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Well i dont know how to put make up at all i think i look really ugly with make up its just how i am stupid i know though i just need to know what colours would suit me i'll prove photos of me and also like i want a smokey eye sort of thing i want my eyes to stand out but what colours would suit me ?
my eyes are green and im white lol and i always have red cheeks if that helps?
though i really want my eyes to stand out toehr words i really wanna look pretty !
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you make no sense when you talk.
but i know purple hues bring out green colors, so that would make your eyes pop.
but as far as getting good at putting on makeup, you just have to expierment a lot and see what looks good on you. it will take time, but eventually you will get good at it.
just read beauty magazines that explain step by step how to recreate a look. and watching youtube videos is also a good way to learn
what are some tips on making out? and what else can a girl do while making out with a guy to make it more fun and get them more excited? and what do you do to take the makeout session as far as possible before like having sex?
just have fun with it and be care free and a little adventurous while still being sexy.
-. a really LIGHT little bite to his/her bottom
lip while kissing can be sexy
- hold onto the back of his/her neck and run
your fingers through their hair.
- if your a girl add a little giggle in their
every once in a while to keep it playfull and
show your having fun.
- just keep touching eachother and rubbing each
others arms and legs and other parts
- just keep it hot and you can even try to
reenact some hot makeout scenes you see in
movies.
I do this exercise routine pretty much everyday..
1) 25 sit-ups.
2) 25 "backward" sit-ups. (You know..its like a sit-up but with ur legs moving up and down instead of stomach)
3) 20 of this waist exercise
4) 35 of another waist exercise
5) 15 lunges for each leg
6) 15 squats
7) The plank. I do that 30 seconds twice.
8) I lift 5 lb weights on each arm 20 times.
9) 10 more times of just lifting the 5 lb weight.
Then I'm done..
It get's quite annoying doing this every night..but I feel the need to =/ I don't know why. I'm not fat or anything. I used to be which is why I started exercising in the first place.I just do it every night now. But, I know it's a lot. I just want some advice on whether I should cut down how much I do or what?
Everytime I try to limit myself to 6 days a week..I feel like I'm going to get fat again. I probably have some kind of problem lol I don't know :( Help?!
Thankyou.
i mean its hard to say...
It depends on your lifestyle and if you play a sport or do some type of physical activity. If you play a sport like I do thats not a lot at all. Actually its a little compared to what a lot of sports teams do because your not doing anything cardiovascular. It does seem like a solid workout though. your proably stronger because of it too. so i wouldnt suggest cutting down becasue your body cant take it, it can.
what would be bad is your mind set. thinking your gonna get fat because you dont workout one day can be considered a certain type of anorexia.
to be honest with you i think the same way though, and most other girls who work out alot think that way. it seems like the more i run and exercise the more things i find wrong with my body. girls are weird this way. just focus on all the accomplishments youve made. whether it be your inital weight loss, or something as little as getting hit on by a guy or girl. focusing on these can help you love your body more.
I would suggest taking one day off though. definatly because your musceles do need 1-2 days a week at least to rest. if its really hard to do this for you, take your day off just to do really good stretches. streching can be considered a workout that helps your muscles too. yoga is another example.
good luck
my parents make me go to church, even though they know i don't believe in organized religon. we go to a unitarian universalist church but even though it's a very open type of place i still don't like it. i think i could be doing much better things with my time, like clipping my toenails or doing my homework. they claim that it's "family time." how sitting in an uncomfortable pew listening to a reverend is family time, i dont know. How can i get them to understand that this whole "going to church" thing does NOTHING for me??
thanks,
~heart.
i have the same view on organized religion as you do. My parents were always cool about because there not big in to religion. But have you ever thought that the "family time" reason they gave you wasn't really the reason they wanted you to go? Maybe they want you to keep going because it might look "bad" to other family's if you weren't with them. Or maybe there concerned about your "fate" with god, and that you wont get into heaven, or whatever your church believes. Or maybe they think its teaching you "morals", and you'd go down a bad path if you didn't go to church.
I don't know, i find religion to be weird, and i really don't agree with a lot they say. But i do get how peoples minds work, and most people believe in a religion because it gives them some sort of comfort.
All you can do is really explain to your parents that you'll be the same person, with or without religion, and they should let you have your own opinions because open mindedness is a value in todays world.
And if they still resist, you can always just zone out, and ignore the pastor or whatever. And use that time to meditate on things going on in your life. Sometimes some thinking time is kind of refreshing. And theres always daydreaming!
good luck!
so i went canoeing yesterday and got pretty banged up and i have this ugly bruise on the inside of my thigh and i was just wondering if it was ever going to go away. my dad called it a "strawberry" and said they go away but my friend has a ugly bruise on her leg and she said it will never go away. will mine?
yes don't worry. If its a bruise, then it will go away. It can last up to 3 weeks but they always go away. I'm a goalie in lacrosse and im playing D1 in college so I know ALOT about bruises. But dont worry, most of them just look bad. All bruises go away.
Hey everyone, basically I need rainboots. I'll be a sophomore in college and I come to realize that where I go to school, when it rains, it POURS. I hate ruining my ugg boots or any other shoe that I have to wear when it's pouring outside. So does anybody know where I can order rainboots? I know target has some but does anybody know where else I can buy them? I would prefer a website so I can order online. :D Thanks
Go to this link...
http://www.zappos.com/n/es/d/722670889/page/1.html
Its zappos.com and it has an AWESOME supply of rain boots. There are tons of different styles and colors. And you can order online.
hope i helped!
So something happened the other day with my boyfriend that kind of upset me for some reason. We were just messing around, like play-wrestling, and he pinned me and I was laughing and stuff and hes like "Okay try to get up." And I giggled and was like "Ha-ha, okay." and so I tried and I couldn't. And at first I was just like oh whatever, giggle-giggle. And then I tried again and I couldn't and I got really frustrated even though we were just playing and I was like "Okay, let me up." And he did, but he could see that I was suddenly sour, so he says "What's wrong?" and I was like "Why aren't I strong?" and he says "Awh baby, you're strong, just not as strong as me." and I said "Well how come you get to be so strong?" He says "Um... I lift wieghts I guess." (He plays football) then I'm like "Well I do too. I've been lifting for two years." He kind of studys me a bit and is like "Uhh, really?" and then I got really mad and tried to storm off, but he's like "Hey, no, get back here. Look babe, you're a girl, you don't need to be strong. You got me to protect you."
I don't know but that really makes me mad. Like I don't need a guy to take care of me, right? And why do some guys think that? That they have to "take care" of girls? Mostly what we need protecting from are other guys, so what the heck?
Yeah and then there are those boys who go around saying that girls shouldn't play sports. That really upsets me. I've seriously had a guy say to me "girls don't belong in sports, and they suck anyway, so they shouldn't try." If we aren't in sports, what the hell are we supposed to do? Go bounce up and down and yell and YOUR games? Some girls are into that, yeah, but not all. Not me.
Okay. Let's just get one thing straight though. I am not a boy hater. I know that MOST boys are really sweet and awesome and stuff and I'm not one of those girls who goes around and complains that boys suck, normally I just overlook those few boys that are jerks because, yeah, I know that there are those few girls who are brats. I get that. What I don't get is why those few boys think like that. The ones who think that girls are weak and need to be protected and can't take care of themselves, and the ones who think they're so superior because, yeah, they're good at sports. So if anyone could help me understand those few minds, that would be really cool. Thanks.
well don't worry about your boyfriend being stronger then you, thats normal. Guys have a more developed upper body(arms), and girls have a more developed lower body(legs), cause we have to push out babies. Also you should be proud your boyfriend is in good shape, better then him being a weakling! But i agree with you not wanting a man to protect you, neither do i, and you don't need one either! women can be independent and protect themselves just fine! Men also kinda take pride in protecting their girls, dont ask me why they just do.
And about those arrogant assholes who think men are superior in every way...just ignore them. I know its so hard and you want to call them out so bad, but that wont do anything, because there probly already looking for a fight anyways. And i meet those guys ALL the times. I play Division 1 lacrosse in college and guys are always claiming that girls "blow" at sports. well fuck them. They are just egocentric maniacs who are over compensating for the fact that they either have a small package, or are still a virgin. And dont worry, as long as they are claiming men are better, those things will stay that way.
Girls can do somethings better then guys, and guys can do somethings better then girls. thats just how it works.
I am going to be 15, and I am like the only one of my friends with a bad complextion, and acne. I hate it!!! It is all the time, what is something you can by at walmart that will be to the same effect as proactive! My mom won't use credit cards.
you can spend tons of money on face creams and what not but the true secret to beautiful skin, is just keeping it clean. Don't wear face make up (foundation,concealer,blush,bronzer) because all it does is clog your pores. Although there are some makeup brands that are said to not clog your pores, not wearing any makeup is better. and your only 15, you dont need to alter your complexion.
and after that, the rest is simple...wash your face 3 times a day(when you wake up, come home from school, and before going to bed.) just use a bar of Dove soap, and a small towel. Do this everyday and you will see results. good luck
When someone says they got folded, what does that mean?
it means drunk.
if you don't know a lingo, go to www.urbandictionary.com. they have every slang term there is
Hey,I think i have a real problem with dudes..or do I? It never fails,I just cant never seem to keep a dude.Either they cheat,about to cheat,or lie.Is it me?Do i have a problem?Boys really know how to hurt a girl.There was this boy that "so-called" had a crush on me.I was a junior back then and he was a star player on the basketball team so i was soooo happy because he was an athelete.But his friend and my friend hooked us up.We exchanged numbers and all was good until....the ex girlfriend came back around.Ugh!! I was so mad.Everytime i turned around it seemed like she was always following him.She was also a cheerleader so they always saw each other at the games.I guess she decided she wanted him back because sooner or later i found out through the school gossip that they were a couple again.I was crushed.He never really broke-up with me or anything..just left me hanging.I will never forgive him for that.And there were also many realation-ships just like that one in my life.I'm always gettin left for someone of a more,lets just say,"higher standard".Now iam single and i refuse to ever date again..I just cant do it.Do you guys ever think I will find true love because i dont.I just cant trust dudes and I dont wanna take my chances.Somebody please give me advice because i'am so lonely but i just dont wanna be held by the wrong hands...Thanks for listening.
you need to look at their character and really see if their a good person before you get so obsessed with them.
you said boys really know how to hurt a girl...but girls really know how to let them self become hurt. This bball player prob just wanted to talk and find out more about you too see if you were a good match. did you guys even date?
Look what most guys want, is a low matinence genuinely nice, but still smoking hot chick, that they would love to take home to meet their mom, and take back to their room. When you first meet a guy, dont scare him off by being so into him! You have to let them come to you sometimes. You have to get better at picking the guys, or else you will continue to get hurt. good luck and if guys dont work out you can always go lesbian
Do you usually use Maxi Pads or Tampons? And do you know any kinds that work good?
Generally when you first get your period, you will use only pads for the first 1-2 years. This is just because your younger and your body isn't ready for the tampon yet. Then once you get to a certain age you begin to start to use tampons.
Tampons can be great if you play a sport, like to swim or be in the water, or are just overall active throughout the day because its easier to use.
The pad is good for at night, when your sleeping, or just laying around the house. You cant leave a tampon in for too long, or else it could possibly be bad for you.
But it is all about preference. i prefer the tampon
do you think people who call themselves bi are more than likely to just be trying to ease into the "coming out of the closet" bit? like, they are actually gay/lesbian but are not ready to tell the world so just say bisexual?
i know some people are actually bi but just wondering what your opinions/experiences are.
some bi people are having a hard time coming out of the closet, but a lot that i know just like to have fun and are sexually comfortable enough with them selves to experiment with the same/opposite sex. Some are bored of same sex affairs and want to spice their sex life up. Either way its all about there preference.
what games have you guys played with your friends or at partites, other than the ones listed? ex: nervous game, 7 minutes in heaven, spin the bottle, truth or dare, gay chicken
never have i ever is another fun game. You get in a group or circle and everyone holds up 5 fingers. You go around the circle and say "Never have i ever..." and end it with something you've never done.
For example, if you've never walked in on your parents having sex, you could say "never have i ever seen my parents having sex" And then anyone in the circle who has seen there parents having sex would have to put one finger down. You continue around the circle with each person asking a never have i ever, until one or more people are out of fingers, then those people have to do a dare of some sort.
This is a drinking game usually, but you can also play it without drinking. hope you have fun!
Im going to lake george for a week in august, what should i bring?
Well depends on what you'll be doing. If your camping, bring all the usual camping gear (tent, sleeping bag, towels, flashlight, bug off, etc.) If not still bring lots of bathing suits and towels because its a wonderful lake to swim in and do other water activities.
Im going to be a sophomore in high school, and im a girl. I wanna try out for the cross country team, but haven't run like all summer! What is a good work out routine to get me in shape? Like not only running, but for my abs and my legs and arms, ya know? THANKS
you have to start out running 5-6 days a week. Start out running 2 miles. really push your self. its best to run on trails or around your neighborhood, or any where, where there is a change in your environment, so sometimes you'll be running up hill and sometimes downhill. Do the two miles for the first week, then the second week move it up to 3 miles. Continue to add a mile every week. Make sure you stretch before, and after!! its more important to stretch after because it releases all the lactic acid that has built up in your muscles.
For your abs and arms...they will naturally get intone from all the running you will be doing, but if you want to do more, do 300 sit ups 3 times a day. I can 100% guarantee you this will work as long as you stick to it. For the arms...depends on what type of muscles you are trying to build. since your a girl I'm guessing you don't want big bulky muscles so do high reps of push ups or other arm workouts in which you use your body as resistance.
The key to getting in shape is sticking with it. So good luck and I know you can do it!
Let me just start out by saying that I am in a comitted relationship with my boyfriend and I trully love him a lot. But there's this other guy that I met at my new job and he sortve developed a crush on me. Now I'm not the type to cheat on anyone so that's out of the question. My boyfriend has no idea of this because if I tell him he'll flip out and possibly end it =(.. But this other guy he's really fun to hang out with he's funny and outgoingg and I just have a good time with him ..I just don't know what to do. I don't wanna leave my boyfriend for this guy because that's like leaving the one you love for the one you like..but then again I enjoy being with this guy ? What can I do ?
this new guy at work is just that, new. hes exciting to be with cause your not use to him. I'm guessing that since your in a serious relationship, that you guys have been together for a pretty long time. But think back to when you first met your boyfriend... wasn't he all those things too? just try being friends with this new guy. you don't have to leave your boyfriend just because you met a new fun person. just think about all the things your boyfriend has done for you. unless your boyfriend is a bad person, then i wouldn't leave him just because you have a bit of a crush. good luck.
Friends, I am in desperate need of help, I am 40 happily married and a lovely family but recently on a long haul work related trip I badly rather we badly fell for each other that is me and my friend/colleague since the past 20 years. He has always been been my close friend, very trusted and we would share our worries and actually grew our families on each others experiences. But this new feeling is devastating, I know I am deadly in love with him and he too is. The attraction is so obvious that we would be lying if we deny it. I do not want to leave my family neither does he, but we love each other as well. It was a damned moment when we argued on something simple and he apologised and we felt how anything we do and say reaches our hearts. Later on we even talked about it, held each other and realised there is no future, and we do not want our families to hurt, but we do not know what to do.
Help
i would agree with the people under me saying knock it off and get your priorities straight, (which should be your kids), but the heart wants what the heart wants. you shouldn't go through life miserable. what you have to decide is whether being with him is truly worth leaving your family. its a complicated thing. but no matter what, do not cheat!!! that is what will truly tear your family apart. i wish you luck and hope your heart finds peace and happiness.
Hey Tara. I'm a Varsity Basketball cheerleader and I wanted to give a gift to my squad with a short story thats inspirational or something like that. I have a small squad of 7 girls including me and a guy. Id like the gift to be home-made and I can buy all of the supplies, but I would like for the gift to relate to the story. If you have any story ideas and where to find them online or any ideas on how to make my gift better that would be great. Thanks so much!!
what i did was made team superlatives that were really personal for every person on my lacrosse team. Like for instance, one girl hit a dear with her car once, so her superlative said "most likely to wipe out the entire deer population". and we just did a bunch of funny personal ones like that. so we just got together a bunch of neon papers and decorated each one different with lots of glitter and we wrote their name, number, and superlative. everyone loved them so much! so if you know your girls well then this would be a perfect gift!
yesterday for some reason i accidentally blocked my friend from posting wall posts on my facebook (i just made my facebook). so when i added her, she tried to post something to me and couldn't obviously. via a picture comment, she said to me, "why can't i post wall posts?"
i figured out how to allow the wall posting feature, and responded to her on her wall: "ok, you can put wall posts on now."
basically, what i am asking is: if you read my message as an outsider "ok, you can put wall posts on now" would you think that was weird for me to say that?
yes, i know this is an idiotic question but just answer it honestly!
no.
i really need help learing and getting to know myself better and find who i am. how can i do this
quit looking to other people for answers. you cant ask some one how to better learn about yourself when they don't even know you. just do what makes you truly happy and eliminate the bad things in your life. the rest will just happen with time.