
This boy that I told me he liked my hair curly, I wore it curly for like 3 days, then I made it straight and he noticed and pointed it out. My friends are like "wow, he notices the little things, that's so cute, he totally likes you" Do you think that's true? I also catch him looking at me a lot, we'll be in practice, and he'll look in my general direction so much that I don't even want to look his way. He'll also walk with me to classes. Do you think he likes me? thanks!
not sure about like cuz theres not enough info, but he def has a crush on you :).
I'm a junior and I've been on Junior Varsity for 3 years. I play Outside Hitter and I have good hits, good serves, and my passes have improved every year. I played club in 8th grade and would love to do it again this year. But I'm afraid because I'm only 5'4"-5'5".. and I want to tryout for this club in Dallas, TX: http://www.victoryvbc.org
Do you think I should? I have no idea what to do. I'm really committed and everything but I don't want to embarrass myself. I don't know why I wasn't on Varsity this year, ugh. Half the sophomores and all the other Juniors in volleyball are in Varsity. I want to get better for the next volleyball season though, and show people that I have improved a lot. But I'm kinda afraid to be playing at the 17s level cause what if everyone is really tall and out blocks me all the time? I can block even though I'm short but there is still a disadvantage
Ugh what should I do? does that look like a good club or should I think about going somewhere else.. do you have any suggestions? thanks
NOOOOOOOO! this girl in my schoool is 4'11" and she made it !
18/f
help! i'm caught in between 2 guys who i both love so much..
here's the story. so i went out with this guy (A) for a year and we were great. but then he broke up with me last spring. Then I started dating a new guy (B) and we have been going out for 3 months. B and I have gotten into a lot of fights lately. and they haven't even been fights about serious things.. its always about really stupid things. like he got mad at me for "bailing" on him when we were supposed to hang out but i felt sick so i went home. we've had so many fights over really ridiculous things, so i broke up with him. Now A wants to get back together with me and he told me that he's really sorry and learned his lesson. he broke up with me because he didnt want a relationship and his feelings toward me changed and he didnt love me as much. but when he broke up with me and dated another girl, he really missed me and thats when he realized he wanted me back.
Here's a brief description of each guy
A- emotional/depressed. has a lot of crap going on in his life. doesn't really have many friends to turn to for support. he didnt really treat me like a queen, like buying me gifts randomly or making me something cute like a sweet text or a love letter. But I care about him sooo unbelievably much.. he always talks about how if he were to disappear, things would be better. but i cry everytime he says something like that because i cant imagine life without him. he's a great guy and i care so much about him. i would fly across the world to see him or swim the arctic ocean for him.
B- super sweet/corny/romantic. he always spoils me and makes me feel really special. he's the first guy who i actually fought in public with (i'm normally a shy girl who doesnt like to argue or yell in public) so i guess thats good? because i got out of my bubble and maybe was more open that way?? instead of shy and hiding my feelings? i'm not sure if thats a good or bad thing. he also makes me feel good. like if i'm crying, he will hold me and i just know that he doesnt care if my makeup is smeared on my face.. he just cares about me. he's really protective over me.. not too overprotective, but i feel safe around him.
also idk if this really matters but my parents know A and his family very well. they work with his parents. so they trust A more than B. for example- they would let me go over to A's house but when i ask to go to B's house they wont let me.
so yeah... i'm torn in between 2 guys.. what do i do? is it better to be with the guy who i've been with for a year and i care a lot about him, but he doesnt really treat me like i'm special? or do i go to the guy who i've been dating for 3 months and really really cares about me and makes me feel special but sometimes complains about what we dont have?
oh last thing.. i feel bad for A. He's been wanting to get back with me for such a long time and he gets his hopes up, but when it wouldnt happen he would get hurt and upset. so i kinda feel like he deserves me more than B because he's been through so much and just wants someone to love him/me. but at the same time i feel like i should go back to B because the only reason we broke up was because he complained too much and he said he would change.. so its like.. who do i go to??
please help me. i'm desperate for advice. this has been going on for about 4 days now and they are both going nuts because they want me to pick someone. I'm probably the most UNselfish person ever.. i always take someones feelings into consideration. dont tell me to pick what makes me happiest or what my heart wants, because either way i'm going to think about another persons feelings and take them into consideration.
I just really dont know what to do. I talked to my bff about this and she just said follow my heart. but I dont know what i want. Please please please voice your opinion. like i said, i'm desperate. THANK YOU!!!
oh wow... hahaha
okay i think that you should really go to B becaause he only fights with you about stupid things because he cares so much about you and just wants everything to be perfect. You both can fix things right away by just realizing that whatever your fighting about isnt worthit and just stopping it. but with A he said he didnt want a relationship thats why he broke up with you before.... well he could do that again and he could hurt you alot and then you wont have A OR B!
i think since A has been there longer you should keep him there as a friends because you both obv. need eachother in each of your lives. it doesnt have to be in a relationship lovey dovey way. it should be a friendly always there for you way.
hopppe i helped! :) if u have an questions dont be scared to ask!
Ok so the other day i had the scariest dream... i dreamt i cut open a persons brain and fried it for my brother and sister to eat the whole time dreaming it i was gagging and i was also doing it in real life... i ended up throwing up and choking on it while i was still sleeping... later that night i dreamt someone was trying to kill me one of the guys were my boyfriend any ideas why i am dreaming wierd dreams?
okay welllll idk about your first dreamm.... haha
but im pretty goood at interpreting dreams and the one with your boyfriend either means hes gonna hurt you (not physically but emotionally) so just becarful
if you have any questions dont be afraid to askk !
i want to start tanning again, but the last time i did a couple years ago, i had some problems with it. my back got darker than my front, and my sides didnt get tan at all, and neith did under my arms. so i just have a few questions. :)
are all tanning beds the same? do they turn you orange for a while, then you get tan? ( i turned a little orange when i did it.)
could the reason i turned orange be because of the lotion i was using? should i not use a lotion? i was thinking that maybe i could use this lotion in there: http://www.deepsixintl.com/images/thumbs/HTnew4lotion.jpg i use that when i lay outside sometimes, and it always seemed to work really well. or should i just get a super good lotion that's made for the tanning bed?
any tips or just anything that anyone can tell me would be greatly appreciated. :)
okay i ALWAYS used to have these problems.
the only wayy that your wont and uneven tan is if you go in the standup bed not the laydown one.
when your in the standup there should be a place over your head where you hold onto so that it tans your whole body evenly. (even your sides)
and the for tanning lotion. you have the one with a bronzer in it and you need to spread that one out VERY evenly. but i suggest you use a tanning lotion that doesnt have a bronzer in it.
AND DONT USE REGULAR TANNING LOTION THAT YOU USE TO TAN OUTSIDE YOUR POOL WITH.
its not healthy and it wont work.
hopefully that helped:) if u have any questons to be afraid to ask!
i want to remove all pimples from my face.and also i want my face to shine in a healthy way
this is what i do and it seems to work...
1. wash your face every morning and night with face scrub/wash
2.after washing face PAT YOUR FACE DRY with a towel
(dont wipe your face because that irritates the skin)
3. when is dry put a moisterizer so your face isnt dry.
4. DONT TOUCH YOUR PIMPLES unless its a white head. then i would pop it... lol
HOPE THAT HELPSS ! give it a week and your face should be clearing upp. :)
if you have any questions dont be afraid to ask!
I am a female senior in highschool and I currently like a guy who is a freshman. He's three years younger than me. Is that wrong? What should I do? I'm afraid to tell anybody because I think I'll get teased, but on the other hand I really like the guy and hes way mature for his age :) Help! Im so confused.
I think that since your a senior you should just stay good friends with this freshman because next year you will be going to college and there will be SOOOO many more guys out there.
My ex boyfriend (who broke up with me 3 months ago) text me saying he still loves me and can't get over me. But he isn't sure what he wants. He apologised for how he's treated me since we broke up and the day later he text me again saying he did mean what he said yesterday.
I'm so confused :/ What does he want? Attention?
well it is hard to get over someone you love.
i think that if you still love him, that you should try things again with him only if you both take it slow and dont make the same mistakes you guys did in your previous relationship.
or the second option would be good friends.
What do you talk about after sex? I mean right after too like while your still lying there. I just feel like it would be really awkward. Like now what? Are there any topics that are generally more appropirate for the situation then others?
17 female
I feel like if it is your boyfriend you would just cuddle and talk about anything since your comfortable with him. BUT if it is a random guy.... hahhaha you should really just leave because it probably would be awk.
My girlfriend just broke up with me and we were both really sad. I'm an 18 year old male and she is 18 as well. she is the first girl i've had sex with. after a few days she told me i have to fight with her and talk to her more and we will get back together. i asked her how i'm doing and she said very good. but she has been really weird lately. she said i can't rush her with these things when i just asked how i'm doing. i love her a lot and she says she loves me too. but it just doesn't seem like she does. i'm getting more sad and more sad everyday and idk what to do.
aww i think you should just give her some space, and she will miss you not always being there, thereforr she will want you back.