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Age: 19
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I still really really like my ex grilfriend from the beginning of summer and i havent stopped liking her since. Well i was thinking next time i go over her house and im with her and maybe 2 other people, is if i bring one of those ipod radio setups where you hook up the ipod and play it in the radio. Because me and her have a song from when we used to go out which she is still in love with so i was thinking why dont you turn on channel so and so, and then ill have the song playing on my ipod while it gets sent to the radio and i wont let her know i set it all up?? hows that?
But i also have to find a way to get bak over her house again. Thats a whole different story... (link)
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It is sweet in a way but then again there's a too much. Plus there might be a backfire, what if you're out there for hours and she doens't notice you, or calls the cops cause she didn't recignise you? just think it through and maybe think of another tacktick to tell her how you feel.
Just hang out like a regular friend and then when you get closer then you tell her. Hope this helps
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Can someone give me a list of sins? Recently, I've been depressed and literally thought of anything bad that happened to me or anything bad I did, purposely or accidentally and I got the word sins stuck in my head. I also started wondering what are the numbers are about when I see people go to confession boxes on tv and the priest gives them a number after their confession. (link)
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there's the 10 commandments and then there's some in the bible you have to read and find out. Honestly it's like homwwork but if you would consoult a church counciler at your church or somehting he/she might help you out. Hope this helps and don't feel bad, we're only human after all ^^
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I started cutting when I was about 12. Then I stoped when I was 13 and half. Im 14 1/2 now and havent cut in over a year but I always feel like I need to or want too. I know theyres other ways to releave stress and stuff but I feel like this is the way I want to.. I dnt know what to do.. Im not getting help because Its been a year and I dont need to but I dk. What can I do (link)
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Glad to know you're getting help and that you havent cut in over a couple years. This is another test to see if you'll fall into old habits, i have a friend who does this and stops too, but it's not really healthy. if stressed out try taking three breaths and another for reasureance, then clear your mind and just let your body relax. This will help you with your stress and maybe more.
keep on living and doing what your doing, you're a good person and you deserve better. ^^ take care
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Is there such a thing as originality in style or having a unique sence of style? I say it's a rare quality to have and when I see coutless people on their profiles(myspace, xanga, livejournal, ect.) saying they have a great sence of style it stuns me. Latley every girl is wearing the same retro leggings, mini skirt, long tee's, and flats- what is this? Style? Doesn't have a great personal style mean that you have your own way to wear clothes, a way that wasn't already visited in the 80's and now reborn. It's pathetic- the 2000's. In the 60's it was hippi, in the 70's it was polyester, and in the 80's it was skin tight and extra long.
I guess my question is... will someone show me a picture of someone with style? Someone who doesn't fallow the trends but can mix current clothing into their own? A picture of someone who doesn't think that hollister or abercrombie is 'style'? (link)
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whoa man, finally someone who actually understands what IM going through. You have a ary valid point about this whoole 80's retro bull shit. It seems that anyone who csan wear skin tight jeans and mini skirts that make you looke lik e whore is aparantly "style" unfortunitly i don't have a picture of my style, but i can tell you that style is up to the person and personality.
The new trend of todays teens are dressing up like a skank, preppys, a doushbag, or emo. These brands, hollister and abercromie anr't individual style, just group style. Individual style is something that, that ONE person can wear with confidence. For example, i wear goggles, i've worn em' when they were "weren't cool" Yes i know some people say it's from some anime but no im sorry it's not.
That's my individual style along with my personality, those two alone are my style that no one can copie or possible comprehend. I think it's the very outworldly and unuiqe things that make it a style but then again it could be anything. Well hop this helps and take care
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When I'm masturbating I rub up and down and stuff on my clit but for some reason it hurts a little..
At the same time it feels really good and the good feeling only lasts for like 20 sec.
but I feel like I wanna stop.
I'm not sure if that's an orgasm..
I don't know what an orgasm is.
But is that normal? (link)
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Well yea, it's an orgasm, i mean it also depends how hard your rubbing it. If you rubbing it too hard you might end up hurding yourself. Take it slow and easy that should help you out. Anyway take care
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Im trying to be somewhat creative for my bf for this christmas (we've been together for well over a yr & a half by this point) so what i do give him i know he'll appreciate!
I've sewed him fleece PJ's, bought him cute boxers, and now i want to make him a CD with love songs that remind me of him
1) got any tips on songs?
2) Any other creative idea's (details wanted if possible)
You live by my cousin by the way!! (link)
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that's sounds really sweet, but guys arn't really into mix love cds as women would be. Ever though of making matching necklases or bracelettes? that should have more meaning when its something persanal you made for him to wear, even if it is PJs and or a necklase or bracelette. Hope that helps
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My friend is such a copy cat. she won't stop copying me! lik eyesterday i changed my myspace to a christmas theme and she did do and got like the same layout as me but mine had strips and hers didn't. then, me and this guy(mike) have been talking for awhile and she is purposly trying to lead him on and now shes ahead of me on his top eight and she thinks its all cool to lead him on. he is kind of a pervert so if he says something gross to me i say ew or that won't happen but she will go along with the pervish stuff. what should i do about her copying and her stealing everything i have? (she has stolen more then just a guy or attempted to) should i talk to the guy about her and shoul di talk to her? or just stay out of it? (link)
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i would just say go with the flow of the current till the seas calm. Going agenst the current would just make things a lil harder for you. If it is really bothering you, then consult to your boyfriend about it and work it out. If nothing and worse comes to worse like she takes him from you. Then you would have to forget about it, this sounds like a lose lose battle my friend.
If your boyfriend really does love you then he wouldn't do anything sneaky you know wwhat i mean? anyway hope this helps and good luck
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I'm a freshman at a community college...and I'm getting SO SICK OF THIS SEMESTER!!! There's only 3 weeks left of this one but OMG I AM SO BORED WITH LIFE!!! Does anyone have any advice as to how I can get through the rest of the semester without spontaneously combusting of discontentedness???
preferably someone who has experienced this before...!! (link)
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well it's a community college so no wonder am i right? but hey, if you want some excitment i suggest you put up a couple art classes. You meet the coolest people and your able to do things you thought you couldn't. Also the people there make things livlier and might get you into some cool hobbies
Anyway hope this helps, if not.. then... get a job that helps out too, im pretty sure they hire at Comm college. Take care dude
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i babysit for a baby whos parents are probly the smartest ppl in the world, and if you've ever babysat for anyone like this before, its very hard to say no. i haven't gotten to hang out with my boyfriend for a few weeks now. you know just "us" time which makes me very sad. but i'm struggling to pay for everything these days, and i'm in need of the money...i guess the question here is the love or the money?
resently they've asked me to come babysit while they go christmas shopping. for 7 hours. noon to seven. now i was planning on having that night for my bf and i but now its shortened because i said yes...
i feel horrible and don't know what to do. (link)
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you really shouldn't feel bad, i mean you're working. And money's hard to come by these days. You should tell your boyfriend that you have work and if he loves you he sould understand and accept it. If he breaks up so what? there are other guys out there anyway. If it's important to you to keep this then you should keep babysitting.
Think of it, if you said no then they would have to find someone else to do it and that means no money for you, and what if something happens to the baby? I'm not trying to guilt trip you but im trying to say is that work comes first in life, we can't have both. Hell i work 2 jobs and it's either money or friends.
I told my friends about it and they understand so that means they are my true friends and i will keep going on my jobs. anyway i hope this helps and take care.
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Ah, yesterday this woman cut my hair too short, it is basically right above my shoulder. I usually have medium length hair, and this shortness just does NOT work for me. I look disgusting. Is there something that'll help my hair grow at all? No extensions, thank you. (link)
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well it depends if your male or female. See hair doesn't grow that fast, but why think your disgusting? personaly i like short hair. It makes the person lok sharp and in the game. when chicks have short hair i think it's sexy. makes it look like they know what's goin on. Know what i'm saying? anyway hope this helps and take care
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Ok I need some advice on what to do.
There is this one person who her and i used to be Best Friends.
We did almost everything together.
We were together as much as we could
Well then durring the Carnival by my house she started to hang with someone else
I didnt really like that other person that much
I think she can be really freaking annoying
The girl who was my friend we still talked
But then she started to hang out with the other girl more
I would hang out with them but i would be the third wheel
I would try to join them but it was just so akward
Well that girl who was my friend her and i hardly ever talked
We would hang out occasionly but the other girl would be there
so i would just be so left out
I tryed telling my friend that
she said she would try and stop
well she didnt it just got worse
now we hardly ever talk
So i wrote her a letter a few weeks ago because i finally had enough of it and told her how i felt
Well she said that it made her feel bad and that she wanted to hang out some more because she was getting the same treatment from that one girl
that girl was hanging out with someone else and was leaving her out
well she hasnt talked to me since she said that
i sent her a text saying "What happened to us? we used to be so close. I lost another best friend. They either ditch me or move away."
and she never replied
I dont know what to do
This girl is just so close to my heart and i dont want to lose her
Please help me and tell me what i should do,
If i should just forget about her and see if she comes back then
or If i should try and talk to her again?
Please I really need the advice.
Ok
Thanks
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this is for my freind so if its confusing its because shes a little M.R. (link)
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*sigh* to lose a best friend is hard, i should know. Happened to me about 2 times... Anyway i would say it's a total lost cause man. The reason why that's so is because women have a tendency to hang out with their own kind. It doesn't matter if you act the same is that one girl who took your best friend. She's a girl, and they can relate to each other BECUASE she's a girl.
That's really the answer, plus sending letters? that's 4th grade stuff, that's also a sense of fear and for some odd reason women can smell it, like wet tech-support.. with onions. Anyway dude, just let her go, occasionaly talk to her and say hi. Although for the most part she want to hang out with other girls like all girls do. Just play it cool and eventually she'll come around for something.
If she asks for any favors, JUST SAY NO!!! that means she could use you and if you buy in to that she'll do it again and again. Also being a jerk helps out too, but not too much. Chicks like being treated like crap for some reason ^^ well hope this helps
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what if i expect periods before 15 days but now i'm having soo much cervical mucus? (link)
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could be a pregnancy, i'd suggest you get tested on it, but a test and check. or call your doctor for info.
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what would you reccomend?
- the Massively Mini Media Player
or
- the Ipod Video??? (link)
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I suggest the video play, i mean it if your going to get an i pod you might as well get the nicest one there am i right? besides those mini ones are freakin small, you could lose those or crush them in your backpack accedentally.
Friend did that once, totally shit out his chest. Anyway hope this helps ^^
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Alright well I'm 14.
I'm 5'2'' and I weigh 137.
I think I weigh to much for my height.
I used to weigh 128 but I gained it all back.
I really wanna get down to 117.
I think I'm a little fat.
I'm not sure what to do at all..
What do you think?
Do you think I'm at a healthy weight now? (link)
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aah i feel ya, well here's the thief's way of getting thin. Here's a couple of tips and tricks to do it. 1, no fatty foods; yes they are gluttony delicious but you wanna get thin right? 2nd, nno sodas, drink plenty of water. 3rd,take a lil walk or a fun jogg here and there, or if your at school take the long path so you can get some exercise. The ones with many steps should help you out.
Oh, also a salad or two should help out and stuff that's low carbs. That should do it really, unless you become an artist and spend all your money on pencils and notbooks. Hahaha, you'll be skinny for sure from a starving artist point of view ^^
Well hope this helps and take care
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15/f
If you know a guy has a crush on you but you two have never talked, how do you go about talking to him? We do not have any classes together but I see him in the halls between blocks. I am barely friends with a few of his and he doesn't know any of mine because he is new.
Is there anything I can say to him to make conversation in the hall? I think it's kind of strange to say hi to someone you don't know then walk away.
Thanks! (link)
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aah i get ya, one way is to pretend that you forgot where you're going and ask him what building's where. Also if you could just bump into him and play dumb. "have we met before?" or " hey you're that new kid right?" and then BAM there's your intro into anything.
A huge window, you feeling me ^^ anyway hope it works out. take care now
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There is this boy at school, lets call him Joe(his name really isn't Joe), that i really really like! But i dont even think Joe knows my name! How do I get him to notice me? Also to make the problem worse he likes my best friend Karlee. And i know he does cause he told her. I am really shy and dont want to go up there and tell him i like him because i am afraid he will think i am a dork! To top it off all of my friends think i am childish because i have only had 1 boyfriend! Ohh and if this helps i am 13/f. Please HELP!!!!!!!! (link)
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Aaah i see, bopy issues eh? well.. and this is my opinion. The way i feel is that i really don't think you need a boyfriend. Ca'mon you're 13 that's a lil wa--y too young to concern yourself about guys hun. Besides if this guy likes your best friend so what? and on top of all that, that's a major RED FLAG on your part
Cause lets say you and him would hook up, then your bestfriend will become your EX-bestfriend, talk behind yourback and then make very nasty rumors about you. I've heard the type of stories before. Sorry, but i truely thnk this would be a bad move. Alou------gh you could play the waiting game ^^
with teens and relationships these days it's more like a 5-month commitment. wait till they break up and then wait a while, then talk to him lil by lil. that should get his attention. hope this helps and take care
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Okay...we've got some creative people here, so I hope you can help. Today on Thanksgiving we are buying a new horse. He's 15 HH, A Paint, White with some sorrel spots (Tobiano)and 3 years old. I am racking my brain coming up with names. His name is already Chester..and that name just irks me for some reason. I don't want to call him Toby because the stable owner already has a Toby who is a bay paint. A fellow horseperson is making fun of me because I am buying a paint, he doesn't like the spots! So I replied OH MY GOD! I "SEE SPOTS"! I thought about running with that for a name, but I know it would be misprounced Hi-C, I even considered spelling it Icee Spots and calling him Ice or Icee. I'd Like it to have at least three words in the name but then call him only one of those words for short. I have looked at the sites on line but nothing really trips my trigger. Everyone has the old stand by names "Scout, Cisco, Jack, Captain" and so on. Help! Something to do with thanksgiving would be nice..but not "Turkey"...could only imagine that at the shows! (link)
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hahaha, i love horses ^^ well all names are creative. If you wanna go for something mythical and amazing i would suggest "Ixion" Or you can name him after a state. Hope it helps, when i name an animal i normally find out by just asking him/her what it is. If you spend time with your horse and channel into his mind with a special bond, you can almost talk to him in a special way. Hope this helps again, take care
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one of my friends had unprotected sex, and she thinks shes pregnant. She got her period for like four hours but it hasnt come again. shes really worried that shes pregnant. i just need to know whats going on with her? (link)
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Eeek, if she had her period and didn't use a condom, that's bad news. Very bad news, normaly you'd get your period everymonth. If she doesn't have one every so months then somethings wrong. have her get tested and then pray, nothing much else that i can do to help out. Good luck and take care
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I'm planning on getting a tatoo soon. It's going to be on my lower back and I was wondering, does it hurt alot? It's not going to be big either. If anyone has gotten one in that specific place, I would greatly appreciate an honest, detailed answer. Thanks! (link)
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If it's your first tatto then yes. Except if you tend to put it on the lower back, it's also known as a "tramp stamp" symbolizing you as a ( and this is what THEY say) "skank, whore, slut, bimbo, easy girl, bitch. etc" of course that's if your a girl getting one. Ovbiously i didn't make the rules but heard them from other guys and most of them agreed. ( i don't know why)
If you where to get a tattoo, i'd suggest on the back of the shoulder plate, left or right. It's also noticeable and when people look at it they won't be looking atthe crack of your ass and then you'd flip out thinking they're looking at your butt.
Hell im thinking of getting a branding of my tribal clan symbol. anyway i hope this helps and good luck
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okay there are these two kids
who talk sooo much crap about me behind
my back and i don't do anything to them.
its making me really mad because these kids
used to be some of my closest friends, and they hang out with all the other people i hang out with. so everytime i'm with my other friends i have to deal with them being so rude to me.
i really don't know what to say to them or what to do, because i don't want to quit hanging out with my other friends because they don't like me for some reason. (dunno why)
so yeah, just need some advice about what to do about that.
thanks. (link)
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*sigh* i've been there my friend, it's fucked up aint it? well this is easy. Sorry to say but if they're goona be dicks like that to you then they're not exactly your friends. See the thing is, is that when other animals go into a new herd, the alpha male of the group might manipulate the new lesser pack animals.
See you're an individual and this new pack of animals don't like tings that are change and diffrent. hence why the pack is what?... the same, am i right? Anyway, find your new herd and become your own Alpha male, and when they give you crap just brush it off. Don't even let it phase you.
See i was in the same boat as you, till i found my new herd and made it cool over there, and everyone accepted me and made a name for myself ^^ Hell i even wore and still do wear goggles. Except if they try and pgysicly hurt you, then kick their ass with some martial arts.
In conclusion my dear friend, your old friends are gone. change happens, happened to me about 2 or 3 times. Good luck man, if i were your friend i wouldn't treat you this way. Also acting like an ass to them works too, but make it funny and cleaver. Hope this helps take care man
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