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Hey, I'm Samm and I'm 15-year-old freshman at Downingtown East High School. I've got a pretty average teenage life, except I'm in no way your average person. I doubt you'll ever meet someone exactly like me.



Feel free to drop one by in my inbox and I'll tell you what to do to the of my best ability in any situation. But remember, if it doesn't seem right, then don't do it. It's only my advice, not me telling you what to do.


PLEASE don't repeat questions. I appreciate all ratings and feedback, so please do it. It really gives me a good feel for how my advice is. Also, if you don't rate, and my advice is crap, I'd like to know so that I don't run the risk of telling someone to do that again.


Thanks.. and.. I hope I helped. =) ♥

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Sam its me again, the guy who was talking to you about your "nigguh" boyfriend. Well i was looking at your myspace and stuff and i think we should umm hang out some time. Your Cute, and your boyfriend doesnt have to know anything.

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Ok Sam, well i have been reading alot of your past questions you have helped people with. I can only assume that you have a boyfriend. If he really is a "nigguh" then why would a nice white girl like you EVER date him. Please explain, because i have no idea where your coming from.

Haha, wow.. He's white. But we just like to joke around about that stuff. And even if he was black and ghetto, that's no reason why a "nice white girl" like me would date him. Racial differences in relationships should never be a problem. I think that everyone deserves a chance, no matter what race he is.

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Okay, well, I need help with my hair. See i live down South and I have short hair which I straighten everyday ( i dont blowdry though because its a hastle and wastes too much time) so anyway, the only thing wrong is the humidity. I hate it, it makes my hair start getting frizzy and start to curl back. and my hairs medium thickness so its not easy to fix. So im planning on getting my hair cut early August, and I was just wondering if you had any tips on how to get it cut so that humidity wont hurt it.

Thanx,I rate high.

The humidity will always get to your hair, no matter how you cut it. However, you could use products to help keep it down. The product I use is amazing, I reccomend it for everything. It's a straightening gel by Pureology called super straight antifade complex.. and it's pretty much amazing. It helps your hair straighten easier, quicker, and it helps in humidity. It's kind of pricy, but I've had mine for, what, three months and it still has tons in there. It's amazing, and I love it. Use this stuff, and it should work out for your hair.

Also, try curling your hair. This way, the humidity will actually help your style. Good luck!

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help me sam! teach me how to rap.
teach me yo secret nigguh ways cuz right now i fail at rapping. what can i do??

I don't know.. ask my boyfriend. He's sucha nigguhhhhhhh.

Just kidding. Kinda.

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Hey your really ot. Do you have a bf?

I'm glad you find me to bevery "ot". I suppose that's supposed to say "hot".. so thank you. But I do have a boyfriend. Sorry kiddo!

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im in 8th grade and I have this friend who i am very close to. She is atrting to get involved with the wrong kind of people and i dont know wat to do. please help. I RATE HIGH

Well, if she's getting involved with the wrong crowd, than you have to make sure that you care about her too much to allow her to get into things that will harm her, like drugs, alcohol, sex. If she says that they're "really okay people" than just respond by saying something along the lines of, "I understand they may seem great, but you have to make sure that you stay healthy and are able to stand up for yourself if they try to involve you with dangerous things." You can't decide who she's friends with, but you can always help her out. No matter what she does, promise to be by her side. Good luck

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Ok, well i have a really big penis and i was alone with my girlfriend. When i was alone she was jerking me off and i accidentally poked her in the eye. She started crying and she ran away. How can i get her back?
Soccerfan0324

You could chop your penis off and let her eat it. That would pretty much make up for everything.


IS THIS A GOOD ENOUGH ANSWER FOR YOU !?

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Ok Samm, i have this really ultra sexy girlfriend and i want to seduce her, wat should i do?
-anomnyous

take your pants off!

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I know this might be gross.. but should i shave or wax my binki line? i know shaving is MUCH less painful but when im on vacation(i'm going to florida in a week)i dont want to be shaving down there every other day. i know waxing is painful, but im all for it, if it will get the job done. thanks i'll rattee!

Waxing might be a better option for the occasion, however, you do not need to continue to go waxing if you find it to be uncomfortable. Good luck.

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f/15 me and my boyfriend have been together 11 months.. and i was at his house and we played that game 'are you nervous' and he started going down my pants. but i had my period, so i said i was nervous becuase i had a tampon in and i think it'd be akward while i had it. and i think we're ready to go to the next step, but he later said (after i went home) he was sorry for doing it and that he won't again.. but i kinda want to. so i have 2 questions: he can't finger me with my period, right? and what should i do when i don't have my period? sorry for being so long! thanks for the help.

I guess he could finger you with your period, but it'd probably be gross. And then what you should do when you don't have your period is just.. I don't know. Let him do it. I'm not an expert on this at all. Uhmm.. I suppose you could talk to him about it and just be like, "I wasn't ready at the time, but I am now" or something like that. I'm sorry if I was no help, but good luck!

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I have to go on a cruise with my family and I get sea sick really easily. Is there anything to stop me from getting sick like that?

THE PATCH! When I went on a cruise, one of my friends was using the patch and it worked GREAT. However, they're mega expensive. But it'll be worth it. GOOD LUCK!

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okay under my arms, it's always dark. i shave every day & use a lot of soap each time i shower so i'm not quite sure why they get that way. i use Dove deodorant so it doesn't leave any marks er anything so it's not because of that. is there a certain deodorant i can use?? i heard lemons work. any ideas??

thanks!!

As someone else mentioned, waxing may be better. However, waxing sounds terribly painful! So maybe something like veet or nair would work because that would get rid of the hair all the way down to the roots, as opposed to just the surface. Good luck!

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okay this may be kinda confusing, but bear with me, thanks! okay i was wondering when your tanning, is it the amount of sun that hits you that gets you darker or is it how strong the sun is? because yesterday when i was tanning, i thought that how strong the sun hits you would make you darker cause i could like feel like on me.. if you know what i mean? so anyone know? and thanks, ill rate 5's if you helped!

It's a combination. But not really temperature-wise. It's more like, how close you are to the equator. For example, I live in Pennsylvania and get a very good tan in the summer. However, when I go to Florida for vacation, I get a tan MUCH easier. Either way, you're going to get a tan, however. Hope I helped!

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im 14 and ive been straightening my hair since like 12 1/2. so its been like 2 years kinda.. well like what hair straightening does.. it fried my hair. and i also blow dry it every day.. and its REALLY bad, like its poofy and its like dry.. but once i straighten it it looks kinda healthy, and not so poofy. so i was wondering what could i do to get my hair back to healthy.. you dont understand how POOFY it gets when i get out of the shower.. so if i like blowdried my hair on cool(not the high heat, like cold heat) and not straighten it as much, would that help? what things could i do so it will become healthy again? and im sorry its so long, but i will rate!

Well, you could try using shampoos that put tons of moisture in.. I don't mean to be racist, but there are some shampoos that are meant for black people and they have chemical relaxers in them. It should soften your hair. Also, make sure that you use a straightening gel. Pureology has a great straightening gel. Use it when you straighten AND blowdry. I put mine in my wet hair and then blow dry it, and then straighten. My hair is a whole lot less poofy because of that.

There are also these things called hair masks.. like a facial for your hair! They're sold at Kmart (or I know they used to be. Haven't been there for years!) and they're just these one-time use packages and you leave them in for a certain amount of time.. I don't know if they work, I've never used them. But it's just an idea.

Good luck with your hair!

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if i were to but baby oil on me when i am tanning, would that get me darker a little faster than not putting baby oil on?

I suppose.. but that's kinda icky. Why don't you try a tanning oil with an SPF in it? That's what I do.. but I tan very easily. Good luck!

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theres this guy. one day he hates me, the next he wants to do some.. mmm.. things. its so hard to tell what this guy wants. hes started to be nice to me. does he like me? what does this mean?

This means he's using you. One day, he'll be an asshole when he doesn't need you.. And then the next day, he'll be getting physical when he needs to fufill his sexual needs because he knows that you like him. Unless he keeps up this kind behavior for awhile, he's simply using you. If the nice behavior remains constant, than he might like you. However, if he's back to his bad self, than consider him a use. Good luck, hope I helped.

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this might sound stupid but where should i shave as my "bikini line"

Well, put your skimpiest bikini on, and note where the hair starts popping out of your bikini. Then, take your bikini off and shave off all of the hair that was popping out and then in a little more. Because, not to sound gross, but when the hair gets wet it's kinda.. like.. longer.. yeah. Ew.

Hope I helped!

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soo.. there's this guy, im CRAZY about him. one week he HATES me, then the next he wants to come over? (im only 14 by the way) im really confused, but i want to make a move. how?

Well, you don't really want to date a guy who always changes his opinion. If he's constantly turning on you, it would be nearly impossible to have a good relationship. Feel free to hang out with him, because he might be a cool kid. However, a relationship wouldn't be the best thing. UNLESS once you hang out, he calms down with the hatred. Give him a shot, but if he continues to have these extreme moodswings, I wouldn't even consider him a good friend. Good luck!

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I've had my period for 2 years and its always been "right on schdule." But i have not gotten my period in about 3 months now and i'm getting worried. I'm not sexually active and know that i cant be pregnet. I know to some people this might be considered as luck, but im getting worried. Me and my mom dont have a very good relationship and so i dont really feel comfortalbe talking to her about it. What should i do?

Well, even though it's two years, you could be getting abnormal because of a hormonal imbalance. Have you been noticing a change in breast size? If so, this just means you're body is a little out of whack right now. Just wait it out for a week or so. However, you really have to talk to your mom to go to the doctor. You don't have to go into detail, just say something like, "Hey Mom, I'm a little worried about my body and think I have to go to the doctor. Usually I have a really regular period, but I haven't had it for three months. I just wanna see what's up." She should be cool with it. If she starts interrigating you about sex, just be like, "Mom, I'm not into that at all. But I just want to see the doctor."

Good luck!

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I have a good-tight group of friends, and about a couple of months ago a "new girl" started dating my best guy friend. She now considered herself part of our group. And she ruined me. She dumped my bestfriend just recently and blamed it completly on me. Saying basically that its my fault of being his best friend and that he ignores her when im there. So suddenly thats my fault for being there for him when he needed somebody to talk to. So now shes got most of my best friends on her side, and is hurting my feelings constantly. I tried talking to her about it and she was just as mean. She said she doesnt blame my best friend for being mad at me now. Shes ruined my last few weeks of school. I just dont understand what i should do. So thats why im here. How do i fix this and get my friends back and my life back and to stop her from being so cruel?

Well, if she's going to be rude and stupid when you try to talk to her, than she's not the one you should be talking to. You should be talking to the friends that have turned on you. Even though it seems like they're no longer there for you, they probably are just afraid of what this new girl has been saying. If you talk to them, I'm sure that they'll be perfectly understanding. If not, I would start getting involved with new people this summer. Like the people that wrote in your yearbook, "we should hang out this summer.. call me!" Even though you think they don't mean it, they do. And if your best guy friend still respects you, start hanging out with him this summer. If "new girl" gets pissed, she can get over it. She dumped him, so she obviously doesn't know a good thing when she sees it. Good luck!

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