|
Kiss him?
Okay. I really like this guy I'm going out with. I've gone out with him twice Friday and today(being Sunday). I really want to kiss him and today we were at his house and he asked me if his dad was upstairs and he was. It was obvious that he wanted to kiss me. He had eye contact with me and everything and he looked like he was going to go for it and I looked away. I dont understand why. Its not like it would be my first kiss it would be my second but still. I'm so nervous but I dont understand why. I've known him since 5th grade. So why can't I do it?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
Your probably just nervous. lol Dont turn your head next time just go ahead and kiss him!!
]
Aww! It's okay. Just because you already got a first doesn't mean you'll be totally confident after. You don't have to kiss him, he won't force you. Maybe just try again. Make eye contact and just lean a little closer. If you're going out with him and you want to get over this fear of kissing, I think you should pop more than one. But don't go crazy doing it or you'll look horny. Just practice on him, sort of, and get over it little by little. I think it's really sweet! <33 I believe in you!
-Jenni C ♥
]
i just think your probably nervous and i think that you are kind of blowing this all out of proportion. He obviously likes you since he wanted to kiss you so you just need to relax. Looking back on this problem you are just going to laugh, we have all been there but once you get used to kissing people it wont even be that big of a deal, so just calm down and just go for it, he isnt going to make fun of you if your a bad kisser or anything like that so you really have nothing to be worried about
good luck
-katie.
]
Mabey your juss not ready to kiss him,nothings wrong bout that.Its only your second time out with him mabey you just need to go out for a third or fourth time.Give your self some time.
]
Perhaps things are going to fast and you don't quite realize it yet. I mean, it's only been two dates. For some people, that's way too soon for a first move. I'm sure that once you get to know him a little more intimately, you'll be ready for that kiss. And hey, you really like this kid, so you probably want your first kiss to be special. Don't rush things and it will work out better in the end. :)
]
your attitude is preventing you from doing it, just go in for the kill and kiss him. you are just nervous which is to be expected, but that's never going to leave unless you kiss him, then you'll get butterflies and it will be an exciting feeling. better than nervousness. goodluck. :)
]
You're probably nervous because you've known him for so long, you really like him, you've only gone out with him twice, and you're still new to the relationship and trying not to mess up. Relax! Opportunities like that will come again, many times, if you continue to see him. Don't beat yourself up for turning away or overthink kissing him; it'll freak you out. Go back to where you're just excited being with him, doing stuff with him, getting used to dating him, and you'll have many awesome future kisses =]
]
More Questions: |