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i REALLY like him!!!
13/f
12/m
ok so theres this guy who i really like. he is nice sweet. yells out that im beautiful in the middle of class. has asked me out twice. texts me almost everyday even thought it cost him 40 cents a text and he is really nice. but ive had 2 say no wen he asked me out because my parents wont let me have a boyfriend. he even said hell wait 2 years 2 be able 2 go out with me in high school what should i do??? and i cant go out with him and not tell my parents because 1.) i wont b able 2 go on any dates with him
2.)if my parents find out ill lose my fone my ipod my tv tha laptop tha computer ect.
so please help me. thankyou
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Well you are kind of young, from a parent's perspective. When I was 13 my parents definitely didn't let me date, and even now, at 17, my dad still gets a little tense in the face at the idea of me having a boyfriend. Is it possible for you two to just "date" at school? I feel like middle school relationships probably don't really require dates or any of that. Anyhow, if you wanted to hang out with him outside of school, you could always go with other people so as not to make it look suspicious. I'm not advocating for you to go behind your parents' backs, but I think the main concern for parents is that you'll somehow get "hurt" either by the guy or by the heartbreak. Relationships are tricky and especially now there is so much pressure to do things that you may or may not be ready for. I'll spare you the rest of the lecture. Point is: Your parents probably aren't going to change their minds anytime soon, so your best bet is to just settle for what you can do. Have a school boyfriend and maybe go to school dances and out with friends from time to time. Make the best of it! It can still be fun and eventually you can really date a boy.
Take care <3
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i know what you're going through because i am 17 and my parents wont let me have a boyfriend! so you should meet up with him like go out with your group of girl friends to the mall or something and tell him to meet you there and anyways you'll get to see him in school its hard but the truth is your parents will never agree to it at this age so for now you'll just have to see him in school and whatever chance you get out of school try not to get caught!
best of luck
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