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okay. well ive been havinh family problems. im very unhappy. because of this i havent had a friend over in 5 years! other then 2 girls that ive known my whole life. i hate my father, who comes over all the time. and my mom just doesnt get it. she sees how happy i am. but its almost like she doesnt care. and i think ive gone through so much in my life. i reallly want to move. and she has a boyfriend in another state that she is in love with. and it would be wonderful to move there. but everytime i bring up moving she just tells me to be quiet. i dont know what to do
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Moving isn't going to solve your problem sweeite. Tell your mother how you have been feeling about your father, and what can be done about that. Then you should focus on your own life, which you can control. Make new friends isn't hard, it just takes some changes, like joining new clubs or sports teams where you can meet new people. I think your quality of life would improve quite a bit if you made some small changes instead of something highly dramatic, like moving.
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I know it's hard, but try and stick with it. If you can get through this, you can get through most things. Just think of this as a way to become stronger. If you really want to move, try talking to your mom at a time when she is in a good mood. Point out the things that are bothering you, and make sure she knows you are unhappy. I'm sure she cares about your happiness, even if she might not show it. Hope this helps and if you need to talk, you know where to find me.
-cindy <3
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Well i know it may be hard and everything you can try and hint to it by going and moving there but in all reality your mom is the boss and what she says is going to be what happens no matter what untill you have gone and moved out! The ways you could say this is like go online and look at houses for sale in that area find one that she would FALL IN LOVE with or say your relationship would be so much better if you lived near him or with him which ever would happen you could say mom i am alot happier when you are with your bf and i want to get away from da he makes my life so hard!I cant fix your problumes I can only try to help them get better I hope I helped! Good Luck
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