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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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I met a man who seemed very interested in me. He gave me his phone number, I phoned him a few days later and he wanted to get together. He said he'd call back in a few days. After two weeks of not hearing from him I called him back. He apologized, said he had out of town guests and would try to get back to me in a week or two. It's been over two weeks and I haven't heard from him. Should I call him again or forget about him?

Trust me, you need to forget about him. if he wants you then he can do the chasing. you've made an attempt, you dont want to look desperate!

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so i have a boyfriend. he loves me and tells my im amazing/gorgeous/beautiful and everything a girl loves to hear on a regular basis. we've been together over a year. he says he loves my body. the thing is, i dont love it. at all. i mean yeah i have big boobs but thats about it. im overweight (5'9" about 251 lbs, size 18 pants and 3x shirt). im completely disgusted with my body but somehow he finds me beautiful and almost has me thinking maybe its true. but how do i see myself the way he sees me? i believe that he thinks so but im just like "ugh...why?". he wants me to be self confident but its like i just cant. im ahnee on advicenators if you want a pic (its small though)

you gotta understand that everyone has something about themselves that they dont like. unfortunately we focus on the negatives. think of what you like on that and when you feel like your not beautiful think of that. Trust me, it's the best way to be :)

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I am 15f and there is this guy at school i like we hang out and everything but i feel he is not feeling me like i am He always has a girl name stacy written in his thing. Ya me and this guy have kissed and he acts like nothing happen. ut somethimes i feel he only wants SEX and i am not going to give him sex not know or never. i dont know what to do i really like him but i have this feeling he doesnt. Even though he is always hugging me i just feel he does it to play around with me. Ya one time he told me that he liked me and wanted to go around with me but he was all missed up with drugs that day so i didnt believe him. What should i do should i stop calling him or what i really need HELP i just cant stop thinking about this guy Oh and the bad thing is that this guy give me my fist kiss please help me?

Dont go there honey, for starters, he does drugs which means he could trip out and hurt you, trust me, i'm talking from experience! if he cant make up his mind then forget him. let him chase you if he likes you!

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ive been on accutance for 7 years now is that bad? are there any risks?

Do you mean accutane? as in for Acne?

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can bulimia cause cancer? ive been throwing up for the last 7 years of my life it usually is only for weeks or months at a time and i NEVER LOSE WIEGHT!

I'm not sure if it can cause cancer but it can make you really ill, you could tear your esophageus, it's really bad for you! stop it! your body is reacting to you throwing up and the little food you keep down is staying in you body so you dont lose too much weight, excersize and eat right, way more effective and it's not life-threatening!

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I don't think my parents get it.
They think im supposly smart when I try, & yeah.. I kinda am. But, I tried SO hard for studying for my midterms. & I didn't do well on hardly ANY of them. I got an A+ on my english, a C+ in math, & my religion.. well I failed it. & my history I got a C-. Like, I thought I did really good, except religion, I didn't study something right or whatever. Anyways, I don't get how to explain it to my mom & everything, that I don't get everything. Like my little brother, hes like so smart. He gets maybe 2 Bs on his report card. I try hard, but I'm just really not that smart.. what do I say to my parents? Whats my like excuse?!

just tell them you get nervous on tests, you get in there and freak out at the consequence of failing and end up forgetting everything. it worked for me! just act really sorry.

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13 GIRL
I'm going out with this guy and hes nice and all but I don't love him I only like him as a friend. I want to dump him but I'm to afraid if I do he'll tell everyone this horrible secret I told and trusted him with and this is a family secret. I really want to dump him because I really like this other guy and I think he likes me back. But the guy I like is my brother's friend who's one year older! What do I do? How do I make my boyfriend not tell anyone my secret? And how do I go out with the guy I like without making things with my brother and all??

The only thing you can do is be honest with him. tell him that you aren't sure if you feel the same way as him. i've just had to do it and it was hard but he accepted it - eventually. as i dont know him i dont know if he would tell your secret but if you know the relationship is wrong you just have to do it. take that risk, as hard as it is. hopefully he wont say anything but there really isn't anything you can do except get a juicy secret of his and threaten to tell it if he tells yours, i think it's a bit childish but if it works, who cares? try to stay friends if possible.

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Hey everytime like when I use the mouse the cursor like moves in random places and not going in the direction it's supposed to go. It like moves on its own sometimes. Well it happens only sometimes but now its happening more often and its getting annoying. Whats the problem?

either a faulty mouse, a virus or someone is using your computer from somewhere else, this is bad! get it checked out by a pro if using a new mouse doesn't change anything.

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I read that you should never IM a guy first if you like him. Is that true? Is it bad if you do? Cause I want to talk to the guy I like so I do IM him first if I see he is on. Is it bad if I do that?

Not at all, as far as i'm concerned, whoever gets on last should make the conversation, i might not realise you are on!

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16/f. My boyfriend writes music and he's pretty good at it. However, one of his more recent songs was pretty disturbing-- it was about another girl, a girl "see around school". He's never written a song for me before.

he assures me that it means nothing, that is was the only thing he could think of (that worries me in itself) at the moment, and that he wants to be with me not her.

Should I believe him? Is this any real cause for concern? Because it's really hurting me, I don't want to leave him but I'm starting to think maybe I should.

That Certainly is a problem.he might just have a crush on her, but that's no good if you are in a serious relationship... he might just find it hard to write about what he really knows, thats common in singers and writers. he might not be able to find the words for what he's feeling.
i cant tell you to dump him or stay with him, thats for you to decide, but if you have doubts maybe there isn't enough trust, a relationship without trust will never work!

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OK, you seem to be in touch with these things.. so yeah

I beleive I am truly in love with this girl called Ellan (Ell for short) I met her 3 days 4 days ago and we cant stop thinking about each other.. and we are always talkin on the net or the phone.. although she live in WA and im in SA.. I still love her so much!!

Another thing why people think its fake is that she is 14 and I am 17.. I vowed myself never to fall for someone so young.. but I couldn't help it.. me and her just connect..

I wrote her this poem in the spare of the moment without even thinking about it.. it just kinda came out.. it goes "Everytime I think of you, My heart skips a beat; until the day your by my side, I'll never be complete!"

so do you think it could be true love? or is it just that I am desperate to be loved? do you think I should move on and find someone closer to where I live and closer to my age? or should I try and make it work? thanks for your help!

~evilenterprisesinc

^^thats my column name!

Btw I'm a Metro >..>

I cant tell you if its true love. thats coz i have never experienced true love myself. i think that it sounds great. who cares about age when you have feelings like you do? and that poem is sweet. short and straght to the point. i think its perfect. give it to her in a nice frame. yoousound like a really sweet guy so i'm sure she likes you too. but be careful. dont start saying i love u all the time. this scan scare girl off. this i'm saying from experience! so just be natural and take it slow. good luck!

luv ange

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How come everyone thinks im mean? all i do is tell the truth. I gues they just cant handle the truth. Do you guys appreciate it when people tell you the truth or stupid lies? I would rather know the truth not stupid lies people tell me to feel better gosh.

Whats your opinion
Ya_gots_to_luv_me :)

It is good to tell the truth but you must learn to tell it nicely and when to stop. like, if you think someones ugly and they think they're hot and you wanna tell them so they dont embarrass themselves... dont go up to them and say 'your ugly'. that is horrible. if you MUST say something... just think about it first. think of the persons feelings. remember, if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all.

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hey. alright, im kind of nervous about shaving below my belt. does it itch growing back? how do i prevent razorburn? should i just use shaving cream? what about nair? if anyone could give me some tips or adivce on doing it, that'd be great.

well i reckon you shouldn't shave. it itches like hell when its growing back and also when you first do it!

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hey,
well you know how my sis and bros are always getting me into trouble even with things i don't do,my dad always hits me for no reason and sometimes my sis does something bad and blames it on me and my dad hits me,sometimes for no reason..there's never one day were he doesnt.. he hits me about 4-6 time a day for things i didnt even do..i tell him i didnt do them but he doesnt believe me he believes my sis and bro cuz they are younger,i try talking to my mom but she doesnt listen or believes me anyways she is never home so she never sees how my dad treats me,i want to talk to someone in my school ,a counsulor(w/e its spelled) but i'm shy and scared i dont want my dad to go to jail or anything but i just cant stand it anymore when he hits me like mad for absolutly no reason..and also bosses me around i understand thats his job but...i mean he tells me to pick up my SIS OR BROS OR HIS stuff but its not fair why cant he boss my sis and bros around i mean its there mess sometimes i tell him 'why should i its not my mess why would i need to pick that stuff up'..but he just hits a bunch of time and i csnt defend myself cuz he might keep hitting me harder and that hurts....what should i do? (i sometimes think about cutting but thats not the way out of a problem so i dont i just hold in my anger?

go to a counsellor. dont be scared. its not your fault. he deserves to go to jail. no man should be able to get away with beating an undefensless girl... especially a 'father'. get help and get out of there. it will only get worse. if you think he's gonna all of a sudden think 'oh, i'm doing the wrong thing. i should stop.' it wont happen. get help

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FIRST WHAT IS yest infection???????
im sooo worried about my best friend she told me taht some time her girl part itchys and it might be yeast infection and i dont konw what to do ? also she told me that it dosnt itchys ever time and some the she take shower it the itchness go away and she think that is b/c of the shaving down there problems but i want to make sure thats ok!! it is yeast infect can u get rid of it and howwwwwwwwwww teach me plz and what kind medicins helps or some kind of cream it can helps also is YEAST INFECTION A BIG PROBLEM???? ill rate veryy hight!!!!!!!!!

okay. she needs to see a doctor to get a professional opinion. here are some symptoms...

feels like an intense itching, burning sensation, localized in your vagina and vulva. this itching is not always present, but can get really bad, so bad you can hardly walk.

looks like clumpy nasty white stuff. most medical descriptions compare the discharge to ricotta cheese, but it can range from thick and not clumpy to faintly yellow to thin and clear.

smells like bread or beer. in fact, it smells pretty much exactly like yeast, although the yeast used in brewing and baking is an entirely different species (Saccharomyces cerevisiae). no bacteria could smell like that, so it's a great diagnostic.

i got this off a website. if u need more help. just ask

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What is meterosexual, and is that a bad thing for a female who is trying to date one?

DUDE!!! i want one!!! lol. its basically a guy that is gay... well is like a gay n e wayz. but he is straight. like all the features of a gay but straight. so no. it aint bad!

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i am a freshman in highschool and so is my best friend , there is this guy that is a junior that i have known for a while named chad and i intoduced chad and cat and i started to like chad then i was asked out by another guy i named sam so i went out with sam. then chad and cat went out and i still liked chad but i never said anything about it, now me and sam are broke up and cat and chad are broke up and i like chad but i know cat would be really mad if i went out with chad because sghe said she would be cause i asked but now he aske dme out what do u think should do?

~blundered blonde~

DONT GO OUT WITH HIM!!! best friends will last forever but you and your man wont always be together.

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Last night I just figured out that my mom, dad, and sister (that's my WHOLE family) just parished in a car accident. I can't seem to control my anger. I keep thinking it's my fault and I throw fits. My school counselors try to help but I hate them! The worst part is, I'm only 11 years old, and I'm being sent to a child's homeless center in 1 week.

this is VERY difficult to answer. but i'll try my best... for starters i cannot even imagin what you are going through. props to you that you are even talking. i'm not all churchie or anything so i wont tell you to find god or anything like that but i will tell you that i believe your family are in a better place. and i believe they are looking out for you. you also have to try not to blame everyone else. it isn't the counselors fault that you family passed away. so, try to let them help you. i know all you want to do is cause others pain so they know how you feel but that isn't going to help. you will be living with other children who have been through the same kind of thing as you so you can relate to them. try not to let your anger ruin any friendship that you might make at the homeless centre. i'm sorry i cant help any more... but if you need anything... i mean ANYTHING feel free to e-mail me at angiemills88@hotmail.com. good luck with everything and talk to someone. if not councellors, a good friend will do. try not to blame other people!

luv
angie

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Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL!

SEE A DOCTOR!!! NOW!!! You have to tell your parents. they wont get angry at you... they cant. it was rape. but you definately have to see a doctor and have some tests done. you could have gotten an STD or pregnant. you cant avoid it forever. get help ASAP

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i like this guy but i used to be mean to him what should i do?

female 16

be nice to him. if he shows an interest in you go for it. if not then stay away. guys can get mean if you piss them off!

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