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Friends gone down the drain
I have a good-tight group of friends, and about a couple of months ago a "new girl" started dating my best guy friend. She now considered herself part of our group. And she ruined me. She dumped my bestfriend just recently and blamed it completly on me. Saying basically that its my fault of being his best friend and that he ignores her when im there. So suddenly thats my fault for being there for him when he needed somebody to talk to. So now shes got most of my best friends on her side, and is hurting my feelings constantly. I tried talking to her about it and she was just as mean. She said she doesnt blame my best friend for being mad at me now. Shes ruined my last few weeks of school. I just dont understand what i should do. So thats why im here. How do i fix this and get my friends back and my life back and to stop her from being so cruel?
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Well, if she's going to be rude and stupid when you try to talk to her, than she's not the one you should be talking to. You should be talking to the friends that have turned on you. Even though it seems like they're no longer there for you, they probably are just afraid of what this new girl has been saying. If you talk to them, I'm sure that they'll be perfectly understanding. If not, I would start getting involved with new people this summer. Like the people that wrote in your yearbook, "we should hang out this summer.. call me!" Even though you think they don't mean it, they do. And if your best guy friend still respects you, start hanging out with him this summer. If "new girl" gets pissed, she can get over it. She dumped him, so she obviously doesn't know a good thing when she sees it. Good luck!
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