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♥hey guys, my name is kaylene and i kinda like giving advice. i don't give a ton of it though bc i do have a life, school, track, friends, family..ya kno, typical teenager life..

i'm up to meeting new people;;oh yahh, dont be shy about asking questions!!

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advice

i have two questions about figure skating
i just started a month and a half ago and im a pre alpha almost alpha :) but i was wondering after you completed beta, gamma, delta, and epsilon do you go to freestyle??
whats the difference between freestyle and the classes in greek alphabet??
and once you start skating when do you learn an axel?? (like a year later etc)

thank you

I don't know anything about figure skating.

google it

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hey i am 14 5'8 and 115 lbs. im very skinny for my age and height and recently ive lost 5 pounds in 3 or 4 days. im scared that im really sick but i dont know whats worng

its not uncommon

and you shouldn't weigh yourself all the time! girl stay off the scale.

probally water weight, or from your period

my weight flexes about 3-5 lbs from day to day.

its very normal..but yes if it continues, see a doc

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ok so i probally sound stupid for asking this but what does it mean when someone pops your cherry i dont get it


stupid probally but help anyways

ya i agree with the other folks...but

sex isn't the only way to pop it.

your can do it while riding a bike, riding a horse, and many things.

yahh just google it.

hope i helped

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I need a bit of help with this homework.

I need to know if the following are acids or bases. ( or neutral)

coffee
coke
water
gatorade
Kool- Aid
Tea
alcohol (like beer or rum)

I tried using the litmus paper but I can't see any change of colour because I suffer from a form of colourblindness and nobody around my house wants to help me.

Thank you guys so much.

the people below did it pretty good.

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Is it normal to start your period in gr.6? another question. If your start having periods in gr.6 and don't have one till gr.8 is the normal?

6th grade, yes normal
i did
&& mines been regular the WHOLE time

kk
bye

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Does anyone know and good workout routines to get ready for Track and Field? Any suggestions would be great please help me out :[

omg! i'm in track too

haha

well yahh i'm really really sore!

&& i wouldn't suggest running on a treadmill as far as getting ready for track, running on a treadmill is 100% easier than like outside or in a school or whatever

just try to run 5 minutes at a time

then a week or so later, do 10 minutes

any exercise would help

have you had your first practice yet?

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okay so everyone at school calls me a slut n even my friends. like i no there jsut kidding and all but it really bugs me and i want it to stop. ive had sex with 4 people.. is it THAT slutty? im 15. i dont no wat to do i just wish it never happend. i just want to earn respect from my friends and clear my bad reputation. ]

any ideas?? it would be greatly appreciated

&& if you name is marcy, i'ma gunna laugh


but other than that, i'm not sure what you can do..

just try to ignore them cuz they are gay

ok

bye

edit;;

how did all the other people in the school find out??

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ok, well i have this unique hairstyle(its not super wierd like a punk or goths, just different) and my parents hate it. they wont accept me for who i am and its gotten tot he point were i cant ignore it because there starting to crack jokes about me and insult me all the time. i dont want to change because i like myself and i have alot of friends who like me but my parents dont accept my personality. how should i deal with this problem

fuck them

its not their hair

my moms kinda the same way, like if i wear my hair in a pony tail she get mad

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Hey, so my friend wanted me to ask if anyone knew if Pro-Active helped at all. So, if anyone has used it, just answer back and let me know saying yes or no. I'll rate. Thanks

it didnt work for me

it only dried my face out wayyy much

it only worked the first like 2 weeks && then it was like my face was accustomed to the product

try it,then if not, try epiclear, it works good

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So today I took one of my earrings and started pressing it really hard against my cartilage in hopes of piercing it. (after sterilizing it, of course!) anyway, I chickened out. I want to know how much it hurts after... I want the truth! going to a profesional isn't an option. Any suggestions, comments, tips? thank you.

i've got a question, why isn't going to a professional an option??

i know at pearcing pagonda (sp) you can get it done for 7.50

good luck

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I need to lose about 10 pounds really fast. It is SO important that I do. To loose this weight in 2 weeks or less what do I have to do? I am desperate, please help me. Please keep in mind I am 14, female, 140 lbs, and go to school everyday. Obviously no diet pills. Thank you so much this is very important.

one question, why?

if you lose it that fast, you will gain it back 99% sure you will.

try the south beach diet, the first week i lose 12 lbs. ( not long term tho)

but do'nt do it && think it will last

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My grandmother told me she would buy one type of exercise equipment for me to exercise on. I don't know what to choose though. I need something that it pretty small or medium sized. My main problem areas are my thighs and bum. What would be one of the best pieces of equipment I could get?

i'd search it on like google.

find out what there is out there, what you like, what would suit you best. theres alot to choose from. Also i'm not sure of your price range.

good luck && best of luck

try to do cardio 30 min 3x a week (walking, running, ect. )

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ok.. me and my mom aren't really close... and like when she tells me stuff like oo i need to buy u a bra or sumtin like oo lets go bra shopping i get like embarrased and she does it like in front of people... so like my friends wouldn't care to come with me cuz they would buy there own.. but i mean iim only 13.. and ive got some boobs.. but im not sure wat size.... but they are like small.. i would be no bigger than a a cup.. .and in bikini size im a medium.. so liek maybe you can tell me by that wat size i am or like wat possible sizes are small....

I'd suggest going on google and searching something that will let you find your size. You can fill in your measurements and it will tell you. Try bra size help or something

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Does proactiv really work and get rid of all or most of your acne? A girl told me it was great for her and her friend, but other people say its junk. I just wanted to know cause I always have acne and i want to know if this stuff really works.

Alot of people already responded but i want to also.

I used proactiv for like i'm gunna say 1-2 years. The first few weeks it worked wonders for me. After that, it seemed as if my skin came acustomed to it and it stopped working.

I quit using it because it didn't really work for me && so now i'm using epiclear. It seems to be working pretty good. I'm still on month two though. But try proactiv, it won't hurt. If that doesn't work after like 2 months or so, try Epiclear. Use it 3 times a day. Wash your skin with a wash rag, NO SOAP! and then use astrigent(sp?) and the you spray it on. it seems to work pretty good so far.

thats all i've got, hope i helped..

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Here are the basics: 18/f, about 138lbs. (Ew).
Okay, so my diet's not too bad - Everything I eat has to be nonfat if possible, and I don't even eat that much. I also exercise, and I know the exercising I'm doing is making a difference - my body looks a little better and feels a little stronger. My goal is to lose like 20 pounds.
I do 200 crunches every other night, 40 every other night
I lift and curl and do pushups and dips, and do some cardio when I can.
But I still have like, an inch of fat on me that I'm DYING to get rid of. I'm convinced at this point that with all the work I do, if I didn't have this fat on my stomach, I would have a nice set of abs. I'm not "fat" - my BMI is normal - but I'm not happy with the way I look and feel.
I know I have to do cardio - but how much? Are there any other tricks I can use? Eating less isn't an option, as I barely eat to begin with. Lol.
Does cutting carbs really work? I thought of that, but my mother is convinced it's bull, so I dunno what to think.
I only drink water and coffee (I can't cut coffee, I neeeeeeeed it.) and I've been sleeping more lately.
That's all I can think of to say, so help me out!

I rate down for bad grammar and spelling. If I have to read your answer more than once to understand you, you're not getting a five.
Thanks in advance. =)

In reguards to the first persons answer, she said 2000 carbs a DAY! is she crazy?? your not supposed to have over i think 300. On the adkins diet, you only eat 20 a day!! i didn't even read her answer because it was bull shit! loser!

ok, you might possibly not be eating enough.
Eating little amounts of food only works for a while. MAKE SURE YOU EAT BREAKFAST! Try not to eat super unheathly stuff. Try whole wheat cereal with like banana's or strawberry's in it. Whole Grain toast with peanut butter

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I went to the doctor last week for my headaches. They're extremely bad and have been going on for a few months. I get them every day from within the first hour I wake up till I go to sleep. I usually take motrin or advil but that doesn't always help. I've also throw up a couple times and I wake up in the middle of the night from my headaches. I'm having a CAT Scan on tuesday because of it. But I'm just wondering what could be the cause of my headaches. Please respond. Thanks so much in advance.

me 2!!


i've had a ton of scans and whatever && they didn't find anything.

i'm had this horrid headache now for 2 weeks straight && going on.

i've got migrane medicine, but it doens't work.

i've headaches for years && as far as helping, umm i can't.

i was just going to ask a question concerning this..

so sorry!

hope to get well && try to get sleep && keep them off of your mind.

you'll live!

lol

later

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I am quite small and don't have much fat on my body. I weigh 90 pounds and i'm about 4' 10.5'' I have very muscualar legs, arms, and shoulders. My problem area: my lower stomache. I have a minor pot belly. YUCKKK!

I'm in 7th grade and have a really busy schedule. The only time i could fit in some excercise would be when i get home from school, but im usually famished and need some rest. I'm not fat and i will never think that EVER no matter what. I accept who I am completely, but I do think staying healthy is important. I need help motivating myself to leg lifts and that crap. i don't like it! It hurts! What can i do to motviate myself and fit in an excersise schedule?

i like these sayings--

if you find time to eat, you'll find time to exercise

&& if theirs a will theres a way

maybe waking up earlier?

alot of times exercise waken's you

maybe walking after school or before school or walkign home..

and as far as the ''pot belly'' i'd do like pilates.

but if theres fat, then run

sry thats all i gots

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Ok, so um...here's the point:
My nipples look like their all bruised and they hurt when something lightly touches them.I know this is disgusting but I'm kinda worried about it. If this is any help, they didn't "grow" yet.

might be pms

somethimes your nipples get tender

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Sometimes... I feel so chubby.

Well, like most young teenagers, I'm obsessed with my weight and staying healthy. Actually, it's not exactly my weight... It's just that I look kind of fat. I'm 14 years old... I stand at 5' 1" and I weigh just about 105 pounds... I never thought that I was over-weight (but am I?)... It's just I look fatter than how much I really weigh. Is that even normal? Does that even make sense?(o.O) My friends are always telling me I look fine and that I'm "skinny" but I know they're just saying that so I won't feel bad. A lot of my friends weigh more than me and are taller than me... but they look more... normal. Sometimes I just think I'm insecure... or something... Should I exercise more often? Should I try to lose just a little weight? Or am I just going crazy?

Thanks...

I definatly don't think your crazy to start things off! ha And for your height and everything, it sounds normal ( i'm no doctor ha ) not SUPER skinny, bit its aite. If you feel chubby maybe its because of flabby arms? gross stomach? big thighs? idk what the case is. Maybe if you got a beginners pilates or yoga dvd, you could tone up. Sooner or later your gunna exercise because as you get older, you gain weight

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Okay I am a large person yet personally I think I am starting to look a bit better like I might actually have lost a few pounds. However my scale is saying the opposite, that I have gained a LOT of weight. What is going on?

ok igonore the one answer where it says puberty. people like that shouldn't be on this site

ok;;first of i'm not a health/fitness expert but i do know sum stuff.

i agree with the one person, the scale doesn't show for muscle & fat.

you most likely have gained muscle.

do cardio and weight training.

a great video for you to get for only about $10 is the biggest loser. it has cardio, weight training & sculpting & boot camp. its great, fun, and effective. you actually sweat!

try getting videos, their great

hope i helped

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