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what should i leave or stay with my husband?
here's the issue. my name is cecelia and i have been with my husband for almost five years now, were going on our 2 year anniversary, we have two toddler sons. i love him alot with all my heart and soul but for the last past two years things have gotten bad. it's like when were good were good but when were bad were BAD. i've tried talking to him and half the time he dont want to talk and when he dose he only talks about his issues. every time i begin to say something he interrupts me and keeps talking about him. he dont want to listen to me. he says he love me but he treats me badly, like he talk to me badly sometimes and pushes me away. we've came to the point of breaking up but he wont leave the house. im not happy but i dont have the strength to leave him what should i do?
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alright, marriage is a major thing, its the rest of your life forever type thing. (obviously) my point is, do you want to put up with this for your whole life? im sure you envisioned your husband and you being happy and in love always. but he wont even listen to you or let you talk. if he doesnt want to go to marriage counseling, then i think you should leave him. hopefully he will want to go because my parents were about to divorce after 20 yrs of marriage until they went to marriage counseling. if hes not willing to do anything, you only have two options.,be miserable forever or leave him. maybe if you two seperate or threten divorce, get lawyers involved, etc he will finally shape up. sometimes a boot in the behind is what the guy needs :) well on a serious note, i want you to be in a happy marriage, you shouldnt be miserable. so make the choice that will be best for you
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It's really easy for someone to say "leave him" when they aren't the ones in love or in the paticular relationship. SO I'm NOT going to say that :] I will say though that if you do still love him, try marriage counciling. (sp?) It may do you both some good. it sounds to me like you guys just have a problem communicating. I hope everything works out for you. -Adorkable
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it depends. sometimes it is hard because you have kids with him. you should leave him if you cant handle it. or just take your kids for a while and move in with a parent until he decides to treat you better. but if he is mean to you, you should leave him--no question. and take your children because this could end up hurting them.
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