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Q: i didnt know what category to pick , but i had got braces 3 days ago , and my teeth hurt so bad , i called my doctor and he wont b in t'll monday . can neone help me with some tips to releive the pain . it would b a big help . thankk you soo much!! i'll rate u a 5 , nethng will help riyte now
I had braces a few years ago and I totally remember the pain. The only thing I recommend is just some pain killers like aleve, tylenol, aspirin, etc. That's all that really helped for me and it will be temporarily relieved but just keep taking those as you need them. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: i want to save money so bad, because i want to buy another guitar, and an amp, and after that...i just wanna save, because my friends and i have plans. but i can't save money to save my LIFE. every time i have money, i just HAVE to spend it. and it bugs me. any ideas on how i can save my money?
I definitely recommend opening a savings account. It will help you to save the money and you won't be tempted to buy anything since you won't have to see the money. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

Q: what do yall think of the livestrong bracelets? everyone has them? do u have one?
thanx makayla
I don't have one but my little sister has one and I think they are just awesome. Everybody should get one.
Crystal

Q: Can having sex and being sexually active set your period back? This may be a stupid question but i've heard from people that it can..?
Well, the people that told you that it can is right. In fact, when I became sexually active a long time ago my period would be as late as 2 weeks maybe a little more. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped?
I completely agree with you. I'm not sure if there is a way to stop them but I would think that moderators would do something about it. These people definitely should be banned though.
Crystal

Q: ok i know this guy that u can love so much but then hate..should i go with him or no?
I think, if you can hate the guy, then don't go for him. Wait until you find the right person. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: my future has been scaring me.. Like to think in a couple years its going to be me.. on my own... I know where I want to be but I'm scared it wont work out and that my parents won't agree with what i want to be doing... Also, what if im not good enough to be what i want to be... Thats something that has always been a insecurity with me... Im scared i wont be good at something i love... i guess im scared that life wont be what i want it to be.... but in a way i think im prepared to do anything to reach my dreams but what am I supose to do... Take the safe route and forget about what i love or see where life will take me...
Well, I think you should see where life takes you. Don't just forget about what you love. Totally go for it!!! I mean, honestly, sometimes life doesn't go the way you want it to but you just have to take your chances. If you're out on your own and your parents don't agree with what you are doing then that's their problem. It doesn't mean they won't love you but you have to make your own decisions especially when you're out on your own. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

Q: okay... i've been pondering this for a very long time now... say that you've been going out with a guy for a while and he's a year older than you... say when you met you were 16 and he was 17... when he turns 18 and you're 17 and you have sex... why would it be illegal? i mean it's not like he's 32 and you're 17... i really don't see anything wrong with that... also if you've had sex with the guy before like while you were 16 and he was 17 it would seem really stupid to not have sex for a year until the other person becomes legal... i'm sorry if this is confusing but i've always wondered
If he turns 18 and you're still 17 that is not illegal. If you were 15 or 16 and he was 18 that would probably be a different situation actually. My husband at the time I was dating him was 18 when I was 17 and it was not illegal so you have nothing to worry about. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: How old do u have to be to have sex?
There is no certain age to have sex but I recommend you wait until at least when you're married. I had sex when I was 17. I married the person I had sex with but I wish I would have waited until we were married because it wasn't as special on our wedding night. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: i can't seem to lose weight what should i do!!??i am always called fat and even though nobody on here knows me, im still just too embaressed to say my weight!IM ONLY 13!!
Well, first off, you should watch your calorie intake. Don't eat past 7pm and if you need snacks then eat fruits and veggies. Secondly, you need to get exercise. I recommen walking in your neighborhood for at least 30 minutes a day. Also, you should do leg lifts, arm curls and crunches or situps. For leg lifts, you just lay on one side and bring your leg up and down. I recommend starting out with 30 on each leg but if you can do more then great! For arm curls, if you have small weights this will help but you bring your arms down in front of you and keeping your elbows still you bring the weights up to your chest and back down. I recommend doing at least 50 on each arm. One last thing, you should stretch before going to bed. It may help you to sleep better and you burn fat while sleeping. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

Q: hey! ya i dont have a question..but my name is crystal too(only im 13..lol) so i just wanted to say hey!..my friend asked for advice from u once and it worked so good! so i just wanted to say hey and that you have awesome advice!
Thank you so much! That makes me happy to know that I give great advice and that's awesome that you have the same name. Crystal rocks!! :-D Anyway, thanks again!
Crystal

Q: what are some good ways to loose a few?
Well, first off, you want to watch your calorie intake. Don't eat past 7pm and if you need snacks eat fruits and veggies. Secondly, exercise is really good. Walking everyday in your neighborhood for at least 30 min will help. Also, I recommend leg lifts, arm curls and crunches or situps. For leg lifts, you lay on one side and bring your leg up and down. I recommend starting out with at least 30 on each leg. If you can do more then great! For arm curls, small weights will help if you have them but you bring your arms down in front of you and keeping your elbows still bring the weights to your chest. I recommend starting out with 50 on each arm. One last thing, you should stretch before you go to bed. This may help you to sleep better and you burn fat while you're sleeping. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

Q: I am 12 goin on 13 in like 1 week.. umm i am 5'10 or 11 (ik, im a giant) :( and i weigh about 137ish.. am i over weight or underweight?
Well, to me, it sounds like if anything you're underweight but I don't think you have anything to worry about. Being as tall as you are, 137 is not bad at all. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not?
Yeah, he'll be able to tell that you're not a virgin so you should just have a talk with him and let him know. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

Q: okay my 3 best friends called me up one day and sayd i was talkin alot of crap when i asked who told them they said they couldent tell and when i asked what they said they said they couldent tell and they also said they couldent tell b.c " when we get in a fight i always find a way to get out of it" when thats not true i always get out of it b.c i tell them the truth even if its true... well they all hate me now and i dont know what to do!!
Well, honestly, it sounds like if they can't tell you who told them and what not maybe it's not true and they are just being jerks. I wouldn't put up with that at all! If they want to play immature games with you then I don't think you need them. I know they are your best friends and it would be hard to get rid of them but let them come to you to be a friend. If you keep going to them then they are just going to walk all over you so I say just ignore them and when they are done playing their games then they will come around. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

Q: hi, im only 15 but im very interested in my weight! i recently started gaining weight but there has been no change in my diet. I was 105 but now for some reason my weight has gone up to 116. My mom just thinks im crazy and pushes me away but please don't do the same i really want to get back to my old weight and i want to do it a healthy way, so if anybody can help please tell me how to loose the extra pounds im only 5 foot 2 and i think i would be healthier with a smaller size. if you could just give me an example of what i should eat or something i should do everyday i would really appreaciate it.
thanks!
Well, first off, you want to watch your calorie intake. Don't eat past 7pm and if you need snacks then snack on fruits and veggies. Secondly, you need to get exercise. Walking everyday for at least 30 minutes will help. Also, I recommend doing leg lifts. Those are where you lay on one side and bring your leg up and down. I recommend starting out with 30 on each leg but if you think you can do more then go for it! Another thing I recommend is arm curls. For those, small weights will help but you bring your arms down in front of you and keeping your elbows still you bring the weights up to your chest. I would start out with 50 on each arm. Also, crunches or situps will help you and one last thing I recommend is stretching before you go to bed. That might help you to sleep better and as your sleeping your burning fat as well. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

Q: Today when i went to the bathroom i noticed that i had ALOT of discharge in my underwear what could it be? should i do anything about it?
This just means you're about to get your period so you have nothing to worry about. There really isn't anything you can do for it. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: What are good stores to shop at for back to school shopping?
I highly recommend Old Navy. They have the best clothes. I shop there all the time. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: Whats a good place to get supplies for your dog?
I always recommend Petco. They have everything for dogs. I hope this helps!
Crystal

Q: I'm only 13, but i need to save up some money 4 my Bestfriends birthday. But what i want 2 give her is really expensive. It's like 70 bucks! But i know it's wut she wants more than anything else. So, does anyone have any ideas for how to raise that much money??? thanx
I recommend trying the babysitting job. If that doesn't work try maybe doing yard work for some people in your neighborhood or ask your parents what you can do. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

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crystal200022us
My name is Crystal and I'm 22. I live in Oregon. I'm married to a wonderful person. We have been married for 2 years. Some of the things I enjoy doing are spending time with my bestfriend, Christine and her fiance, Aj. I also love spending time with my husband, Brent. I love to go walking and go swimming and also love to read but talking is my main thing. If you need help with something I'm here for you. I would love to give you advice. Thanks for reading!! :-D

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