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Does he hate me or...?
16/f
There is this boy in my class who always insults me for to me unknown reason.I never did anything to him,I didn't even notice he was there until he started insulting me.Of course I didn't keep quiet,I insulted him back and stuff.Then I tried to ignore him.Then I tried to reason with him.Nothing worked.We're very different by the way...I'm the smart and pretty one(not being egoistical here) and he's a troublemaker,he drinks and smokes a lot,also has bad grades...but from 23 other girls in class he's picking only on me.I don't think he likes me cause if a guy likes a girl he'd never treat her that way.But I don't understand why he acts the way he does.He claims that I'm ridiculous and he never looks at himself first.
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If you are very disappointed by his remarks or even if you are not, there's one great way out.
Listen to this very carefully. Whenever he says something bad about you, then you should say that yes, you're like that. For instance, if he ever says that you aren't beautiful (which i don't think is true! Ain't i right?! ), then you should say that yes, i know that i am very ugly. I am uglier than the ugliest. And that i shouldn't live with this face. I am very much ashamed with this kind of ugly face. Be sure to repeat that word ugly (or whatever word HE mentioned to bully you or make you feel bad) and this will surely make him feel that he did very wrong in saying that stuff to you. Then he will apologise. He may not apologise for the first time. But i am sure he will. Because at the first time he will be surprised and would still be in confusion that whether you are really disappointed or you are just joking). But it will surely help.
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Don't stoop to his level. He probably thinks that because you're an achiever, you're full of yourself and need to be taken down a peg. When you drop your pretty, nice self to start throwing ugly, mean insults at him, it gives him satisfaction. He sees you drop from the "little miss perfect" tier.
Some people think that being a high achiever is weird, and that anyone who is 'perfect' is just begging to be taken down. He might never stop.
Keep being polite. Say something along the lines of "I don't know what you're talking about" or "I'm done discussing this" or "This conversation is over. You can speak to me when you have something civil to say". It may not stop him, but it will definitely make you look better in front of other people, and it puts you at zero fault in case a teacher gets involved.
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i think you just have to stick up for yourself.
you dont even have to insult him backk.
iff he says shit about you
just turn aaround and be like "SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU FAGGG"
and he probably will...
haha
you cntt be nice to kids like that or else they step all over you.
hope i helped!
if u have any questions just ask.
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