I'm a 19 year old girl who lives in Arizona...nothing really more to say about that. I am engaged and will be married in October of 2006. Uh...I'm pretty much a nerd at heart. I like to play video games, tabletop RPG's, and cosplay. People always say I don't look like I'd be a nerd, so I guess that's a good thing? I think I give decent advice, however I do like to joke around so sometimes I will post witty/sarcastic advice, especially if the question is stupid.
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Gender: Female
Location: Arizona
Occupation: College Student
Age: 19
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My cousin/best friend is basically giving up on life. I had her join an after school activity with me but then she quit. Then she said shes just gonna stop working well in school and not worry about anything anymore. This is basically because of her peers and family. People think shes a pothead, and i siad "well maybe because you put on your myspace you smoke pot when you really dont" and her sister tells her shes a screw up and doesnt deserve to be on this planet. What can I do to help my cousin out and turn her back to normal and if not better? (link)
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If she is a pothead then she needs help.
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First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.
But.
I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.
I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?
Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like
"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"
or outright flames will get a 1. (link)
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I am Catholic and I think women should only have sex with one person their whole life. If you have sex before marriage, it's not good...but if you end up staying with that person and eventually marry them then it isn't as bad as just sleeping around.
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Okay i asked something like this last night but i need to add to it and i think it'll help you guys to answer it. So i was at an orchestral rehearsal and there's the girl. ( i'm 15/f bi and i'm not sure how old she its). But she's gorgeous but i can't get up the nerve to go say hi. All i can do is stare. I still couldn't focus tonight, it even got worse. Knowing my luck, she isn't bi and probably doesnt even know i exist. What should i do?!?! I feel like i should just get over her. Should i?!?! I'll rate!!!!! (link)
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Stay away. Bisexuals will always turn into either gays or straights, because bisexual doesn't exist.
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13/f
Is 31A cup normal for my age?
just curious (link)
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Im 40 and I'm a 31A.
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Why do Americans who have some Irish ancestry in them feel the need to be all proud about it? Some of these people are 2nd or 3rd greneration Americans and have never even left the country. (link)
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Irish people have nothing to be proud of.
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WHat is "friends with benifits?" (link)
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Friends with benifits are usually a slut and a guy.
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i have 2 groups of friends. group a always thinks im leaving them for group b... and vice versa. what do i do? (link)
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I don't know about that question but I promise you... NEVER combine your groups, EVER.
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i am 13, and my boyfriend is 14. we are both goth-like, and we love each other. we do have sex, but all my friends say i should go to the counselor and tell her about it. but i have nothing to tell. can anyone think of why i should or should not go the counselor? (link)
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You should go see the counselor because you are a 13 year old child having sex. I doubt you're safe, or even educated properly on the dangers and risks out there. Sex is a very mature choice, that an immature person should not make.
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ok im 16teen and a virgin in every way and i want to know if thats a turn off. also is it an turn off if i masterbate (link)
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I think guys like it when girls masturbate. I know that my fiance enjoys to see me do it. But I must say, being a virgin will be a turn on to any guy who MATTERS. The only guys who will be turned off by a virgin, are only interested in loose whores.
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i recently started to get into magic. like coin and card tricks. and i want to buy a book online that can teach me some really nice tricks to do with real coins and a normal deck of cards. i need a website that sells this kinda stuff.
all 5's. (link)
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Why don't you try this site?
http://www.magictricks.com/
Hope it helps.
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can u stop your feet from smelling? hahah lmao just wonder i know i'm werid (link)
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You can buy special powder for them at athletic stores.
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I know these aren;t the best questions to ask, but im not gunna ask anyone else!! There's a guy and his name is Gil. I always thought he liked me, but was never sure! Here are some signs he shows:
-He laughs at me
-Today he poked me purposely and I said "What?" and he said sorry
-He popped my bra strap once
-He smiles at me
Thats it...Does he like me? It's starting to annoy me!!! (link)
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It sounds like sexual harassment to me.
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Today i rean 9 laps (2 miles and a lap/ 1600 meters)in 30 well a lil under but basically 30 min. Do i have a good endurace or what? (link)
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Yes but you sure don't know anything about the virtue of modesty.
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My friend is having a birthday but its on New Year's Eve. What kind of party should she do! And she wants to invite like at least 15 so we cant go up to the mountains or something. Thanks for the help! Luv ya! (link)
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My fiance's birthday is on New Years Eve, and we usually throw him a combined New Years and Birthday party with common birthday AND New Years things. I don't know how old you are, but we usually do some drinking, and of course count down to midnight.
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I write out suicide notes and read them over and over...i write long paragraphs explaining to my family why I killed my self..while I write it I am laughing and thinking how fun this is, I get a thrill out of it. Sometimes I think I am depressed, but I don't feel depressed. I love thinking about suicide, wondering who would be at my funeral, if anyone would cry or care. I feel like I am going crazy, it's always on my mind, am I just crazy? Because I don't have any of the symptoms of depression.. (link)
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Maybe you're just obsessed with death, and curious if others care about you enough to be sad when you die. You may not want to die, but you seem to just be very curious about how the world would react to your death.
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do you think wearing a mini skirt with a thong is slutty...do you think makeing out with a guy thats not your boy friend is slutty but the thing is me n him made out a few times (link)
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Yes, and yes. Those are both slutty things.
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I plan on becoming sexually active soon. I am currently on birth control and we plan to use that AND a condom as protection. I was wondering if anyone knew the percentage of the effectiveness if both protection methods are used together? I know the chance of getting pregnant is really slim, but if anyone knows the actual percentages for the typical use of them (not totally perfect use), then I'd appreciate it. Thanks a bunch. (link)
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If taken correctly the pill and a condom would be 99% effective for protecting you from pregnancy. That still doesn't make you immune to diseases so please be careful.
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hey i have light brown hair dark brown eyes and a round/oval face with thin eyebrows does anyone no any good make up ideas for my eyes and how to do them
thanks (link)
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The round face is made to appear oval by using dark makeup at the temples and around the lower face.
That's a quote from the makeup section of Cosmo. I too have a round face and I find that using liquid eyeliner and grey or brown eyeshadow works. The best thing to do is to put the eye shadow on all the way up to your eyebrows, then use a brush (A poofy one like for blush) to brush away from the top of your eyelid, to the eyebrow so that the direct colour is on your eyelid but up to your eyebrow you have a transparent brown/grey colour.
Here is a picture of me when I do my makeup like that.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v441/emptycorruption/forumn3.jpg
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how do u make your file size smaller??? (link)
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You have to make the picture smaller or lower the quality.
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Recently one of my good friends and I have been sleeping together, but now hes trying to get back together with his girlfriend of two years. She and I are good friends also, and decided to get together to talk and just hang out. I informed him that if she asked about us, I wouldnt lie about it. He convinced me otherwise, saying that if I told the truth, they would never be together again.
So my question is, do I lie to her or not? I love them both, and want both of them to be happy, but I dont know what to do.
extra info: 19/f (link)
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You shouldn't be sleeping around. Simple as that. But then to hurt someone else by lying to them about your infidelities? That's wrong.
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