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love triangle (sort of)
ok well i am a 17 year old male, and of course my problem involves a girl. i have a major crush on this girl, i mean the whole nine yards. sweaty palms, loss of words, clumsiness, you name it (which is wierd because i NEVER have problems with girls). the cool thing is that i think she has a crush on me too. the thing is, my best friend (17/M) also likes this girl a lot, although she doesnt like him. i need to know what to do in this situation, because it is driving me insane. i will provide feedback. Thank you so much!
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Awwwwwwwwww thats so cute. But anyways if you like this girl(which it sounds like you do) then you need to go talk to your other friend and see if he would mind if you asked her out. But you know a girl likes you by the body language. Or if you wanna do somthing by going a little bit slower and not jumping to going out then if your school has an end of the year dance or somthing like that invite her to go to it girls LOVE it when a guy comes to them and we dont have to go to the guy. I hope i helped. Good luck!
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Hey hun, don't worry. The same thing is going on with me right now. Remember, your friend doesn't own the girl, so he can't have control on who you like. It may seem awkward between you and him, but you should keep liking this girl and don't let anyone stop you.
In my situation, I like a guy who likes me, and my best friend LOVES him but he doesn't like her.
What I say is just go with the flow, and don't let anything get in the way.
<3 Hope I helped. Good luck.
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I think first you should talk to your friend, let him know that you like her and she likes you, and make sure he's okay with it. If he really likes her, he would want her to be happy, and she likes you, so being with you would make her happy I guess. Yeah, So talk to him and then make your move, that way even if he is a little upset about it, it wouldn't be as bad as him finding out that you were dating behind his back. Hope I helped!
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If you really like her, then go!go!goooo! tell you what, SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND'S PROPERTY.
I think the best thing that you can do is to find out first if She really likes you then ask your friend if he's okay with you going out with her. Just be honest. Yeah, he might get hurt, but at least you were honest and you didn't date the girl both of you like behind his back.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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Love Triangle,
Well I think the key to success in this situation is honesty and respect. If you value your friendship...you'll be honest...and if he values your friendship...he'll respect your honesty. Sometimes you can only know your true friends when they are tested through situations like this.
Bottom line, it is up to the girl to choose who she wants to be with and that decision needs to be respected too.
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talk to your friend first... but regardless of wether or not he cares about you dating this girl or whatever... you should still go for her b/c if he is truly your friend... then he shouldn't care.
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just stay true to the way you are- and dont worry about him. so what if he likes her?- it obviously means youve got a nyce gurl on your hands- but dont try and get between them. they may somehow become really good friends while you get the girl. just be yourself- she obviously likes you for that reason! good luck and i hope i helped!
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You ask her out. There is no reason why you should miss an opportunity just because your friend likes her too.
He may be a little mad for a while, but if she liked him she wouldn't go out with you. Talk to him about it first so he doesn't get surprised or hear about it second hand. Just don't give up your own opportunity at happiness. :)
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