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im so hurt:(
my bf dumped me because i wouldn't say i love him...its a long story but the short of it is that a while back a guy really hurt me and ever since then i've dated lots of guys, but never loved them. its never been a problem before even for this guy i dated 7 months. but he is obsessed with me and he knew about how i am but randomly it got brought up and yea..were done now. since then i just cant stop crying over it and i never cry..i'm so hurt and i don't know what to do. i need advice a.s.a.p cause just writing this is making me cry again:(
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YOU DO LOVE HIM. your just scared to love someone. but dont be scared if hes the right guy. if hes obbsessed with you that means he loves you tooo and its not a bad thing.
you really shouldd talk to him and TELL HIM you love him and want to get back.
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It sounds like he aint theonly one having feelings. every one gets hurt bad i was n a 3 year relationship in loved this guy with all my heart and he cheated and everything else but you cant let the pass effect your future if you do you will never be happy if i were yoou id tell the guy im sorry and you do have feelings for him or you do love him getting hurt is apart of life no matter what you cant run from it
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If you don't feel something in your heart than you shouldn't say it as it lacks conviction and honesty. You KNOW that so you couldn't just say it. Perhaps this relationship of 7 months was never on stable ground.
He shouldn't be leaving you over something like this when you told him the reason. he should have known and not to get hurt because of your past and people burning you. Pledging love and outright devotion to someone isn't to be done lightly.
When you say "obsessed" is it an unnatural thing that made you feel uncomfortable inside? If so than maybe its for the best as none of this sounds remotely healthy.
It may take awhile to get over the feelings associated with breaking up but I'm sure there's bound to be the RIGHT guy walking into your life sooner or later that's a better fit for you as this guy if "obsessed" or "in to you" would respect that you couldn't say those words even if it hurt his feelings a bit. Don't fret over him or this. It all will pass and be ironed out.
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