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Before I found this site a had given advice many, many times. I am proud to say that some of my advice has changed lives, and even saved them. I decided that I wanted to do more, to help change the world any way I could.
So I went searching for advice-giving online communities, and I found this.
advice
basically;
- i get lightheaded easily
- i zone out a lot
- i get madddd headaches out of no where
- i get really moody
- i feel queasy often
- i get really lazy and unmotivated
- i have trouble fallin/stayin asleep
what could this be ??? im sick of it ! thanks :/
My mom has had hypoglycemia since before I was born.
Yes, some people are born with it, but she developed it when she had very, VERY little money and was a single mom of 2.
If she gets stressed her blood sugar level drops. It also may happen randomly. Hypoglycemia is the lack of sugar in the body, whereas diabetes is the excessive sugar levels.
Tips: Eat, go to the doctor(He'll probably give you a subscription for sugar tablets.), don't skip meals, and find a way to deal with stress.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years already. I do everything for him. If he needs a ride im there. If he needs money im there. We go out to eat on weekends he usually pays when I offer to. We see each other almost everything but not the whole day together. I do super nice things for him. For example when we go to his soccer game I pass by a gas station and buy him his favorite gatorade drink or or ill help him wit homework or stuff like that. I feel like I go above and beyond for him. But on the other hand he doesn't do anything like that for. For example. I took my brother and his sister to a community college to take a placemment test, it takes 2 hours to finish. I ask him if he could pick me up so I wouldn't be alone. He complained and said that he would have to bring me back and it would be pointless when he lives about 5 minutes away. And another thing I don't know if I just feel insecure or I feel like he's drifting away but I complained that he didn't have pictures of me on his phone or his laptop or even his itouch. He said I was being stupid and I complain over the stupidest thing. I don't know what to do. We get into arguments frequently now. It really feels like he doesn't love me. I don't know what to do. Am I stupid for complaining. And feeling this way?
Cuddle has a point. There's just one thing I've learned from people around me: During a "break" someone will generally date and/or sleep with other people. The other one then gets mad and that leads to a possibly violent break-up. In my opinion, since it sounds like neither of you is enjoying the relationship, you should calmly break up with him. Don't tell him why you're breaking up, especially if he asks. If he appears to get angry, leave ASAP. It might get dangerous.
Remember, if your relationship isn't fun 85% of the time, it's time to leave.
okay..so all summer i've been tanning outside..i usually take my strings off my top peice..cause i dont really want tan lines there..
but i've kinda been thinking about going tanning in a booth..but i really dont wanna pay for that..and since i'm not driving yet..i dont have anyway to get there except my mom..and idk if she would take me. but it's free just tanning outside...
so which would be better?
Tanning outside is always better. In a tanning booth your body is being bombarded with billions upon billions of UNHEALTHY UV rays. Yes, you get UV rays from the sun, too. But it's not as many and it's not the only light you get. Think of it like this, would you want to sit in a microwave being pelted with radiation? That's what a tanning bed does, but the radiation level is higher. UV rays are more damaging than microwaves - and MACrowaves are a definite no-no. UV light is just under macrowaves on the chart of damaging light.
Spend too much time in tanning beds over the years and you may develope skin cancer.
FYI - Microwaves and macrowaves are different.
Microwaves are what is used in microwaves to cook from the inside out.
Macrowaves are the highest frequency of radiation and will give you cancer.
What do guys think of girls watching porn? is it a total turn off or on? or neither?
It depends on the guy... Just think about this: A lot of guys watch porn(I personally find it pointless and disgusting.). They feel fine watching strange people have sex on their tv or computer.
If they do something but don't want you to, that's a double-standard. I know we all hate those - especially when we're on the wrong end.
What I'm trying to say is, there are a lot of guys that would find it a turn-on, a lot that would find it a turn-off, and people like me who don't really care. It's your decision. I mean, if my girlfriend watched porn I almost definitely wouldn't watch it with her because in my opinion porn is disgusting. But, I wouldn't get mad if she did, it's not like she'd be cheating on me.
I'm 15 and need personal references for job applications. Everyone tells me to use my teachers, but I'm already out of school and I was never that close to any of my teachers (they all liked me, but I just wasn't close to them). I haven't done any volunteer work or anything like that, and I don't play sports, so no coaches. I don't know any of my neighbors very well, except for the ones who are my friends' families. I have no idea who I could put down. Help?
Number 1 rule in job references: DON'T use your parents. They won't be counted for anything since they'd probably lie for you.
Alrightie then...Im 15 years old and am currently dating a very sweet 16 year old boy whom I love with my whole heart! We have been dating for 6 months and he is truly the first love of my life. But unfortunatley he is a Buddhist and I am a Christian. My parents want me to marry a Christian man. They have asked me what religion he is, and when they do I simply bring up the fact that he is in a Christian rock band called Shy of Divinity (www.shyofdivinity.com) So I guess they just Assumed he was a Christian. I have a feeling that sooner or later Im going to have to tell them the that he is a Buddhist. How am I going to break it to them, and when is a good time???
~thanx for the help~
Upsidedown is right. Also, even if they don't respect your decision, There's nothing they can do about it. You're a human and you have rights. Also, what's the difference if you marry someone of a different religion? People can have their opinions. Religion doesn't really matter. It's a set of beliefs, not something you should let dictate your life.
My advice: Be your own person.
soo.. i just got in a load of shit for drugs. (please dont tell me how stupid i am, i know i am)
i havent smoked in about 3 weeks. but 3 weeks ago i smoked a shitload of weed...
so for my drug test which is on thursday at 4:30 at the doctors office. i want to know if drinking a crapload of water will help me.
also, if its possiable.. how much water would i have to drink?
im going to start drinking a crapload of waterbottles tonight. all day wednesday. and all day thursday.
i read that drinking about a gallon of water will help.
and running. so, how many waterbottles a day should i drink?
please and thank you for the help=]
With the way you describe it, I'd drink at least a gallon a day. Drugs are generally in the system for a while, and you want it out fast. If that doesn't work, move to Amsterdam and get some white minnow. Weed here might as well be shoelaces..... Comedy lovers you know what I'm talking about...
15/F
I'm searching for a Lelouch cosplay outfit from Code Geass. HOWEVER, I am not searching for his school uniform. I'm searching for the uniform he wears when he is playing as Zero. I can't seem to find it for a reasonable price. By reasonable, I mean something UNDER 140$. Could it be possible that I find something as such? If not, is there somewhere to find his school uniform at a cheap price as well? I really need this because I am planning on going to a convention this fall! Any information on cosplay would help greatly, thank you!
I didn't find the full costume, but I found the cloak. I've never heard of Lelouch before, so I don't know if it's accurate. Here's the address: http://www.399cosplayshop.com/japanese-anime-cosplay-costumes/code-geass-lelouch-of-the-rebellion-cosplay.php
my computer ended up with a virus sometime last fall.. prob around october and november. my computer is still fine for the most part, but is a little slower and freezes more often, and occasionally won't connect to the internet when you want it to. we dont have the money to take it in to get fixed or buy any software right now so we just deal with it.
well i dont know what has happened, but my itunes is gone. as is limewire. when i try to open itunes, it says "this action is only valid for products that are currently installed." and that's as far as i get. i've tried several times to redownload it from apple.com and for awhile it would get allll the way through the download, but the same pop up would still come up, but now it only gets about halfway through the download and it tells me to install quicktime.. but again, it wont let me! limewire wont open after it's downloaded either. all my music is still on my computer, but i can't access it or update my ipod. i'm losing my mind!!!! how can i get my itunes and limewire to work again? i've uninstalled and reinstalled till i'm blue in the face, and still nothing.
also it won't let me connect my camera either, it like won't read it. so if you can help me there, that'd be great, but my main focus is my music. help?
If I were you I wouldn't trust free anti-virus software. It's usually ad-ware itself. What I would do is a system recovery. When the computer is starting up press either F10 or F11. It depends on what computer you have, but I believe for most computers it's F10 or F11. If not try the other function(F#) keys.
EDIT: You asked me if this would delete your music files.
If it functions like a normal computer, it won't delete any files. It only deletes programs, which may be easily re-installed.
If your music files aren't saved to the hard drive, but they're saved to Limewire or i-Tunes they will be deleted. If you have an MP3 player or some blank CDs save the music to those, and when you do the system recovery just upload(rip) them from the CD/MP3. Then you'd have it on your computer and an external file.
EDIT: I checked my computer, and as the computer is starting up you can either wait or it gives you have to other options. Choose fast and press F12.
15/f
in july i will be taking a plane to new orleans. ive only been on a plane once before when i was ten, and i was terrified.
recently there have been a lot of planes crashing and i just heard about a pilot dying on board.
im starting to really worry myself, and i was just wondering if there was anything i could do to chill myself out?
i worry way too much and this plane thing is seriously starting to stress me out majorly.
any advice?
thanks :)
It is proven that driving a car is far more dangerous than flying a plane. More people die in one day from car crashes than people die in plane crashes every year.
But, try bringing a paper bag. If you have an anxiety attack, hold it around your mouth and breath deeply. The carbon dioxide content will slow your heartbeat back down to normal speeds, because you're getting less oxygen. Also, pretend you're not on a plane. Just sit back and listen to the radio or watch a movie. Bring a handheld game in your carry-on. Something to take your mind off the fact that you're 30,000 feet in the air.
9 months in an on and off relationship we broke up about 6 times. i broke up with him. we broke up because im a home girl stays home and reads hes a party animal and its a long distance relationship so i expect him to kall or text me once a day >.< just a little text or chat for 5 mins thats all just to know how his days going but he thinks that its gay.. and he'll just kall like once a week and it would be like 4am in morning when hes all party-ed out. and hes been sleeping over at a few girls houses. but noe he moved to my area and i see him more often he only goes out on weekends and we started having sex but we're not together and he says he loves me but i say it more then he does.. and i want to ask him to get back together or kind of give him a sign i wanna get back together and make him pop the question what should i do? .. i dont want to have sex and stuff with him if we're not together i want him to be commited to me
Sorry to say: To me it sounds like he's using you for sex and he's using the "L" word to keep you thinking he cares. Also, if he's going to "pop the question" he'll do it. You can't push someone into doing that or it'll ruin the relationship - that is if you have one and he's not using you.
I'm 14. I want to be the kind of girl people can easily talk to. I mean people talk to me. If I IM them I can talk so easily but in person...its different. I'm usually quiet but sometimes I speak up more. So what should I do? My confidence level is pretty low. But I'm working on it. Can anybody help me with this?
Well there are two things you can do. One thing to definitely not do.
1. Don't think about the fact that you're not alone.
2. Practice in front of a mirror or with a friend.
3. DO NOT picture them in their underwear - you may laugh. They would be offended because they'd think you're laughing at them.
It sounds stupid, but I did it for a speech I had to give in class and it helped a lot.
hi so im melinda and im 20 years old. i have a bf that is 22 and weve been dating for 2 years. my values were that i would wait until i got married, but i realized i should just wait till i find someone i love. i have never had sex and neither has he. are there any tips in avoiding pregnancy or any tips at all because im very nervous.
Remember, the only 100% protection is abstinence. Other than that, a condom is the most likely to work(99%). Combining that with a pill or injection will almost definitely prevent pregnancy.
WARNING: ONLY ABSTINENCE OR CONDOM USE MAY PREVENT STDs
14/f
So my family is not at its greatest level. It hasn't been for awhile. I'm not saying its the worst. Cause it can get worse. I'm not complaining, I'm just asking for help.
So I get stressed out so easily. I cry every night. Some of the times I don't know why.
My mom is an alcoholic. My dad fights with her all the time about it. I mean, he drinks too, but its moderate. It kinda scares me because she has gotten way worse. I've always kept these things private. But I opened up to one of my friends since I was crying in school for awhile. She went with me to something for teens with alcoholic parents. Honestly, I didn't feel it would help me. So I didn't go back.
My friend always tries to help me and everything. She knows everything about me. Mostly. I've cut myself since I was in 8th grade. I'm going to be a sophomore this year. I know its really bad. But its turned into a habit I can't stop. And I don't really want to because I like it so much. The only people who have ever found out were some of my friends. They try to help, but they can't. They tell me to talk. I just can't. I don't open up to someone and I just can't go and talk to some adult I don't know and tell them my problems. I just can't. Since I started, I couldn't stop, and it got worse. I don't do it deep. Just enough to feel it...but I got to where I cut everywhere. I feel alone when I do this.
So people say I need help. It's not like that...I can't be crazy. One of my bestest friends has called me stupid for cutting when she found out. I just can't do this and I can't deal with it. She grew up in a great home so I don't blame her for seeing it that way...
My brother has gotten into so much trouble. He almost went to juvi for stealing. Its not fun to sit back and watch that.
A few of my friends come to me for help. I'm there to listen. They just don't know that I need someone there. I'm so glad that they need me though.
So I'm sorry this was long. What should I do?
Well, I wouldn't say you're stupid for cutting. You just don't know how to deal with it. To replace cutting before you slip and kill yourself, try chewing gum. It sounds stupid but it works. I've seen a lot of people start small and end up almost dead. I'm asking you to try chewing gum and to go to those meetings at least a few times. Could you do that please? I wouldn't want you to slip and accidentally go too deep, and the meetings will probably help if you actually talk. Remember, the people there will be understanding because they've been through the same thing. So, could you try that for me?
Hi there...
I need a bit of help. I have two weeks to the biggest ball in the small town I live in. It's an extremely formal ball and I have a beautiful dress I am going to wear...EXCEPT.....
I put it on last night, it fits, however it does not do up. Obviously my bust got a bit bigger or I just got back fat..hehe!!
Ok so, two weeks....
If I was to cut out all junk food and exercise for at least a half hour every day for two weeks.. do you think I'd be able to fit into my dress??
I'm not usually to type of person to diet like crazy but this is extremely important to me. All I want to do it wear this dress. I've got my mind set on it and I will wear it not matter what!
Please give any advice on what's worked for you in the past on any similar situation like this. Much appreciated.
I would say eat healthy and work out at least an hour a day. I work out 20 hours a week and even though I don't ALWAYS eat healthy, I'm only 110 pounds(I'm a guy.). If you don't think it's going fast enough, you can always have the dress let out.
i have the LG vu, and i have a memory card for it. i dont have picture messaging, so is there any way i can save the pictures on my phone to the memory card? how?
Every phone has a memory card(SIM card). If they didn't, you couldn't save anything at all. Your phone wouldn't even function. I, too, have the LG Vu CU920. The pictures automatically save if it works properly. To view your pictures first go to your menu. Go to the files section(3rd tab). Tap "Pictures" and there you go. If you meant an external memory card just look under my post and click "Ask anonymous99 a question". I'll help you from there.
I carry a lot of weight in my tummy. It seems like no matter how much weight I lose, I have a pot belly and people ask me if I'm pregnant. I see a lot of middle aged women with this problem, but I am only 21. Even if I lost weight until I was at the very lowest point of the healthy range (I have been that small in the past), I still have a fat tummy. Is liposuction my only option? I would never get it, but I want to know if there is anything else I can do to change the shape of my body. No gimmicks please. Please don't tell me to eat acai berry, spammer. I guess if you're a spammer you're not reading this closely though. Ho, hum.
Also, ab exercises should do a lot. Work up from small numbers. I've been taking martial arts for a few years and my instructor was in the army so we do a lot of exercises. We'll do like 200 pushups, situps, etc. at a time. We'll do 5 minutes of planks(back straight, elbows and toes only on the floor). Obviously you'd want to cycle them so your muscles have resting time.
Basically, work out and try to get situps in there too. That should turn that fat into muscle throughout your body and tighten it into your abs.
is very hard to read. He tells me he really loves me and stuff but i don't know sometimes. He acts like he does love me but he doesn't want to get annoying and sticky with it. I don't know if he really does because like today he gave this girl his sweater. maybe im getting a llitle jealous but idk anymore.
As Kiran said, that was most likely an act of kindness. I've lent a girl my hoodie in gym before because she was cold, and it had nothing to do with who she is or how I feel about her. No, I wouldn't have done it if she was a...I'll say jerk to be nice. But anyone else I would.
Don't worry if he gave her his sweater, it's nothing big.
So, I have a "Elliptical Cross-Trainer" at home, and I was thinking, if I use it every day, for 15-20 minutes, will that help me lose weight, or just build muscle?
Also, I'm going to stop snacking and eating fast food, and giving up energy drinks + sodas.
I've been drinking a litre of water a day for the past few weeks, will that help me lose weight as well?
Basically, I'm not obese, and my BMI is average, but I'm chubby, I only need to lose about 5-8Kgs.
Thanks :)
Just remember, if you're average you'll gain weight. Muscle weighs more than fat. A lot more. You could stand on one of those weight-monitors at the mall and have it say you're obese when you're actually all muscle.
If you want to get into shape you're on your way. But you'll need to do more than use one piece of gym equipment to do it. Do some push-ups (hands shoulder-width apart, back straight, on your toes), sit-ups(hands behind your head is bad for your back and spine though) and pull-ups. If you don't have anything to do pull-ups, buy an Iron Gym or Iron Gym Extreme at your local Olympia Sports. They're cheap, easy to assemble, and you just set it in your doorway.
here the deal..
me and my boyfriend have had sex about 4-5 times i think and i lost it to him like a month back i feel nothing .. IS THAT NORMAL?? when are you suppost to feel pleasure? how many times do i have to have sex with him to finally feel something? and well i dont think he feels anything either because he never comes (he didnt loose his virginity to me he's experience). whats wrong with me i cant satisfy him and i feel nothing as well ! during sex does he HAVE TO COME to show that he felt pleasure? because he has never ever come and we had it 4-5 times now .. and i want to satisfy him i really do but me not feeling anything doesnt really motivate me to do much during sex. i try and attempt but i dont know it feels awkward .. i really want to pleasure him.. i neeed help !! >.
Well, as a guy, I can tell you that a guy doesn't have to come if he feels pleasure. That just means he has reached a climax - highest point - of pleasure. If "it" is up, he's feeling pleasure. Without being rude - may I suggest to just keep trying different positions?