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Hey i am 14 and my dad doesnt trust me AT ALL! Is there a way for parents to read what you wrote to other people on aim? If there is, how do I turn it off, or make it so my dad cant read what i am saying? Also, how do i get him to trust me more?? Thanx, eX 0h (link)
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If you have AOL and not just AIM then yes your parents can see what you are writing to your frineds but im not sure how to turn it off. And about getting your dad to trust you again. Just give him reasons to believe that he can trust you. Ask him if you can go out some night with some friends and he gives you a curfew be right on time or even a little earlier. Just do little things that makes him believe that you are responsible.
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Whenever I am done with school, I go to track. After track practice, I go home and get home by around 5:00. I eat dinner, then watch some shows and go on the computer (like now, but it's only to get advice!). I end up starting my homework at 9:00 PM, setting my alarm for 5:00 to finish it, sleep through my alarm, and wake up at 6:00 with no time to do my homework. I always finish it on the bus and get off the hook, but I really want to stop and do my homework right away! How can I do my homework with plenty time to spare? (link)
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What you could do is when you ge home from track maybe start your homework right away instead of going on the computer. Use your time wisely.
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my parents are divorced and i live a hard life....and what really frustrates me is when i see my dad and his gf making out... it makes me sick to the stomach!!!what will make me not feel this way????
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You could try and tell your dad and his girlfriend that it makes you uncomfortable when they do that around you. You could tell them not to do that around you anymore.
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I can do sprints, I'm fast at that, but I dread the mile because it's hard for me. does anyone know how to get in shape for long distance running? (link)
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What you can do is run a little each night and gradually run a little more when each run gets easier. Thats what I did to get in shape.
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14/F. Next time my dad goes to the movie store I get to pick a few movies. I prefer scary movies rated pg-13 or R. Movies I like were Saw and the Ring. I personally thought the Grudge was stupid. Any ideas? (I will take suggestions other then scary movies if they are good) (link)
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I liked Final Destination, Gothika, The Village, and if I know of any toher good ones I will let ya know
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I want to hang out with this guy that I like over vacation but i dont know how to ask him. Were like best friends but he has a girlfriend (but hes thinking of dumping her). I think he might like me, my friend thinks he has a "thing" for me but i cant tell. We dont talk on the phone much or hang out out of school. So how can I ask him to hang out? -Sandy S./13/f (link)
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You could ask him if he wants to go and see a movie or something. Just tell him that you miss the time that you guys haven't spent together and that you would like to spend some time with him. DOn't rush into anything too fast though. Hope everything works out!
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well i love this kid named phill..when ever i havnt seen him for a long time (1 week) then when i see him i love him!! he just got out of a 1 year relaship (sp) with a girl named gina. phill likes me and stuff..but idk i love him..should i like ask him out or wait a little bit! i rate high
-confused (link)
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If you feel that strongly about him then wait say 2 weeks or so and then ask him out. Chances are he might say no if he is upset about the past relationship. Well good luck!
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I have this teacher who always yells at me and calls me mean names/ What should I do? (link)
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If you haven't done anything to make him yell at you and this is really bothering you, you could start by talking with your parents. You could ask them to have a meeting with the teacher. If that doesn't work then talk to the principal. I hope this helps and good luck!!!
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Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..
So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!
thanx so much! (link)
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Don't listen to what everyone else says. When your time comes with Lucas then you will make out with him. Ignore everyone else. DO what your heart tells you.
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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
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You are definitely one of the few guys that actually want a relationship. I know that all guys want it sex is because they just lead girls on and always act like that is all they want. I don't know if this is a very clear answer but write back if it is not.
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I want to stop biting my nails but I don't know how to. I've tried before and it never seems to work out. My mom tells me to sit on my hands but that doesn't work. I've tried chewing gum and yet I still bite them and my nails are too short to paint. I've even got my nails done before and when I take the fake nails off and my real ones are long they just break off. Any suggestions? (link)
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I bite my nails too but what I usually do is get acrylic tips put on. The after I get them off and they are long I use this nail polish that Sally Hansen makes which makes your nails stronger. You can get it any drug store. Good Luck.
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I know this guy since we were 7 years old. I think he is gay. He always talks about gay people. He always points out who is gay. He has no male friends of his own and he goes to gay clubs and claims he is just watching to see who lives a secretly gay life. He also has a lot of woman friends and gossips very much.
He dates women have no flaws. Very pretty women that look like models.He is very picky. He calls every body ugly. when i date a guy he tells me he's not that cute. I've seen cuter. Is it just me or is that something a girl would say? What do you think about this situation.? (link)
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If you really want to know if he is gay then just ask him. Make sure that before you ask him, ask yourself if YOU are ok with him being gay. If you are then tell him that you will still be his friend no matter what and then just ask him. If you are truely his friend then it won't matter what he is. Hope this advice helps and good luck with your friend.
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I`ve had a problem with confidence. I always let what people say, get to my head. Does anyone have any advice on how to raise my confidence? (link)
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Don't worry about what other people think. Tell yourself that no matter what other people think the only opinion that really matters is yours. A lot of people have this happen but trust me, don't let what people say get to you.
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I have really straight dark brown hair..When I blow dry my hair i have little fly aways.. so I straighten it a little... so then my hair is even straighter then what it normally is... But.. I would love to have like wavy curly hair.. is there any products i could use to make this happen without having to get a perm or doing something that will make it that way forever? (link)
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I have that same problem. What I use is a product called Curl Booster. You can find it at any drug store. You can spray it on your hair when it is wet or dry. Once I get out of the shower I spray it in my hair. Then I put it up in a messy bun and spray my hair again. I go to bed with my hair like that. When I wake up in the morning I leave my hair down and spray it again. Then my hair is wavy curly.
Hope it works as well as it did for me!
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i have a mad big problem with eating im skinny but all i do is eat my friends think its so disgustin how much i eat and sometimes i eat so much i just want to throw up and then eat some moe i dont know whats wrong with me and i eat when im happy sad mad bored hungry full i dont care i just eat and eat and never gain one pound which im happy about and i want to stop because i eat so much it makes me sick but i still wanna eat after that im so confused (link)
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Just try to control your cravings. If you eat a lot then try to eat smaller portions and healthier foods. I hope this helps and good luck!
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I just recently invested a lot of time and money in this girl i like. She liked all the gifts that I gave her. I know because of MSN and texting back and forth. I even made tears of joy come to her eyes because of what I did on Valentines-day. Well now I think a "friend" has geven her the advice of playing hard to get. I've already done everything that I had planed and she just said that she wants to be friends. WHAT SHOULD I DO (link)
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You should respect her opinion and just be friends. Maybe you will get to spend more time with her and maybe she will begin to like you. Best of Luck!
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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..
Signed
Scared 15-f (link)
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I think that you should tell your best friend how you feel and what he is doing to you. If she can't take that as a hint then that is her problem not yours. Explain to her that you don't want to lose her as a friend but you don't want to keep getting hurt.
Good luck!
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ok i have a problem, i like this senior at my school ALOT!!! not only do i see him at school, but i swim with him 8 times a week. im only a sophmore, but i like him so much. we talk all the time and he hugs me and he always calls me his fav. he doesnt have a gf and hes only kissed a person once. hes really extremly smart, and i am really sad that he is leaving...i really dont know what to do about the situation...please help! (link)
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The best thing to do in a situation like this is to get it out in teh open. Tell him how you feel. Ifhe doesn't feel the same way, then respect his decison and remain friends. It is better to have his freindship than nothing at all. Good Luck!!
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A couple of weeks ago I got caught smoking pot on school grounds. and Now I really regret it. Its going to fuck up everything and I completely lost the trust
of my parents. Is there anyway I could get their trust pack. Thanks
XxBrookexX (link)
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It might seem like your parents will never trust you again but thats not true. they will trust you again eventually. You have to give them reasons to trust you again. Be responsible and dont do anything that will make them feel that you are irresponsible. Gain back their trust. Eventually you will get it back.
Good luck! Hope this helped
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I fell in love with my best friend but its impossible for anything to happen between us because he's gay. I can't stop thinking about him and i really need help.
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What you can do is tell him how you feel. before you tell him how you feel, make sure you can take it if he just wants to be friends. Remember, if you are really friends with him you will respect his feelings.
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