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what to say?
okay there are these two kids
who talk sooo much crap about me behind
my back and i don't do anything to them.
its making me really mad because these kids
used to be some of my closest friends, and they hang out with all the other people i hang out with. so everytime i'm with my other friends i have to deal with them being so rude to me.
i really don't know what to say to them or what to do, because i don't want to quit hanging out with my other friends because they don't like me for some reason. (dunno why)
so yeah, just need some advice about what to do about that.
thanks.
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*sigh* i've been there my friend, it's fucked up aint it? well this is easy. Sorry to say but if they're goona be dicks like that to you then they're not exactly your friends. See the thing is, is that when other animals go into a new herd, the alpha male of the group might manipulate the new lesser pack animals.
See you're an individual and this new pack of animals don't like tings that are change and diffrent. hence why the pack is what?... the same, am i right? Anyway, find your new herd and become your own Alpha male, and when they give you crap just brush it off. Don't even let it phase you.
See i was in the same boat as you, till i found my new herd and made it cool over there, and everyone accepted me and made a name for myself ^^ Hell i even wore and still do wear goggles. Except if they try and pgysicly hurt you, then kick their ass with some martial arts.
In conclusion my dear friend, your old friends are gone. change happens, happened to me about 2 or 3 times. Good luck man, if i were your friend i wouldn't treat you this way. Also acting like an ass to them works too, but make it funny and cleaver. Hope this helps take care man
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y did u guys stop being friends get back to me
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If your other friends don't like you for some reason, it is pretty obvious that they don't really treat you like a friend should be treated, you know what I mean.
Now, the two kids who talk about you behind your back, just ignore them. I was at a party couple days ago, and my neighbors who are teens started mocking at us, we just basically ignore them and told them to shut up. I use to be friends with those neighbors, but they talk so much stuff about me, I just really don't care what they Say.
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never ever hurt me.
Now, if I was in your position, I would seriously start looking for better friends. If the friends you hang with, don't like you, then they aren't really considered friends, now are they? And, with the 2 munchkins that are being totally rude, just ignore them. They feed off of how much attention you give them. Believe me, if they still continue, someone will tell them to shut up. Or either, they will get bored, and just leave you alone. Now, if you see them around where you are at, don't run away, that will make them follow you and bother you, just stand your ground, and ignore them.
That's what I do, and it most of the time works.
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