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my boyfriend is soo shy~


Question Posted Saturday May 20 2006, 9:32 pm

(15/f) ive been dating this guy for about two weeks now. and im used to guys who are trying to make out with me or atleast kiss me on the first date. my boyfriend and i just had our first kiss on the lips last night. and i had to like pull him over to me to do it. its not like im his first girlfriend or anything.
arnt guys supposed to be nnot shy at all.
isnt the girl supposed to be the shy one?
and its not like im a slut either..
why is he so shy? and how can i make him not"?


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SUP_TINAA answered Sunday June 18 2006, 9:52 pm:
eh trust me girl, i've been there. He'll change as time goes on. Just keep on kissing him [even if you're the one who has to lean in over to him], and with time, things will change. Maybe he thinks that you don't want to do anything, so he's not trying to rush you into anything.

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LoveTellsNoLie answered Sunday May 21 2006, 2:19 pm:
wel not all guys are out going. and like to makeout. give him sometime mayeb he thinks you dont want that. try talking to him. i can realli relate to that becuz i boyfriend was like that reali shy and now hes not. give him some time hell come around to it and he wont be shy anymore.

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karenR answered Sunday May 21 2006, 2:18 am:
Some guys can be shy. But just because he isn't all over you doesn't necessarily mean hes shy.

There are some...few though they are, who respect women. Maybe he is just one of those guys. If he is, then he will wait until he gets to know you better. Maybe, as someone else suggested, he just wants to wait until he has deeper feelings for you.

Let him know how you feel about it though. If he is indeed shy, you may have to make all the first moves. :)

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careless-fun answered Saturday May 20 2006, 10:48 pm:
It all depends on the guy. Very few of us are like that. But he is one of them. Its only been two weeks so he may want to love you emotionally before he loves you physically. If you aren't satisfied with that then let him know he you feel about it.

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adviceme3 answered Saturday May 20 2006, 10:38 pm:
It's just his personality. He just might be prude. If you really want a bf who isn't then the guy you're going out with right now is wrong for you and you should go out with someone who isn't as shy as him.

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alleywallybobally answered Saturday May 20 2006, 9:49 pm:
screw him and get another bf you want somone who can show they love you. if things dont change in a few days then i serously should consider a new one.

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