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Sadness
Last night I just figured out that my mom, dad, and sister (that's my WHOLE family) just parished in a car accident. I can't seem to control my anger. I keep thinking it's my fault and I throw fits. My school counselors try to help but I hate them! The worst part is, I'm only 11 years old, and I'm being sent to a child's homeless center in 1 week.
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this is VERY difficult to answer. but i'll try my best... for starters i cannot even imagin what you are going through. props to you that you are even talking. i'm not all churchie or anything so i wont tell you to find god or anything like that but i will tell you that i believe your family are in a better place. and i believe they are looking out for you. you also have to try not to blame everyone else. it isn't the counselors fault that you family passed away. so, try to let them help you. i know all you want to do is cause others pain so they know how you feel but that isn't going to help. you will be living with other children who have been through the same kind of thing as you so you can relate to them. try not to let your anger ruin any friendship that you might make at the homeless centre. i'm sorry i cant help any more... but if you need anything... i mean ANYTHING feel free to e-mail me at angiemills88@hotmail.com. good luck with everything and talk to someone. if not councellors, a good friend will do. try not to blame other people!
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I'm very sorry you're going through this. That would be hard on anyone, especially someone of your age. It's okay to feel angry, but you shouldn't blame yourself. It isn't your fault. How could it have been your fault? You should try to be more willing to let the counselors help you. It may feel weird letting someone you barely know barge into your personal life but I think if you give them a chance they could help you. Also, you might find talking to close friends that you trust or other relatives such as aunts, uncles, cousins will be helpful. I hope you can work things out. You were left here for a reason. Everything happens for a reason, even something so tragic as this... I'm here if you need to talk. ♥
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