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I think she is trying to play hard to get.
I just recently invested a lot of time and money in this girl i like. She liked all the gifts that I gave her. I know because of MSN and texting back and forth. I even made tears of joy come to her eyes because of what I did on Valentines-day. Well now I think a "friend" has geven her the advice of playing hard to get. I've already done everything that I had planed and she just said that she wants to be friends. WHAT SHOULD I DO
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She was playing you for your money. Sorry you had to come across such a bitch. Just tell her you're done being her slave and find someone else to like. Besta Luck
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i have treid to get a gurl just like this, i little hot asian chick..... anyway but i didnt get her gifts cuz im broke so i gave her something better.................. i sugjest you do the same, if you know what i mean.
-Dr.Phil
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You should respect her opinion and just be friends. Maybe you will get to spend more time with her and maybe she will begin to like you. Best of Luck!
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if she wants to be friends.. respect her decision and move on.. dont let her get to you.. find someone else and move on.. then shell come crawling back to you.. then YOU CAN PLAY HARD TO GET.. two can play that game baby haha <33
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haha, girls can be stupid sometimes, i know...i am one. lol. ask her if she wants to go to the movies, casually of course. pay for her drinks and ticket (more money but she'd appreciate it none the less) and after you watch the movie, tell her that you really like her and that if she likes you too that maybe you could be more than friends if she wanted to. girls like to be lavished. they want attention and they want everything perfect...it's a pain. but if you're totally honest and play your cards right, she might accept your sensitive side. she just wants to make sure you really like her, most girls say no at first to guys b/c they think they're trying to play a joke. so just make her feel comfortable and be honest. hope it all works out well! always, carly
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dont let her play with you. just say to her that you dont want to be just friends. it's either a couple or nothing. give her time to consider it and then ask for her answer. if she says nothing then at least you know mut if she wants to be a couple... congrats!
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i think she was using you talk to her and tell her you love her and all and tell her if she dont love you you will leave her alone if shes playing hard to get she will tell u right there if not then dont buy her no more presents
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You need to ask her, and if she admits shes playing hard to get, you need to say, "hey, listen, I basically gave up my life for you, not because I had to, because I wanted to, and I don't feel its fair the way you're repaying me, or showing that you love me back." and then, if she really means that she wants to be friends, just say "are you sure, because I am under the impression that someone has filled your head with ideas about playing hard to get with me." And just be calm about it, don't yell, it will help her tell the truth better.
-TheTeenGirl
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hey how are you? you should take the time to sit her down and talk to her. there is nothing like communication between two people. not over the phone, or on the computer. but face to face. you have to let her know how you feel. dont be too forceful and make it seem like you are makin her do something that she may not want to do. she may be pressured by another guy or she may not know what to do and be confused. she may have friends like i have had, that try and push her away from a relationship cuz of jealousy or fear of losing her. just take her somewhere very nice (her fav. place) and then talk to her and see what she is really feelin. not her friends but what is goin on in her own mind. let her know your true feelings as well. you take care and let me know how things go. God Bless.
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