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stages of a girl forgiving
13/m
is there a kind of a set of stages type thing of what a girl will do when their angry at you because i was going out with this girl for about a week but then she got angry and dumped me because she said i was ignoring her and not paying enough attention and not making her feel special like i should and that is somewhat true but i was always afraid if she would get too creeped out by me telling her that she was beautiful and stuff like that so i hardly ever did now its been about a week and shes still angry at me
but for the first few days she was angry and telling me what i should of done to/for her that would make her feel special and stuff now shes starting to ignore me because i saw her at the movies as i was walking past it to go into the shops and i waved at her and her friend who was with her who is my friend also and she turned around and saw me then just looked away and that completely ruined my day so is there like stuff that she will keep doing for a certain amount of time until she forgives me and ive told her im sorry but she told her friend to tell me that she said im a dick head so im like getting unhappy cause she means alot but i cant keep going on with her being like this
sorry its so long
thanks
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The first columnist took the words right out of my mouth. This girl is a needy bitch, and you don't deserve that whatsoever.
You freaking dated for a week, and she's acting like this? She's obviously doing it for the drama and to torment you.
Ignore her; she definitely isn't worth it.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Your 13, your not anything she has called you! You shouldn't have to be her slave.
And chances are if you had everything you felt on instinct she would have gotten creaped out. BECAUSE she isn't your sole mate, one true love, or whatever! Find a girl who your comfortable with, and vise versa, then show her how you feel. She won't be creaped out and you won't be a ****
C. D
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shes just high-maintenance, FOR NO REASON.
- you guys are young
- you dated a week
- its highly unlikely she doesnt know what she wants in a 'relationship'
- she sounds like a bitch
please move on from her. shes not worth your time if she cant accept an apology and you guys cant compromise on going out. FORGET HER, youll find a better girl. you seem like you care a lot and youre loyal so find a girl whos the same way !
you have a lot of time to find a girl thats good for you too, dont rush it now !
x sweeethoney
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I don't think 'demanding bitch' is a stage.
Look, this girl isn't simple angry with you, unless you cheated on her with her best friend, or killed her cat, or something awful like that, then she is just completely needy, demanding and trying to walk all over you.
You dated for a week! And for some reason she expected you to be all over her, worshiping the ground she walked on? She expected you to be suddenly comfortable with that, and to pay constant attention to her? She expected you, a 13 year old guy, to know exactly how to make her feel fantastic, in a week?!
That's completely unfair of her and sort of insane. And now she is staying angry at you to punish you, and too keep you paying attention to her because she enjoys your attention. She doesn't care if you are miserable, as long as you are paying attention to her.
Please, don't continue to let this girl punish and demand things from you. She will stay angry with you for as long as it entertains her to do so. She's doing it for the attention and the drama, not because she has any right.
You've apologized for what you felt you did wrong, now try and let it go. Ignore her abuse, her behavior at this point is childish and silly, and the best way to stop her anger, is to stop paying attention to her.
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