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What do you talk about after sex?
What do you talk about after sex? I mean right after too like while your still lying there. I just feel like it would be really awkward. Like now what? Are there any topics that are generally more appropirate for the situation then others?
17 female
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I feel like if it is your boyfriend you would just cuddle and talk about anything since your comfortable with him. BUT if it is a random guy.... hahhaha you should really just leave because it probably would be awk.
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I think, if your meant to be together, it shouldn't be awkward. It should feel special and comfortable. Even afterwards.
I, myself, have not yet had sex, but I know that you should do it when you are ready and with the right guy. I think you should just talk about anything. Try not to let him you feel awkward. It may make him feel insecure.
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after sex it's hard to come up with something to talk about my advice crack a joke to lighten the mood or tell him how great that thing he did to you was.
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Hi,
You could talk about almost anything that you feel comfortable talking about. I find that talking about what you liked about the sex and complimenting him on a good job, makes the moment seem less tense.
Most guys just want to lay there or sleep after sex, so if you compliment him and ask him what he liked he should be more engaged afterwards. Some guys might not want too much talk after sex, so if you can get him to cuddle that tends to be the most enjoyable for the both of you. You can talk about what you two could do later or what he wants most right then. Just talking about anything (having words in the air) will help keep the moment going. Tell him what you would like and see how he responds. Give eachother back massages, it will be sure to bring up a good convo <3
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You dont have to talk about anything. After sex you should be tired enough that talking isnt really what your thinking about it.
If your guy is into cuddling you can always do that.
I would suggest after sex though you go pee...so you dont get a UTI. Grab some water for you and your guy, and go back and lay down.
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