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How do you know if you are in love? Are there any signs? I know that it sounds like a stupid question, but i want to be sure before I do anything stupid.

When you have a strong, affectionate, and passionate feeling for somebody that you can barely describe in word because its so strong.

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13/f
this summer I'm supposed to go see this music producer guy so I could sing for him. The biggest of my worries is that I have a MAJOR problem with stagefright. Once in kindergarten I was standing on the stage in the auditorium doing a play. When I was walking off the stage, I tripped and fell flat on my face and all I could hear was everyone laughing at me. Ever since then I've been terrified to do anything in front of people that aren't my family. Can you please help me?

Focus on what you are there to do. Which is to sing. So don't worry about what he may think and don't worry about if he's really laughing at you on the inside. Relax your mind with peaceful thoughts. Also, think about what you can accomplish by doing that. So think about what will happens if he likes your perfomance.

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What should i do I hate being single?

Go to
-parties
-mall
-movies
-skating rink
-bowling alley

These are all good places to meet new people.

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I already asked the question about who is the groom from the video "I write sins not tragedies". Alrite well I got the answer and now I'm wondering if he is in the band Panic at the Disco. He doesn't look like anyone in the group. Someone please answer me.

No he isn't.
http://www.absolutepunk.net/gallery/files/1/0/8/3/panicatthedisco2.jpg
Above is a website for a picture of all the band members.

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ok well i really liek this boy and our school is having an end of the year dance and like i wanna find a way to go with him and stuff the thing is that alot of girls likes him..i dont really know if he likes me but he shows alot of signs...but anyways what are some good ways to like ask him to go to the dance with me?
i rate 5's

I like it when girls just come out and say what they are thinking.
"Hey do you want to go to the prom with me?"
It's short and simple.

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Hi, I was wondering if anyone knew who the guy was from Panic at the Disco who plays the groom in the music video "I write sins not tragedies". He has the really blue eyes. If anyone knows please let me know. Thank you.

His name is Daniel Isaac.
http://danielisaac.com/
http://www.myspace.com/Daniel_Isaac

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Hey
Im like a total loser at school. None of the guys want to go with me and none of the girls want to be my friend. I try soooooooo hard to be popular. The friends I do have are all geeks and I'm sick of hanging with them. So how are you so popular? I was going to ask the guy who got voted most popular at my school but I doubt if he even knows my name.

You shouldn't try to be popular.
#1/Don't try to be someone your not.
#2/STICK OUT OF THE CROWD! This is most important. When you to a party the center of the dance floor should be your second home.
#3/Make people see what's so neat about you. If you have any special talent, show it off in a talent show or any type of event where you get the oppurtunity to.
#4/Don't leave your real friends just to be popular because it isn't worth it. With me, my real friends are popular so I don't have to leave them hanging are anything.

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so my best friend in the entire world likes this big jerk. he's a nice guy sometimes but then he can be a total loser. so when shes mad at him he'll be nice to her and she'll automatically like him again. its so annoying because how can someonebe so mean to you and then you keep liking them? how can i tell her this is happening without actually saying that and hurting her feelings...?

I don't think it is your place to confront the guy she likes about it. I think as a friend you should let your friend know that you think she deserves better than what shes bargaining for.

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How do yu know when someones your best friend? Your opinon, ill rate yu

Out of all your friends he/she is the one who is there for you the most, you trust them the most, you tell them the most secrets to, etc.

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Should i be worried if the boy i like called another girl that likes him .. But my friend says that they only talked on the phone for 2 minutes. should i worry about it? or wonder whats goin on with them?

xox - brandy marie

You shouldn't worry about it. So don't get worked up over nothing. I doubt that there was any chemistry in a two minute conversation.

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Why do guys think that they are stronger then women?

Why do guys say this when you like them and confront them about it "i like you and all, but i dont want our brother/sister type relationship to be ruined"?

Why do guys think that they have the power over a women?

Not all guys think like that.
Answer to First question:
I do agree that more guys are stronger than girls because of the way we are built. But NOT always. One of my best friends that is a girl is really atheletic and could beat almost any guy anytime. And I know this other guy who can barely play sports at all. So it just depends on the people.

Answer to Second question:
We say that when we don't like you and are trying to spare your feelings.

Answer to Third question:

Again not all guys think that.

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I don't know why every girl seems to think that all men are controling ass holes. I know that most women have had bad experiences, but that's not excuse to totally rat on guys just because you've been hurt once or twice, because in the end that just gives you a worse imagen, and more of a reason for guy's to think that they actually do have more power then you. I'm a guy, but to be honest I'm not a normal one. I'ma girly man to be honest. But I do hate how all my girl friends complain to me about how guys are asses. I may not like a lot of people, but I still do find it offencive, and I'm tired of it

I agree with you. I'm not really a "girly man" but I still am a man and I have done things to girls that I regret. But some of them don't get the concept of forgiving, forgetting, and moving on.

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i wanna die in my sleep. help.

You seriously need to get a life. If you really wanted to die it seems like you would go more into detail. This question sounds so fake. But I know that there is a SMALL possiblity of this being real so I will answer it anyway.

You need to get some professional help. Go to your school counselor, tell someone you trust like your best friend, or your parent. The most important thing is to get help.

EDIT/// You don't have to be "mellow dramatic" but YOU CAN ATLEAST WRITE MORE THAN TWO SENTENCES. Well it wasn't even two sentences because the last one only had one word. Since you obviously need help I'm trying to be nice to you but don't push it.

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hey this question might be hard to answer but plase give it a try.
well the commercial for mtv's new show the hills, i want to find out what the narrorator is saying. its hard for me to catch on tv, and ive tried searching online. if you can help, that'd be great ! thanks and i rate 5s!

http://www.mtv.com/onair/dyn/the_hills/series.jhtml

You can watch it, see photos, and get a lot of info on the show by going to the above site.

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Lord help me.

I am a 13 year old girl, and for a while, I considered myself "straight." Now, I'm really freaked out. I have a big crush on my lesbian English teacher (FYI, she's made it public that she's a lebian---I'm not just assuming). I'm so scared. Having a crush on a teacher is bad enough, and on a female teacher is awful. Mind you, I don't have a discrimination against homosexuals, but I don't like to think of myself liking someone of the same sex. I feel like such a creep. Does this make me a lesbian as well? I mean, I've liked only guys of my own age (but those were huge, long-term crushes), but still...I am so scared.

If anyone at school finds out about this, my life is over.

~Stella Luna~

Make out with a guy and see if you like it. Right now you probably are just experiencing.

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If the guy tries not to cum during sex and is successful, is there still a possibilty of getting pregnant???

No matter what you do there is always a chance of getting pregnant if you have sex.

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i'm really shy and i have been for like ever.

i'm always known as just the "shy one" and i'm really sick of it. im not shy in front of people im comfortable around and people that im frends with, but im shy around big groups of people and just cant get over it!

i really wana b outgoing and everything even in front of people i dont really know and in front of large groups, but how?

please helpp!!!

Let go of all your worries and just live in the moment. It works for me. Don't be concerned with what others may think just think about having fun and doing what you like. Half of the stuff that I do is considered crazy but I don't care because a lot of people like me for it and I have fun.

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(15/f) ive been dating this guy for about two weeks now. and im used to guys who are trying to make out with me or atleast kiss me on the first date. my boyfriend and i just had our first kiss on the lips last night. and i had to like pull him over to me to do it. its not like im his first girlfriend or anything.
arnt guys supposed to be nnot shy at all.
isnt the girl supposed to be the shy one?
and its not like im a slut either..
why is he so shy? and how can i make him not"?

It all depends on the guy. Very few of us are like that. But he is one of them. Its only been two weeks so he may want to love you emotionally before he loves you physically. If you aren't satisfied with that then let him know he you feel about it.

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What do I do? I have a friend you see and shes being really boy crazy and when shes in front of her boyfriend she acts like a whole different person and I want the friend I use to have. I tried confronting her but she will just tell me stop or shutup and say deal with it but the truth is I need her back not the person that she is now but the old her. What should I do?

If she always tries to tell you stop or shutup when you confront her. Then I think you should do it through mail, e-mail, or any type of communication that she can't instantly respond to. If that doesn't work then you shouldn't hang around her when shes with her boyfriend.

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Alright.. I really like guy1 I mean really.. he is like my best friend also.. he has liked me before but we never went out.. me and guy1 don't even hardly talk anymore tho..and there is guy2 he's really sweet i uste to like him i probably would start likein him again, but he's not really a person that is popular and he asked me out last night but i don't know if i should.. what should i do wait for guy1 that i really like or forget about the guy1 and wait and see if i start like guy2?

Go with the guy you like the most. Which it sounds like guy 1.

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