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boyfriend # 2 ?
Let me just start out by saying that I am in a comitted relationship with my boyfriend and I trully love him a lot. But there's this other guy that I met at my new job and he sortve developed a crush on me. Now I'm not the type to cheat on anyone so that's out of the question. My boyfriend has no idea of this because if I tell him he'll flip out and possibly end it =(.. But this other guy he's really fun to hang out with he's funny and outgoingg and I just have a good time with him ..I just don't know what to do. I don't wanna leave my boyfriend for this guy because that's like leaving the one you love for the one you like..but then again I enjoy being with this guy ? What can I do ?
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I agree with Laura below me.
If you honestly loved your boyfriend, there would be no doubt in your mind what to do, and you probably wouldn't have even thought twice about whether or not to end it with your boyfriend.
So, I think you have issues with your boyfriend that you need to work out with him. In the mean time, stay away from this "new guy", because it's just asking for trouble.
--Jack
(17/m)
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As somebody said below, this new guy is just that: new. It's normal to have an infatuation with a new guy who you enjoy being with. But if you REALLY loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't even think twice about it.
It's fine to like this guy, but it's not fine to hide it from your boyfriend and question your relationship over it. I think you should stick with your boyfriend and just be friends with this new guy.
-Laura (17-f)
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this new guy at work is just that, new. hes exciting to be with cause your not use to him. I'm guessing that since your in a serious relationship, that you guys have been together for a pretty long time. But think back to when you first met your boyfriend... wasn't he all those things too? just try being friends with this new guy. you don't have to leave your boyfriend just because you met a new fun person. just think about all the things your boyfriend has done for you. unless your boyfriend is a bad person, then i wouldn't leave him just because you have a bit of a crush. good luck.
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You said you have no plans on cheating, and you don't plan on leaving your boyfriend for this guy, so why not just be his friend?
You can enjoy another guy's company while dating someone. I have guy friends who's company I enjoy and I'm in a committed relationship.
Just be his friend. You don't have to be anything more. The thought shouldn't even cross your mind.
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