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Ok so I'm a 15 f and i'm 36 weeks, 1 day pregnant today. My due date isnt until novemeber 17th but I was wondering if there was any way I could schedule a C-section before hand so I won't have to go threw giving birth and I could have my baby home sooner. Please answer fast I need to know. Thanks.


Love, Amanda.

if you have c-section: you have to wait in the hospital about a day longer. give birth! or just ask the doctor. but it leaves a big scar on your stomach and it hurts really bad.

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As far as the topic of breast feeding goes, is it really better to do that instead of feeing your baby formula? Does breast milk have any advantages besides beind cost free?

Is it true that breast feeding helps a mother lose pregnancy weight? Is it also true that breast feeding makes your breasts sag?

breastfeeding can make your boobs droop early in your life. but formula can cause brain damage to the baby. so i would do breastfeeding and then just wear a pushup bra or a booblift.

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does anyone know of any cute hair styles for semi? any good websites? im thinking half up and half down but anythings good if you find it thank youuu!! :]

i usually know a celebrities hairstyle i like then google search them, hit pics, and print, and take the style to my stylist. so if you like paris hiltons specific hairstyle {for example}, search her in google. its really easy.

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i need to make a color in my picture go transparent.
theres this program you can download where if you have a picture, you tell it was color you want it to make transparent. (e.g 000000, or black) so then all the black in the picture would go transparent, but nothing else would.

i seriously need to know.
its an emergency.

i usually go to

www.lunapic.com

to do stuff to my pictures. i dont know if that helps or not but i hope it does.

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I'm looking into colleges lately. I want a college that can let me major in dance/performing arts, law, or phsycology. A really important aspect of college is the dorms. I really want a dorm room that has like .. a kitchen in the room and possibly a washer/dryer, and a bathroom in it. Please help!

UCLA
or
Pepperdine University
{they both are in california}
you can google them.

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last week i clicked on the "new friends" button and there was some guy's profile who ive never met and i never got a request from him, he just showed up in my friends list. then today i looked again and i had some clothing company's myspace in my new friends list. again i didnt get a friend request and even if i did i wouldn't have accepted it. is this some weird hack, do i have to change my password...AGAIN?

yes. change the password. and change the password to your email. this problem has occured. and if you change it and dont change the one to your email--then they can get on your email and see what you have changed it too. so change the password to both.

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I have a hair curler, that you put your hair in it, then roll it up and it curls you know.


but it NEVER looks good, and i wan't my whole hair super curly, but i don't know how, it always sticks out weird, or either curls barely, and not the WHOLE ENTIRE THING.


how do i curl my hair with this?
or should i just get rollers?
thanks a bunch.

rollers or a curling iron.

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I currently Photoscape, which is okay for the most part, but i really wish i could use photoshop.
I've had the free trial of photoshop on my computer and it was great! Until my trial ran out, though.
Is there any way possible that i can get it, and keep it, for free?
I don't care what version it is.
Thanks so much in advance. =]

you can buy the program for about $50 and download it in your computer and never need to pay again.

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My hair currently looks like this:
http://i190.photobucket.com/albums/z63/TRMRH/016.jpg

I'm getting my hair cut monday and I need new ideas; I hate how it is now for the most part.
I want something different, but not too drastically outrageous.

Any ideas?
Pictures would help too.
Thank you in advance. ;D

you should dye it pitch black and cut it just like rhianna or dye it blonde and do it like victoria beckhams

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I really want a tattoo and I know what I want. I've wanted it for about four years, but my parents say as long as they're paying for my education I can't get one. I'm only 16 so I need their signature if I were to get one. I know the owner of the shop and he's a great guy and tattoo artist and the shop was approved by the health department and everything. I've already checked everything out, and I have the money I need to get it.


But...I still need a parent signature. So I want to sit down my parents and talk to them about it and try to convinve them to let me get it? Any ideas for a sales pitch?

tell them you want it more then anything. tell them you will also get it where NOONE will see it. they will hopefully fall for that.

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I am a 15 year old female and theres this guy that I've been talking to for a while. Apparently, I like him alot and I know he likes me even though hes too shy to say it. The thing is, my friends are on my case because hes a bit of a dork. Hes not bad looking, but hes not exactly Prince Charming. I want to be his girlfriend, but I'm second guessing it because of the remarks my friends make. What should I do?

ignore them. if they are actually your friends, then they will be fine with you two going out. if you like him and he likes you, you two should definiatly go out!

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Does anyone know of any organizations that collect books(for old and young) to give to people. I have been wanting to do a book drive in my school for so long(for a club I'm in) and I don't know what to do with the books after we are done getting the donations. Who could really use them? thanks so much!

you should go to the local bookstore. if you have a barnes&noble or something near you...then you should ask them about it. i am sure they can help!

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okay, my problem is getting worse. i posted a question recently about my relationship with my boyfreid that is on the wrestling team. we can't date because the coach's and everone are really freaky about it because they say that it will interfere with the wrestlers playing and all that. well if you date some one on the team and you get caught, youre basically screwed since they will probably kick you off the team, or bench you, and crap. well we got caught dating and i talked to the coach and she just said i have 2 options, one, quite the team(which i cannot do because my dad will freak out since he payed for the stuff.) or the second option, which is just to be freinds with him. i really don't want that.but unfortunatly, one of the other girls that are on the team, told on me even though there are other people dating that are on the team aas well. her, being one of them, but THEY are allowed to date because the coach says that they are an exeption...dont ask me why... but anyways, she had helped me get with my boyfreind and then right when we start dating, she went and told the coach, and lied to me about it, then went and told my bf's mom, and started talking crap about me and my bf and now all the stat girls(what our position on the team is called) are all over my business, even though cam(my bf) and I split up momentarily, since his mum forbid us to date, because he needs to focus on wrestling and his grades. and we can't even hold hands or do anything romantic around skool because people are watching us and will tell. now the girl who told on us, told me today that cam might get benched(taken out of wrestling) because of breakin the rules and being with me 4 two freaking days! I need help! I dont know what to do!

thats stupid! you need to let the coach know how much you like him. or talk to the principal. its wrong. they cant stop your love life because of a sport. its crazy! confront someone who has more power then the coach.

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this guy likes me. i like him too. i said something jokingly mean to him but he took it seriously. we had a miniature fight. now hes not talking to me. i tried a few times but i dont want to be a nagger to talk. does he still like me? what should i do?

it depends. you need to talk to him. confront him about it. you just need to gain the friendship back before you two start liking eachother again.

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here's the issue. my name is cecelia and i have been with my husband for almost five years now, were going on our 2 year anniversary, we have two toddler sons. i love him alot with all my heart and soul but for the last past two years things have gotten bad. it's like when were good were good but when were bad were BAD. i've tried talking to him and half the time he dont want to talk and when he dose he only talks about his issues. every time i begin to say something he interrupts me and keeps talking about him. he dont want to listen to me. he says he love me but he treats me badly, like he talk to me badly sometimes and pushes me away. we've came to the point of breaking up but he wont leave the house. im not happy but i dont have the strength to leave him what should i do?

it depends. sometimes it is hard because you have kids with him. you should leave him if you cant handle it. or just take your kids for a while and move in with a parent until he decides to treat you better. but if he is mean to you, you should leave him--no question. and take your children because this could end up hurting them.

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ok well i have a problem there is this boy he only talks to me when he think i look good but every time i see him he is just so fine what should i do let him be him or just keep trying to impress him

talk to him. get his number and txt him. he probably is just playing hard-to-get but go for him.

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I go to a catholic school and I was wondering which one of these would make me more cooler in the summer so that i won't sweat to death? Golf shirt or blouse?

i love polos! they are comfy and they arent too hot or too cool. they are perfect for about any season!

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15/f sophmore
I'm thinking of joining one of the school plays or musicals. I have hardly any acting experience but I can sing very well and i think if I really tried I would have the potential to be a good actor. My dream has always been to play a lead role in a show. Do you honestly think this is possible for an inexperienced sophmore to work their way up and eventually get a lead? Do you think it's worth the hard work and dedication?

you should try out. there are a bunch of people who thought they couldnt succeed and they are famous now. but you should totally go for the gold and if the roles not for you try costume design or something to help your career in theater.

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I saw these pants on the TeenVogue website the other day. There's a pair of suspendered parachute pants that I really like. But I can't afford the designer name, so I need some pants that look as much like them as possible. Oh, and here's the picture: http://www.teenvogue.com/style/market/feature/2007/10/military_20071015?slide=3

i believe they are the only place that have them. but you could try to raise money around the house to afford them. maybe you could get a job in babysitting if your good at it. or get lots of clothes you dont like out of your closet and sell them on ebay to get money for the pants. or ask your parents for christmas!!
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i tried finding them to answer the feedback question and i cant other then teen vogue. its impossible. the one they give you in the magazine is probably the price anywhere else. im sorry i couldnt fully help all the way.

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where can i find a plain (or plaid) colored zip up hoodie, but the hood part can zip out too? ( so,the hood would be flat out on the shoulders) has anyone seen one? what are they called? and where can i get one? please help

i get my hoodies at pacsun and they have plaid but idk about the zipper part. but i would try pacsun.

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