HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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Ok. I have liked my best friend for about 18 months. I had asked her out once and she said she wanted to stay friends. So i let it go. its been about a year since then and whenever we are together, we are either holding hands or hugging or whatever. We had gone on a school field trip and we were together the whole time and we were constantly holding hands or hugging as i mentioned and she gave me kisses on the cheek. She had even fallen asleep on me on the way back. I really don't know if we should stay best friends, or if she likes me and i should ask her out again. please help. any advice is appreciated. (link)
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OK she either reallly likes you or is tryin to play you in a way..I think you should ask her what does it mean when you hold my hands and kiss me,do you like me cuz i still do.If she says no then you need to stop the hand holding thing cuz it only means you like eachother
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OK should i be stressing if my bf is talking to his EX? ANd cause he's trying to hide it from me. ( trust me I know) And if so, what do I do? (link)
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Does he know that your sensitive?If he does then mabey this is why hes keeping it from you...but i dont think so...If hes hiding it then id be stressin too...i think you HAVE TO confront him about it and ask him whats up with him and her.
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16f.
im not bi or anything but i know a girl who is and like evry time i talk to her she likes a new person... he even likes 4 ppl at once and i dont get how she can... i stuck up for her when ppl were calling her a slut and saying shit about her but now im begging to think she is a slut like cos she goes out with one person and likes another and she will break up with a them and have another boy/girl friend the next week... is she a slut? im not bi i no im not... but i keep thinking about her like since i saw her last but im not sure why...?
do i like her cos i that she would probably break my heart if i did anything about this... i dont think i like her cos im not bi and i never have been. so i dnt get what is going on...?! (link)
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I dont think your bi...even if you were,this is not the type of gurl youd wana fall for,she has a bad reputation and is a player...definetly not for you IF you were bi wich i dont think you are..i think your just attracted in a way to the bad she does...its normal that sometimes when you see somone so bad ur just attracted in a way but not like.I think shes a player and you should get her outta your head man
good luck^_^
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Okay. I really like this guy I'm going out with. I've gone out with him twice Friday and today(being Sunday). I really want to kiss him and today we were at his house and he asked me if his dad was upstairs and he was. It was obvious that he wanted to kiss me. He had eye contact with me and everything and he looked like he was going to go for it and I looked away. I dont understand why. Its not like it would be my first kiss it would be my second but still. I'm so nervous but I dont understand why. I've known him since 5th grade. So why can't I do it? (link)
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Mabey your juss not ready to kiss him,nothings wrong bout that.Its only your second time out with him mabey you just need to go out for a third or fourth time.Give your self some time.
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i've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. we're really in love but ever month almost he does something so selfish and stupid i don't know what to do!!! I'm tired of getting mad at him, because he doesn't mean to do stupid stuff and it just tears us apart when we fight, so i started to let alot of stuff go. but now he's blowing me off all the time and lying. when i do get mad at him he acts so cocky he doesnt even try to apologize he just says alright fine and avoids me the whole day - doesnt call or anything. then he'll text me saying "hey whats up lets hang out" im like no!!! his mom always used to tell him to ignore a girl and she'll forget she's mad because she'll be to busy trying to win his attention - but i've told him more than once games don't work with me.
he used to be the sweetest boyfriend ever, he was always there for me and always honest. he would call me just because he said he wanted to hear my voice. but now he's acting like he owns me. i know he loves me, he doesn't wantto break up and when i mention it he goes crazy. I don't want to break up but he never really listens, what should i do? how can i convince my boyfriend to stop acting like this! i love him i just want to work it out (link)
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ok since it freaks him out when you confront him...dont start off now by confronting him...
call him up and plan a nice long beautiul day together,go out and have some fun...try to do that and mabey...you never know...afterwards hell be cool with you again.Mabey hes just really stressed about something thats pissin him off...if this day goes well...then just dont confront him afterwards IF HE CHANGES....
if it dont go too good and he blocks you out then
you gotta talk to him about it one day or another...ask him if hes stressd..if he still loves you...find out whats bothering him but i prefer you do tha date plan first
good luck
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I have this boyfriend and we have been dating off and on for almost a year and a half.
Of course people change but, he's changed dramatically with what his turn-ons are.
When we first started dating he loved making out and french kissing me.
He especially loved oral, and he's always loved anal and vaginal.
But for some reason, this one time, I farted in front of him and he wanted to smell it.
I was like, wtf..
So whenever I fart or something, he wants me to tell him so he can smell it and he gets aroused by it! He gets a freaking boner!
And not only that, but he's obsessed with my ass and my asshole.
We'll be in his room or anywhere, and he'll be like, Hey, why don't you put your ass in my face. And he's like, how about if I eat out your asshole. And he puts his face in it and starts smelling it!
It really really turns me off.
I don't understand why he likes it so much..
It's getting to the point where he asks me if I can take a shit on him! >:[
It's grossing me out, and I don't know what to do..
When we'd be talking dirty, he'd be like, how about you put your thong on me, do 69 on me and take a shit on my head..
He won't stop!
Talking about shitting on him, farting on him, wearing my clothes like my thongs, or smelling and eating out my asshole!
I seriously don't know what to do because I've had enough of it.
I just wonder why he can't be normal. He doesn't even get turned on when I'm on top of him when we're having sex.
He basically only likes doggy style so he can see my ass or put his face in it..
It's sickening.
He never used to be like that.
Please help me, what should I do!? :[ (link)
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omg loool wooow this guyz a freak yo
you gotta tell him to stop because seriously...ew
thats ....aah!i don even no what to say man..just tell him to stop askin you to shit on him cuz thats not right...its nasty and abnormal and turns you off and makes you disgusted of him....eww
Ask him why hes changed....and demand an explanation for it....it could be something psycological
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This is really TMI, so sorry in advance! I'm supposed to start swimming in school on Tuesday, and I got my period on Saturday. Not swimming is out of the question, and I'd really, really like to avoid wearing a tampon. I've never worn one before and I have absolutely NO IDEA at all how to use it. It's a pretty light flow, but still enough to stain a bathing suit. Not enough to actually show in the water, though. Would it be completely awful to just wear a bathing suit with a skirt-type bottom, and have a pantyliner in it? I'll only be swimming for about a half hour. It sounds crazy, but would there really be any actual harm in it?
Any other ideas?
Thanks SO much in advance, I'm really concerned here ;). (link)
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ok there are two things you can do thatll save you that day lol
one...you can ask a trusted adult...preferabley a female adult about tampons and how to put it in..its the best solution when youre in the water btw because you wont stain...or get any blood in the water...even if its a little blood in the water that can harm other swimmers...
two...you can wear ur normal bathing suit and a skirt or minni short over it....like a bikini top and minni shorts ...that wont look bad,its kinda stylish and will cover up till your done swimming^_^
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Okay so I have been talking to my boyfriend for about 2 months now..and weve been going out officially for 3 weeks :). I really like him..and I know he likes me. We love eachother! We are both 16. Im the female! Were both juniors. We kiss, cuddle, and even make-out. But last week he started asking me..well if he could finger me or idk put his hands down my pants. The first time he asked me i was way freaked out.And this was a week ago today. And he knew i was; so he told me i wont ever do that again. But last night he asked me twice!! I wasnt freaked out though because ofcourse i want him too..but im not ready. He just doesnt understand that im all about purity. So i said no both times. But my question is when we are ready which wont be for a long time..will it hurt? My vagina is super small i cant even put a tampon up there yet. And im 16!! Im also really loose..how do i tighten up? Someone please help me! Thankyou!! (link)
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dont ever do anything with a guy that youre not ready to do...if youre not ready,its not a shameful thing you know its great that your pure...tell him to wait cuz you dont want to do anything your gonna end up regrettin because trust me,regret really sucks.Itll hurt if he does it too hard...when you guyz do somethin like that you shud tell him to go a lil easy on ya and don be ashamed to tell him if it hurts.
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ok so, im 15 and my boyfriend is 17. and we have been dating for 3 months now, and well we decided like we were going to go to our rec center, which is where the like community pool is and stuff and welll like we arent gonna have sex or anything but theres a family changing room and like the showers have curtains and stuff and we were planning on going in one of those like without bathing suits....and well i was wondering like what should i do because like we are just ognna be making out but what if he accidenlt like goes inn. any suggestions? (link)
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dude its no way in hell your gonna get in that shower NAKED and JUST makeout lol its definetly gonna get further so if you plan on goin in there...put in mind that you will do ALOT more then makeout
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I want a makeover since it's the new year and I want to look amazing in upcoming photoshoots that I have. So i need some tips for makeup looks and hair.
Here's two pictures of me: http://i5.tinypic.com/7xuazdl.jpg
http://i4.tinypic.com/86odjy0.jpg
i'm wanting some opinions/tips of what would flatter me better.
Haircuts [wavy, curly ones], colors [all for unnatural :P]? Nose ring or stud? Should i try lipstick? I'm kinda lost.. I really want to look more feminine.. but with a budget. I can't go to the salon every other month or shopping every week. Also, is there any shoes you've seen similar to uggs? I don't like the uggs exactly, i saw a stranger wear something similar and i liked it. i'm not into the latest fashion or anything [friends aren't either]. so any help? i'm tired of wearing casual wear. i want to feel pretty.
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first of all you are pretty and you have a beautiful complexion:D
But everyone can use a change sometimes,if you want to change something then i suggest you can try dying your hair light brown with blond highlights,it would look great on you and would totaly match your skin color,the color you already have is pretty but its just a change you know?Yeah lipstick would look great too you can try putting like a dark red but not like too much on your lips.Like put some on the bottom only and rubb it on all ur lips to give you natural red color^_^i think black eyeliner would look awsome on you...draw it on the bottom and top but not eyeshadow...and put some rose colored blush on...ok thats for the hair and makeup.there are hairstyles you can chek out here
http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/
for clothes you can try cropped jackets on skinny jeans,minni skirts with leggings,just watch what the latest fashion is and do it...thats if your hair isgonna be brown like i said....but if you want to try pUNK clothes itd look great on you but you should dye all your hair the dark red color you have with no black
^_^hope this helped
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Sorry but this is going to be long!
Okay so everyone has their little crushes but yeah! I'm crushing on this guy and I just like him so much. He's tall and hot and i dont know... there's just something about him that really makes me happy. I never get to see him. We go to different schools. Plus he's 3 years older than me which is kind of a lot. Anyways like he came all the way out of his town to see me. He drove all the way to where my cousin lives to see me. I guess... but I don't think he likes me because he didn't talk to me when he came over there he just checked me out a little bit and kind of followed me. Is he shy or what? I don't really know. And he always gets off myspace when I get on. So he doesnt really even attempt to flirt. He's driving me crazy. I mean he always tells my cousin to come get me but I think he doesnt really like me that much. Any advice on what I can do about this? thanks soo much in advance! (link)
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umm i dont think he likes you he didnt try to talk to you,he didnt say he liked you or make any contact with you....i just think he thinks your pretty or hot and thats why hes always chekin you out and wantin to see you...i think you should try and find out what he thinks about you and what he feels for you....and i dont think 3 yearz is too old for you
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15/f (soph.)
THIS MIGHT BE KINDA LONG. BUT PLEASE ANSWER ANYWAYS!!!!
okay so i like four guys. lets call them ABC&D.
A: he told me he liked me. i can trust him with anything. he can trust me with anything. we talk all the time on the phone, basically every night. we flirt all the time and he like tells me he wants to kiss me and stuff. but when we hang out hes awkward and i dont like him as much. he doesnt go to my school either. ive stayed up all night two nights this week talking to him. like hes really amazing when we talk on the fone. i think he may like this other girl too that i hate, but he says he doesnt.
B: he also told me he liked me. but he likes this other girl too. hes liked her for a longgg time. hes liked me for a few months. he says he doesnt wanna like the other girl because she will never like him back and stuff. ive been talking to him on the phone a little lately and hes really cute. and like i actually like him when i see him in person. he also goes to a different school.
C: hes one of my best friends. he goes to my school. we've gone out before during the summer before freshman year. hes really nice we always talk online and sometimes text. we flirt sometimes and hes just like a fun kid to talk to.
D: this guy confuses me sooo much. okay so he like never hooks up with anyone. everyone from his school told me he was a tease and he just nonstop flirts. but then he like made out with me. and he like made the first move. so i was like wtf. it was weird. we still talk online and facebook and stuff. we used to hang out a lot but not anymore. i see him like once every 2 months or something. hes just like a really big mystery and thats what makes me like him.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
is it like wrong if i hook up with more than one of these guys?
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HELP (link)
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Yes it definetly IS wrong to hook up with more then one guy because your going to end up losing all of them.Its not a good idea so stay away from that.As for the guyz, D is totally outta the question,you hear bad things about him and hes obviously just a tease i mean,just flirting around with everyone so stay away from him if you dont want to be played.Stay away from B too because you need a guy thats feelings are to you ONLY...hes obviously sayin he likes you to get over the old gurl he likes he has to empty his feelings out completly for the other gurl or eles if he gets with you....he wont be happy.I think A is a good choice,alhough its akward when you meet...its probably cuz youre both nervous or something....as for the one thats your best freind...he didnt say he liked "that way"so...i think best choice is A
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hello. i need some songs for the following situations:
-i really like this girl and she knows i do. i want a song that i can dedicate to her.
- i want to ask the girl out. any advice on what song i should play when i ask her.
we like any type of music. but preferably acoustic, indie, alternative, emo, anything like that.
something like: cobra starship, cute is what we aim for, albert hammond jr., etc.
THANKS SO MUCH IN ADVANCE! (link)
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you can dedicate her one shot by mario vazquez omg its amazing and so damn sweet shell love it for sure^_^!!
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Is there a certain amount of calories you have to have a day? If so how many? (link)
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yes,for a gurl it should be 2,200 if you want your weight stable...for a guy its 2,800
if you want to lose weight then you should take 1000 calories less then that
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Okay,starting out, not to be conceited, im popular, shaun is not. He has made out with people and i havent though. He tells me everything. He said that he liked Jessica. He askedd her out, she said no. Then a few days later i was talking to him and he said, your so much better than her, i knew i shouldve seen it before. and im like okay...? then a few days later everyone was like omg shaun likes you! My first thought was that i was happy, but im in love with another guy! but the other guy dosnt want a gf. Do i like shaun or just that he likes me? and if i like him is it weird that i love someone and like shaun? help and thanks (link)
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first of all,you need to sort out how you feel...who do YOU want to be with??as for the guy you love...if he loves you back hed want to be with you and ask to be your guy but for some reason...hes not!i dont think that guys serious.Ask the guy you love how he feels for you and if he wants to take it to the next level but do that only if you WANT to be with him...if your having second thoughts break it off with this guy since hes not serious and try the other guy....but becareful thou...if you say hes made out with alot of other gurlz before make sure he doesnt do that when your with him!
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I just don't know what to do with him anymore.. =\
he's just too confusing.
but i dont wanna let go (link)
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i understand you dont want to let him go but trust me this is not the type of guy youd want in a relationship at ALL!If he cant make the simple decision if weather he likes you or not do you actually THINK hes going to be able to make any other bigger decision?!?i dont.Look,ask him ONE last time and tell him that its gon be the last time you ask him this and to answer you in a day or something...if he says no then to hell with him!You desserve better,a guy thatll actually feel for you like you do.
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i am sick of hearing the word gay being tossed around so carelessly. "that song is so gay!" how does that make ANY sense? does that song like other songs of the same gender? am i missing something here..?
i want people to know that i am gay and i find it very offensive to hear people use gay instead of stupid. i am gay. does that make me stupid?
if you are jewish and someone said "that movie is so jewish", you would get offended because jewish does not mean stupid. this is the same exact scenario: a minority being discriminated.
so why do people do this, and how do i get them to stop? =( (link)
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well unfortunatley you cant stop discrimination....:( i understand its totally ignorant and retarted of people to use gay as a term for something stupid and they dont understand how it feels:( You can start by telling people(your freinds...if they use that term)to stop and that it offends you but other people that you barely know wont really understand...youd have to let it go,theyre just stupid and they don understand
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i think i am in love with this glass of water. i have been seeing it for about a month. i don't think it loves me back, though. some of it just keeps disappearing, and i think it is because of me.
tips!
5/f (link)
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awww how cute^_^you can type when your only 5 years old^_^...um...i don think so,this site is meant for giving advice for ppl who need it not for people who act dumb^_^
ciao^_^ oh and...try refilling the cup mabey
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16/F I don't know how to go about it, but I want to be more outgoing. Once I'm labeled as the "shy one" I can't move past it. How can I become my lovable self and accept hugs and whatnot because I'm totally sick of being distant and shady. (link)
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omg i was shy as hell!!!omg id like go RED when a guyd be around me^_^okk well this is what you do...just say whatever is on ur mind nomatter WHAT the outcome is(but not something rearted like HEY YOUR FAT AS HELL EWW GET SOME SLIM FAST!)lool just say whatever you feel i know it may seem hard to come up with the courage to do so but if you dont start now you never will.Itll take time though,start off by socializing with different people.Dont call yourself shy all the time cuz man is what he calls himself.just say..ur ok..ur not shy yet not outgoing.Youll get over it by time TRUST me^_^
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when i was around 5 my mother died from cancer. Now i have a step mother and 2 step sisters. My step mother is every loving, but doesnt like help me with girl stuff. I always have to learn things on my own. And for like clothes, what matches? i cant ask my dad anything like that because hes a guy and doesnt really know. Like for my school pictures, i was wearing a pink and grey top and my dad picked a purple background, she didnt really help me she just helped my 2 step sisters. (I know i can ask her, but shouldnt she realize that i need help with it?) And i ended up crying for a while, cuz like i felt like i was alone and didnt have anyone to help. the next morning i ended up asking her to chance it cuz pink and purple dont go. I mean dont get me wrong, she great, but i just want a little more from her. SOO my question is what should i do? Should i tell my dad or aunt or something? Should i confront her? please help.
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its definetly your right to confront her about how you feel.Its great that shes mad nice to you most step mothers are totall asses to their step kids.Tell her how you feel start off by saying...can i ask you about something alittle personal?YOur a great person and youve always been there for me BUT....then start.I dont think you should start off by telling your dad cuz hell tell her and she might think that your complaining after all shes done for you so you should start with her and if she dont change THEN tell your dad.good luck,if you need anything just drop me a question in my inbox^_^
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