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Okay so I have been talking to my boyfriend for about 2 months now..and weve been going out officially for 3 weeks :). I really like him..and I know he likes me. We love eachother! We are both 16. Im the female! Were both juniors. We kiss, cuddle, and even make-out. But last week he started asking me..well if he could finger me or idk put his hands down my pants. The first time he asked me i was way freaked out.And this was a week ago today. And he knew i was; so he told me i wont ever do that again. But last night he asked me twice!! I wasnt freaked out though because ofcourse i want him too..but im not ready. He just doesnt understand that im all about purity. So i said no both times. But my question is when we are ready which wont be for a long time..will it hurt? My vagina is super small i cant even put a tampon up there yet. And im 16!! Im also really loose..how do i tighten up? Someone please help me! Thankyou!!
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hey.. well i barely can get a tampon in mine too but geting fingered should help though..but when you are ready..he should be somewhat gentle..it doesnt necessarily hurt just if he gets in deep or goes in really hard it mite hurt for a little bit..just talk it out with him how you want it to happen. most times it just feels good!
hope that helps you!
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dont ever do anything with a guy that youre not ready to do...if youre not ready,its not a shameful thing you know its great that your pure...tell him to wait cuz you dont want to do anything your gonna end up regrettin because trust me,regret really sucks.Itll hurt if he does it too hard...when you guyz do somethin like that you shud tell him to go a lil easy on ya and don be ashamed to tell him if it hurts.
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