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wrestling romance continued..
okay, my problem is getting worse. i posted a question recently about my relationship with my boyfreid that is on the wrestling team. we can't date because the coach's and everone are really freaky about it because they say that it will interfere with the wrestlers playing and all that. well if you date some one on the team and you get caught, youre basically screwed since they will probably kick you off the team, or bench you, and crap. well we got caught dating and i talked to the coach and she just said i have 2 options, one, quite the team(which i cannot do because my dad will freak out since he payed for the stuff.) or the second option, which is just to be freinds with him. i really don't want that.but unfortunatly, one of the other girls that are on the team, told on me even though there are other people dating that are on the team aas well. her, being one of them, but THEY are allowed to date because the coach says that they are an exeption...dont ask me why... but anyways, she had helped me get with my boyfreind and then right when we start dating, she went and told the coach, and lied to me about it, then went and told my bf's mom, and started talking crap about me and my bf and now all the stat girls(what our position on the team is called) are all over my business, even though cam(my bf) and I split up momentarily, since his mum forbid us to date, because he needs to focus on wrestling and his grades. and we can't even hold hands or do anything romantic around skool because people are watching us and will tell. now the girl who told on us, told me today that cam might get benched(taken out of wrestling) because of breakin the rules and being with me 4 two freaking days! I need help! I dont know what to do!
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why the hell is your school involved with your personal bussiness
thats stupid and if i was you i'd make a big deal out of this
talk to your parents and i hope they relize just how inapopriate that is for a school to say you can't date and ask them to back you and talk to the head of your school because that is jst wrong
if your don't want to make it bigger than it is just invite cam over your house or to someplace where not alot of people go so you two can still be together without everyone on your back and he can tell his mother that hes with friends or at the library
hope i helped!!
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thats stupid! you need to let the coach know how much you like him. or talk to the principal. its wrong. they cant stop your love life because of a sport. its crazy! confront someone who has more power then the coach.
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