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boyfriend trouble
i've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. we're really in love but ever month almost he does something so selfish and stupid i don't know what to do!!! I'm tired of getting mad at him, because he doesn't mean to do stupid stuff and it just tears us apart when we fight, so i started to let alot of stuff go. but now he's blowing me off all the time and lying. when i do get mad at him he acts so cocky he doesnt even try to apologize he just says alright fine and avoids me the whole day - doesnt call or anything. then he'll text me saying "hey whats up lets hang out" im like no!!! his mom always used to tell him to ignore a girl and she'll forget she's mad because she'll be to busy trying to win his attention - but i've told him more than once games don't work with me.
he used to be the sweetest boyfriend ever, he was always there for me and always honest. he would call me just because he said he wanted to hear my voice. but now he's acting like he owns me. i know he loves me, he doesn't wantto break up and when i mention it he goes crazy. I don't want to break up but he never really listens, what should i do? how can i convince my boyfriend to stop acting like this! i love him i just want to work it out
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ok since it freaks him out when you confront him...dont start off now by confronting him...
call him up and plan a nice long beautiul day together,go out and have some fun...try to do that and mabey...you never know...afterwards hell be cool with you again.Mabey hes just really stressed about something thats pissin him off...if this day goes well...then just dont confront him afterwards IF HE CHANGES....
if it dont go too good and he blocks you out then
you gotta talk to him about it one day or another...ask him if hes stressd..if he still loves you...find out whats bothering him but i prefer you do tha date plan first
good luck
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well, first off im going to say. no relationship is perfect everyone comes into trouble once in awhile. But, he seems like hes taking advantage of you. like, hes doing the stuff hes doing because he knows he can do it without you doing anything about it. kinda like hes walking all over you. and i may be wrong, but talk to him because you both have to put in effort towards therelationship it can't just be effort from obe side. you can't have a one sided relationship, if you dont talk to him he's just going to keep doing whatever hes doing, but then again maybe somethings going on that he doesnt want to talk about right now but he will come around.
i hope i helped.
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Looks at the facts hun: The games are working on you. You are still with him and you are still chasing him.
It is what we do, not what we mean to do that defines us as people. Sure intentions are important, but at some point you have to stand up and say 'He might want to treat me right, but he simply refuses too.'
Explain THAT to him. Sit him down when you two aren't angry and tell him this can't continue or the relationship will end, because it will. Tell him it's time to step up, or you will have to break up.
Be firm, not friendly. If he doesn't listen to that, maybe he wont even hear you when you say 'It's over.'
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A lot of boys don't understand. You just need to talk to him about it. If he doesn't listen to you then what else can you do? Even if he really loves you he would listen. You need to sit down and talk to him about it. You are loving a guy of how he used to be and people change. I just think you should talk to him or maybe take a little break from him and he will come back and realize whats going on. He probably doesn't realize how he is acting you just need to show it to him. I hope everything goes well for you though.
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