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Why do all girls seem to think this?
I don't know why every girl seems to think that all men are controling ass holes. I know that most women have had bad experiences, but that's not excuse to totally rat on guys just because you've been hurt once or twice, because in the end that just gives you a worse imagen, and more of a reason for guy's to think that they actually do have more power then you. I'm a guy, but to be honest I'm not a normal one. I'ma girly man to be honest. But I do hate how all my girl friends complain to me about how guys are asses. I may not like a lot of people, but I still do find it offencive, and I'm tired of it
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I know how it is.
I hate it when that happens, too.
But sometimes people judge others just because ONE guy treats them wrong, they think all the other guys will do the same.
I agree with you.
But I have to admit, there are SOME that are asses, and some that aren't.
You should just talk to all your 'girl friends' that that really offends you, and don't like it when they call people the same gender as you "asses"
They should understand since they must think you are deffinatly not one.
Hope I helped.
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If a friend of yours starts up with this, just tell her that it seriously offends you and you wish she wouldn't make such generalizations out of respect for you. Of course they don't mean it, the are venting about their own negative experiences. You need to tell them how this makes you feel. While you're at it, tell them to exercise a little intelligence in choosing their next date and maybe they won't have to vent about this quite so much.
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Holy shit, I know exactly what you mean, only I'm on the other end of it. I'm a female and people are always assuming that I should be acting differently than I do because of it. For example, people say that I should be a lot less controlling and more feminine. Not every guy is the same, just like not every girl is the same. People need to grow the fuck up and realize this. When people complain about that kind of shit to me, I usually start ranting and debating them. It usually gets them to be quiet. Just tell them that you are tired of them trying to make out that ALL guys are the same.
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I myself dont think that about guys.
Its not fair to judge another person, by the way someone else treats you.
So just because a guy treats a girl wrong, doesnt mean ALL guys will. So you have a right to feel the way you do.
Um you cant classify yourself as "not normal" because no one is normal. Because there is no definition of a normal person.
We all are who we are, you know?
If your hate how your girlfriend complains about guys like this, you need to talk to her, communication is the best way to deal with this. You need to let her how you feel, rather than keeping all this bottled up inside of you.
If you feel so strongly about it, then like I said earlier, tell her, if she doesnt get it, than obvoiusly you two arent for each other.
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SO is there an actual REASON for giving me the rating you did?
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I agree with you. I'm not really a "girly man" but I still am a man and I have done things to girls that I regret. But some of them don't get the concept of forgiving, forgetting, and moving on.
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hey!! haha i like this question... seriously it seems like all women think that all men are a**holes, but we really don't actually think that. when do you hear women complaining about this? after they have been hurt by a guy or had a bad experience with him. it's just something women do to make themselves feel better about the guy being out of their life or the relationship failing. saying how much of an a** a guy is makes the woman feel better about why the relationship didn't work, and it makes it easier for her to cope with the loss by thinking that the guy is an idiot and not worth her time anyway.
so next time you hear that, don't get mad because women don't actually think that, even though they do say it a lot. it's just one of those things i guess.... what can i say, we are complicated! :)
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I agree 100%.
I don't think most guys are asses. The ones who are usually have a total bitch for a woman. Maybe...there is a connection!
But really, most guys are not assholes. You have a right to be offended by the generalization and I hope you try and set the girls straight. :)
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