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Please i really dont know what to do
What do I do? I have a friend you see and shes being really boy crazy and when shes in front of her boyfriend she acts like a whole different person and I want the friend I use to have. I tried confronting her but she will just tell me stop or shutup and say deal with it but the truth is I need her back not the person that she is now but the old her. What should I do?
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actually this has happened to me too, but my friend just acts weird so she can be popular. but if shes going to have that kind of attitude thats not what a real friend is, mabey you shouldnt be friends. but since you said you want to still be friends with her then talk to her and say... what happened to my friend that always was herself etc. and u can ask some of your other friends that think shes acting weird and you guys can all say if shes going to act this way mabey we shouldnt be friends, and ask her just to be her self, or what ever is wrong with her.
hope this helped a little, good luck!!
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What can you do? She tells you to shut up and deal with it. You could stop talking to her completly, but then again...these relationships dont last forever right? I give it a few weeks, they'll break up and she'll be crying and asking you for help! But shes acting boy crazy because she really likes this guy, and she could care less about you or any of her other girlfriends. I know it sucks to hear that, but thats what happens. Girls dont care about their friends when they have a boyfriend, especially at your age. So forget about her, let her do what she wants.
And when they break up(which will probably be soon), she'll be her normal self. Personally, I dont like this friend.
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you need to get over the fact that girls want boys and what ever they gotta do to impress them theyre going to do.
when he dumpes her shell be the way she was untill the next one comes along. i advise you to be the same wayy when you get a bf.
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If she always tries to tell you stop or shutup when you confront her. Then I think you should do it through mail, e-mail, or any type of communication that she can't instantly respond to. If that doesn't work then you shouldn't hang around her when shes with her boyfriend.
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Hi,
I am sort of having the same problem that you are having. You could try asking her to go to the mall and have lunch or something. While your eating lunch you could say, (friend) i really dont like that you are acting different to me when your boyfriend is around and maybe we could cut down on the constant talk about boys. Hope it works.
--Claire
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