Hello every one my name is Alyssa. I can help with basically any question. But I really like it when people give feedback. I am really into horses and I do barrel racing, wetern pleasure, showmanship, polebending, and more. I also do gymanstics and soccer. I have also tryed about every sport out their too. I have 5 people in my family my mom my dad my sister and my brother. I have 3 dogs 1 cat 2 rabbits i have 3 horses that are my show horses then the whole family we have a total of 11. You can always ask me any question. Even if I don't know what to say I will try to help. Or I will dig up some info on it to answer your question. So feel free to drop one in the inbox or email or what ever any time. Good luck in the future to every body.
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this summer I'm supposed to go see this music producer guy so I could sing for him. The biggest of my worries is that I have a MAJOR problem with stagefright. Once in kindergarten I was standing on the stage in the auditorium doing a play. When I was walking off the stage, I tripped and fell flat on my face and all I could hear was everyone laughing at me. Ever since then I've been terrified to do anything in front of people that aren't my family. Can you please help me? (link)
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well yes i have to agree with the person below me pretend everyone is in there under wear. But when I was told that i started laughing in front of a veryyyyy important speech. So what I had to do was to keep getting up infront of people And work hard and concentrate on the back wall and keep pacing your eyes over it so that it looks like you are looking at the crowd but..... you fill in the blanck. Good Luck. Hope this helps!
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I was wondering what everyone's opinions were on contact solution...like which one is the best. I know Renu is bad because there's a pattern of eye infections among those who use it. I am currently using complete moisture plus...but someone told me that long periods of use could cause redness in the eye..They recommended opti-free--So I was wondering if it was good or not? If anyone else has other suggestions...Let me know! :) Thanks! (link)
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Well I wear contacts and i either use boston or opti free i prefere to use the opti free though i dont know of any problumes that come with it but that is what my eye doctor put me on when i got my contacts 2 1/2 yrs ago and I have never had a problume. Hope I helped
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have any of you guys ever had frozen grapes or bananas? and what did they taste like?
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I personally LOVE frozen grapes they in a way taste like a grape popsicle except ina different way they are very sweet and a good healthy snack! But i dont know about bananas i am allergic to them so I havent ever had them.
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what would be a good age to start shaving your legs? i don't know what age my child should do it. i forgot when i started. and if the hair is pretty noticable would 10, 11, or 12 be good? i need ranges.
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Well if it is noticable and she is bugged about it I would go ahead and let her I think most girls start shaving there legs at about 11 I hated my moms rule when i was younger it was your not allowed to shave your legs until you become a women! So basically its up to you and the comfort of your daughter with her legs! Good Luck in deciding.
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Hi, i weight 116.5 pounds and im 5'6. my age is 14. i have a 8% body fat percentage rate. i run and workout every other day, and i play baseball. i think im fat, i dont no why, it takes over my life! please help me. do u think im fat? (link)
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No your not fat! i am one year younger than you and i weigh more than you and im the same height. But if you wanna know if your healthy weight or niot go to this web sight http://www.seventeen.com/health/bmi/spc/0,,665141_665142,00.html it works I do it once a month and explore the web site it has alot of good things for weight problumes and things like that. Good Luck! Hope I helped
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ok well i am a 17 year old male, and of course my problem involves a girl. i have a major crush on this girl, i mean the whole nine yards. sweaty palms, loss of words, clumsiness, you name it (which is wierd because i NEVER have problems with girls). the cool thing is that i think she has a crush on me too. the thing is, my best friend (17/M) also likes this girl a lot, although she doesnt like him. i need to know what to do in this situation, because it is driving me insane. i will provide feedback. Thank you so much! (link)
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Awwwwwwwwww thats so cute. But anyways if you like this girl(which it sounds like you do) then you need to go talk to your other friend and see if he would mind if you asked her out. But you know a girl likes you by the body language. Or if you wanna do somthing by going a little bit slower and not jumping to going out then if your school has an end of the year dance or somthing like that invite her to go to it girls LOVE it when a guy comes to them and we dont have to go to the guy. I hope i helped. Good luck!
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would it be weird to talk to your dead grandmother portait about things? cause i know a friend that does it and it helps her or something (link)
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Well acctually yes, it could help her with releaving stress telling it her deepest secrets. She was probally very close to her so that gives her the comfort she needs and it helps her to deal wioth the fact shes gone but can still in a way tell her whats going on. But I dont think its that weired. So I wouldnt worry about it or anyhting like that. hope I helped
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so story is me and my boyfriend were having unprotected sex saturday (27). yes i know, very bad, but we were just trying it for a second. he kept going and finally pulled out and was like oh shit. i looked down and the cum was coming out. i asked him if he pulled out in time but he didnt know. now im freaking out because i havent gotten my period. i was due the 27-30. we looked ovulation up and it said the days before your period your infertile. could it just be stress that is keeping me from getting it or should i go to the doctor? please help. i rate 5's (link)
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Well yeah i would say you need to go to a doctor. But if you dont want to go there first then get a pregnancy test from a local drug store or something like that also they are not 100% accurate but you do need to get a test of some kind and go from there. If you are a teenager you need to tell a trusted adult or parent.
HOpe i helped good luck!
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It hurts to touch my clit, or the area to the right. The swelling just came up today, it's really red. there seems to be a vein or nerve or something that runs from the clit to the end of the lip, and the swelling is right under that. I'm not sure that it's swelling, or if it is a lump, but it is around the size of a marble or smaller, and doesn't not itch. I am sexually active, but I always use a condom and they have never broken. I'm not suer when my last period was, so I don't know if I am late or not, but I am pretty sure I'm not pregnant. What should I do. I am 16 years old by the way, and I am very sensitive down there, even shaving is really hard on my skin, so maybe it's a reaction? (link)
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I hate to tell you this but I think you need to go to the doctor and get it checked out. You most likly have an std. I know your at the age you may not want to tell a parent or trusted adult but you need to ! i hope I helped. Good Luck
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okay. well ive been havinh family problems. im very unhappy. because of this i havent had a friend over in 5 years! other then 2 girls that ive known my whole life. i hate my father, who comes over all the time. and my mom just doesnt get it. she sees how happy i am. but its almost like she doesnt care. and i think ive gone through so much in my life. i reallly want to move. and she has a boyfriend in another state that she is in love with. and it would be wonderful to move there. but everytime i bring up moving she just tells me to be quiet. i dont know what to do (link)
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Well i know it may be hard and everything you can try and hint to it by going and moving there but in all reality your mom is the boss and what she says is going to be what happens no matter what untill you have gone and moved out! The ways you could say this is like go online and look at houses for sale in that area find one that she would FALL IN LOVE with or say your relationship would be so much better if you lived near him or with him which ever would happen you could say mom i am alot happier when you are with your bf and i want to get away from da he makes my life so hard!I cant fix your problumes I can only try to help them get better I hope I helped! Good Luck
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I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do? (link)
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Hunny if you like this guy you need to stay with him you could call him and stuff like that but you dont want to mess somthing up over a trip. Ok say another girl likes himand is just waiting for yo uto breake up with him then you no wha he coud be gone and you may not have another chance with him!
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What is a hymen? How does it break? Do you bleed the first time you have sex? (link)
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A hymen.. look it up! It breaks when the PENIS pushes against it during sex. And Yes you can bleed the first time you have sex, it is perfectly natural. If you use tampons, it may not bleed. The hymen can be broken just by using a tampon.
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I'm considering getting a circumcision since I heard it is less likely to get STD's. The only problem is that some of my friends said that getting a circumcision makes your penis smaller. I don't know how since it is just getting your foreskin cut. Is this true or not? (link)
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Why does it matter in the first place? Its not about the size of the wand but the magic within. really though. And No its not true.
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if you have sex like less than a week before your period and become pregant will you still have your period for that month? (link)
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Not if youre pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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So, last night (Around 1:30 in the morning?) my boyfriend and I had sex and whatnot. We used a condom and all, but it ripped. I don't know if he realized it at first, so I don't know if he got his sperm inside of me or not, but I'm reallllly paranoid. We've had sex a few times before without a condom but he swears he pulled out before anything happened. I have no idea what to do, I'm really scared. Should I go get an ECP? I'm not sure when I was supposed to get my period but I was expecting it sometime this weekend/week. Any advice you can give me us greatly appreciated.. Please help? :/.. (link)
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I would. Just to be sure. And it wouldn't hurt to ALWAYS use protection. Some of my friends have had sex and they always say the guy pulls out but you dont know for sure. I would talk to a parent or trusted adult first. They will be able to help you.
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I wanna give my friend a cool nickname with something to do with her name. Her name's Victoria and her middle name's Nicole. What are some nicknames I could call her besides Vic, Vicky, Torie, and Toria? (link)
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Cal her Vicole, Nivcole, Vicincly, Nitorian, Velican, just make somthing uo me and my friends are here thinking they might sound cheesey but those are the ones that stick like i get called boot at school because i had to wear a walking boot after i hert my self tripping and was on crutches for over 3 months
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i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person? (link)
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1. Don't lie about it. Just talk to your parents and his parents all together or seperately. That's up to you.
2. YOU SEE A DOCTOR. Did you take a pregnancy test with one of those "sticks"? They aren't always accurate. You need to get an actual pregnancy test from a doctor. Most doctors will not treat you unless you have parental consent.
3. No you are NOT a horrible person. Many teens are having sex and that doesn't make them a bad person.
Hope it works out for you!
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ok. well i have stage fright rly bad. i freak out when i have to talk in front of my class of 23 people or less. i got accepted to be on a team at school. well we have to perform in front of hundreds of people at football games and pep rallies. im really scared. how can i get over this?? (link)
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Well to get over this fear this may sound dorky or weired but to get to help the ease of talking to people in groups and things like that join another small club like 4-H to help you talk better become leader of the new club your in or try to get a spot were you will be presenting the most or alot but in the mean time set out a few stuffed animals get some little kids somthing to help you learn to talk to some one and to boost your self confidence when talking in a group. And also remeber the more you do it the easier it will be.
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Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do (link)
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Well if you guys are that commited to each other maybe you can show your "love" for each other in a different way like if he wants to have somthing saying like "shes mine" then maybe try a promise ring but not a huge deal of one just an inside thing. But yes you are way to YOUNG don't be in a hurry to grow up! You guys keep going out and stuff but you will both change a large percent of divorces come from the cuples geting married to young and they change fall out of love and breake peoples hearts and have a terable time getting over it. I deffinitally think you need to tell him yeah you like him alot but say om sorry but i think were too young for that big of a commitment. Hope I helped
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okay so my boyfriend is a little younger than me and hes not a virgin .. and hes cheated in the past .. but i just found out about all this today from his bestfriend .. so what should i do? .. i really dont like the fact that hes not a virgin .. and he just turned 14 .. so HELP !!
thnks chasity x (link)
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Well if your not comfertable with that maybe try confronting him about it. If thats all he wants a girl for is to use her than i would say give him the boot! Find out from the aactuall sorce not the scorses friend you never know if they switched things up or not. I had somthing similar happen to me one time except my boyfriends bro tryed to get us to breake up because he liked me. But anyways if you truly like him talk to him about it or go with your heart as I like to put it. I can't make the decision for you but i can try and help There are plenty of guys that will respect you for you and that are vergins don't go out with any body to just "go out" with them. Hope I helped and Good Luck
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