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Ok, I like someone and they are a senior in high school. I know that we will never be together, but I can't help getting that funny feeling in my stomach whenever I am around them. Whenever they talk to me I feel like I am on top of the world. I don't want that feeling to go away. When I see them with someone else, I get jealous and I don't like being like that. What should I do?

There really isnt anything you can do. You cant control your feelings. The only thing you can really do is get him all alone and tell him how you feel about him and if he feels the same you guys should try dating and see how it goes and if he doesnt the only thing you can do is hope maybe hell change or move on...Hope I helped let me know who things go...

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ok tomorro night my dad and i are going out for a steak dinner and maybe some shopping. My friend tutored me for free a few times, which was really nice of her. My mom suggested me taking her tomorro.. my dad said he didnt mind even though he did mention he'd rather it be just the two of us. What should i choose to do?

Well it all depends...If you and your dad barely ever see each other or maybe you do and just dont spend time together it should be just you and him but if you and him see each other quite a bit and spend quite a bit of time together bring along your friend...

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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

Its normal...

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im 14.. My ex boyfriend ( of 9 months) is now going out with this other girl who is his best friend. I still love him very much.. and im almost positive that he still has major love feelings for me (but extremely sectretly and doesnt want to show it..you can just tell). Anyways, i love him so much, but sometimes he's not the best guy for me, but i can NOT GET over him . :( .. its so confusing but plz help! what do i do?

Follow your heart...thats the best advice I can give you...Im me with anymore quetions...

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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?

No you guys may just be bisexual...or bi-curious?

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Ok i slept with make-up on..stupid i know..and now my eyes are sore..how long will it take for the soreness to go away?

It should only be about a day...its ok we all do that sometimes...Let me know if you have any more questions about it

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I am 14 and a freshen in high school. I live in a small town where girls have been friends since they first started school and they dont really like to hang out with anybody but their crew. The popular girls share a lot of the same interests as I do and I really want to become friends with them but they seem as if they could care less. Most guys say I am wicked hot and thats what I though it took to become popular.I want to know how to become close friends with the popular girls also want to know how to become popular.
Sincerly,
Danigurl

Hun,
Dont worry about being popular it is nothing but DrAmA and trouble...

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hey i need help i really dont know what to do..ok i liked this guy lets call him bo and my best friend knew that and she knew we were talking and she told me the other day that they were talking i was like whoa and she told me that she was going to tell him she liked this other guy better lets call him dru.well we had a party the other night and she was with bo and she left with him then the dru came over and he was pissed cause she wasnt there and she came bak and found out that he was ther and she started crying then the bo left and my friend and dru cuddled all night long ...then the next day after she told me that she was going to tell bo she liked dru instead i read her awaymessage and it said i love you bo i was like u stupid hoe and she told me to get over him and then i was talking to my other friend and she told me that my best friend was going out with dru but when i talked to her bo was over at her house...i dont know what i should do i mean she was my best friend and now she has the guy i liked

OMG!!!!!! You should tell "Dru"...and beat her ass!! lol

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I want to get a cell phone. My mom says if I can pay for it I can get one. Where can I get a inexpensive pre-paid flip phone? Right now I have like $30-$35 dollars. I know that isn't enough but I'm going to keep saving.

Well the only thing I can say is I know you cant get one for anywhere under 150...and minutes are SOOO expensive...but get the cheapest phone u can find I recommend Samsung or Motorola (cell phone comapnies) for the phone...and Virgin mobile for ur minutes...

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Okay, so some of you may remember me asking a question about going out with a guy 2 days after I broke up with another one. Well, I took that advice and now Ricky and I have been dating upwards of a month.

But lately I've been having second thoughts! Like, everyone I talk to says that we make a weird couple, and I'm starting to agree with them! Like, he's the Great American Redneck (seriously), with almost the entire stereotype of the word! He goes hunting, fishing, drinking, and wears camoflage(sp?) to school, and is in LOVE with country music. He wants to be a mechanic, loves racing and cars. He's like, the complete OPPOSITE of my type. AND he's obsessed with me!

And I'm so much different. I'm the, I guess you could say, rocker chick/goth. I do like country music, but I'd take a good metal/rock song over a country song any day of the week. I can't STAND hunting or camping of any kind, and I will not TOUCH beer. Yes, I'd love to know how to change a tire and possibly fix a few common engine malfunctions, but other than that, I really don't care much about cars. If it runs, GOOD. If it doesn't, OH WELL.

It's not that I don't like him, 'cause I really do. It's just that he's so different from me, and I'm just not sure. I've never dated someone like him. All the guys I've dated have pretty much been "bad boys" or something like that.

My question is, should I stay with him despite our differences? I do like him, but it's just... Strange.

I agree with miss_adriauna juss think things through for a few days all alone...no Ricky, No friends...Just you. And then see where ur mind is and your heart.

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ok i have this ex who is always trying to get back with me but is also always hitting me and leaving marks. I know it makes me sound stupid but i still keep coming back to him, i cant help it i still like him. Is there any advice someone can give me out there and by the way this is monkeygirls friend not her!!

Hun, I wish I could help you I really do I was in a relationship just like that but the only thing I can tell you is get out...soon. He can seriously hurt you...it starts with lil marks and leads to broken bones and scars...IM me with any further questions and let me know ur decision...

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hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad!

Well hun I am going thru the exact same thing and I am telling you know save ur self the heart break again...my ex did that shit and i just found out he had a gf!! Well IM me if u wanna talk...

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Okay i really need help from someone whos good at finding things out online. i suck at researching things on google and all the other search engines, i can never find what i'm looking for. my friend and i are trying to find an address for a company who makes souvenirs that have people's names on them. if anyone knows an address, or could find one, or tell me how, please let me know : )

I would help but I can never find em either lol

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ok i am best friends with a really popular girl but it seems like everytime we hang out she wants to invite guys along. It can never be just us hanging out as a girls night. I think that maybe shes just using me. What should i do?

well the only thing I can say is follow ur heart and Im me if u have any questions and let me know how it goes k hun?

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I'm 13/f and I'm a little over 105 pounds. This is pretty normal, and I'm happy with my body, but my tummy has been a little pouchy lately and I want to know how trim it down because my uniform for track is spandex and is really tight and I don't like my stomach sticking out. If you have any ideas what I can do-----plz help!!!!!!

its part of pueberty and its normal...theres really nothing u can do about it but eat better...

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ok... there is this guy at school and I called him once and from then we started talking every night and he started to like me and I started to like him too.. so then he asked me out.. and I said no, because with the nights we were talking we talked about not going out with ne body until Highschool.. so then we just keep talking and he asks me out 2 more times after that and I said no to both.. so we were supposed to meet eachother and he ditched me.. the next day he told my friend that it was over between us.. I still like him.. What should I do????? PLEASE HELP???

Well if you like him why didn't you say yes to him...I understand your position sweetie but if you honestly expect a guy to wait for you then you need to think about that...Guys are not known to wait around for girls. Its us that do the waiting...Sorry...Im me with anymore questions...

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i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true?

those arent true friends hun...if they are going around spreading rumors about u that arent even true they are not ur real friends and i suggest getting new ones...feel free to IM me with anymore questions.

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I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor?

it wont hurt the baby

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I am sick with the flu and my grandmother want to give me some medicine that they used to use in her childhood days.Viniger and greentea.how can i get out of this?quick i am getting my next treatment in 30 minutes!

throw up on her...and blame it on the medicine

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i always have dark bags underneath my eyes. they used to only be there if i havent had much sleep, but now you can always see them. does anyone know how to make these go away or know of any good makeup or something that would cover it up?

you put like a shimmery glittery eyeshoadow under ur eyes...

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