I have this one friend, but she gets really annoying sometimes. She'll talk on and on, and i never get a chance to say anything, and im not the quiet type. She always dominates the conversation, and is always being bossy. Most of my friends think she's annoying too, but i dont want her to have no friends, but also dont want to be her friend out of pitty. what can i do?
Tell her how you feel & if she gets mad about it, then it's her problem. When she sees that nobody likes her for these reasons, maybe she'll come around. If that doesn't work, just tell her to shut the fuck up & be done with it. If you dont like her, then forget about it. Keep on stepping. If I were you I wouldnt lose any sleep over it because it's her problem, not yours.
~Steph~
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Hello, I'm 16 years old and I'm female. Let me start off by saying I hate the phrase "Let's just be friends." My best friend is one of those types of people who's actions very easily deceive you. I love him so much, and it hurts so bad. We hold hands, hug all the time, even say "I love you". But he says that to everyone. It's so hard because I'm confusing platonic love with "real" love. I take his gestures seriously though, and I really do love him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. He likes someone else, but he is currently single. Should I even bother trying? Am I too young to even be thinking about love? What should I say to him? Thank you so much!
DEFINATLY tell him how u feel! Seriously! It might be weird at first, but I would totally tell him!
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I'm 14 and a female. ok theres this guy that i really like and he wrote me a note and asked me if we could date, and i said i had to get to know him better. so we "talked" for three weeks and then i hear he didnt like me anymore and it was true. So i wrote him a note saying that we should just be friends, but thats not really how i felt, what do i do?
Yeah.. I kno this story ALL to well. Tell him how you really feel & if he doesn't feel the same then move on & get a new guy! Kisses, Stephanie
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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum?
Yes.
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I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle-
Ugh.. seriously.. GET TAMPONS! They are soo much better & no, they don't hurt. If you're really scared though, get "Teen" sized ones. They're made for our little bodies :)! And the best part, you can't even tell that you're wearing tampons! You can't even feel them! (If you can, then either it's to big or you have it in wrong!)
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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-arielle-
Sweetie, ur only 13. I PROMISE you'll get them soon enough & they can be a pain in the tail! Yeah, guys will stare more but you'll get used to it. But like your mom said, if she grew slow, then you're going to grow slow. It's just heredity & yes, it sucks.
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.
Umm.. well.. period or no period, there is still a chance & the odds are like 2 out of 3.
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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!
Sweetie, CHILL!! Look, you can't assume that she SAW it.. maybe it just came unzipped in the wash. You never known though. If she asks you about it just say that you were out with some friends and you bought it as a dare but you just put it there for the mean time. Well, that worked for me anyways. You can always just play stupid and act like someone put it there as a sick joke & you had no idea about it. EX: "OH MY GOODNESS! I fell asleep in 2nd period today & (name) must have put it there!!" EX: "What is THAT?" Well.. you never know til you try! Best wishes! Steph
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im secretly in love with this guy in my homeroom and science class. his locker is 2 away from mine and he sits pretty close to me in science. (alphabetical order.) anyway, ive never told anyone. not even my best friend. sometimes out of the corner of my eye i see him staring at him. when i look somewhat in his direction his eyes dart away. should i look at him when i think he's staring at me? you know, to see if he really is...thanx!
Hi! I had this exact same problem! He might just be staring & you and not realize it until you look at him. Like maybe he's day-dreaming or something. You never know though. I'd check this out & just kinda drop hints that you like him. Who knows.. maybe he feels for you the same way you feel for him.. Best wishes!!
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i have a b.f n he is in to the whole makin out thing n he has b4 n i would b into it to but i am not suree how to b.c i never have b4... n i wanna to with him but i dont wanna be bad...how do you?
i just turned 14 n i am a female
Ok sweetie, Here's my advice! If ur into this whole making out deal just as he is, GO 4 IT!! Oh Gosh! It is SOOO fun!! You dont wanna be bad? Ok.. well.. you dont have to be! Since you have never done this b4 it could be fun! Get really cuddly with him & if he doesn't try to kiss you (he's a total idiot), then maybe you should say some like, "Hmm.. I really wanna kiss you. i'm not so sure how though. Do you think you could show me?" HeHeHe.. then see his reactions & you don't look stupid, you look sexy!! Best wishes!!
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ok. the other day my one friend went and sent me a link that said xanga and a couple other links that said buddy4uprofile and all so i thought they were all her info stuff. so i clicked on them alll and it came up that they were a bunch of porno sites and 3 of em i think were lesbian sites. I clicked outta them as soon as i realized wut they were and yelled at her for it. Well, today my mom woke up and yelled at me for them becuz she gets emails telling her what i go on. Well, now she thinks i am a lesbian even tho she says she believe me i kno neither of my parents do becuz my dad always. and i mean always says he loves me when he leaves to take her to work and he didnt until i said i love you too. I know they think im a lesbian and that they hate me even tho im not. i hate this and i dont want them thinking this. I told them a hundred times what happened and theyre like, "wut did the advicenato people tell u to say that." what do i do to make them believe me?
Ok.. 1st of all, ur parents suck. Get a boyfriend or a rebound dude & prove to them that you are most definately NOT gay. Start dressing gurlie & doing gurlie things to prove that you are not gay & if you can actually manage this get a PlayGURL magazine with all DUDES in it to prove that you are not gay. I believe that you aren't gay & I mean.. maybe you already do all those things & if you have, then I dunno what to tell you but I wish you the best of luck! *Steph*
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ok so recently, in the past few months, ive turned into a bit of a bitch. i honestly dont know why. i get annoyed a lot easier. most of the time, i get jealous really easy. like for example, my friend found out that i had a advice column, so he decided he wanted one. well i got really mad because its my "thing" and i wanted it to myself. im selfish and im whiney. i dont know why im starting to be like this. i also started doing drugs, becoming more "sexual", looking at porn, being belemic, and a lot of stuff that i know will ruin my life. i cant stop. im losing all my friends, and ive already lost a lot of them. i just dont know what to do.
Oh sweetheart! I feel ur pain.. this is normal for people our age (you seem like a teenager). Every one just goes through this stage differently. I've been going through the same things just differently. This can be a postive thing or a negative thing. Not to be mean, but you've kinda chose negative. Just try to be more postive about things and drink loads of caffine because that it great stuff to put you in a postive mood!
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Ok here is the thing.. this guy at my school likes me right.. but i dont like him. he kept askin me out and i kept sayin no so the other day he wrote me this note and it said i really like u so do u wanna go out with me if u say no i will leave u alone .. and i felt really bad for him cuz he sounded sooo sad so i said yes.. but he keeps callin me and i keep giving him excuses that i cant talk on th phone. . but yesterday he called me and his friend started talkin to me and sakin me questions about him like if i love him or not and i said i dont know then they both got mad at me.. i really want to break up with him but dont know how to put it.. can some one PLEASE help me!
Oh hunny.. you gotta kick his tail to the curb. Look.. just forget the hard feelings & say look, You are driving me CRAZY & I thought I liked you but you turned out different than I thought you were. You can't be really hard on him cuz then he'll be hurt & mad & you look like Wicked Heartbreaker of the West. I mean.. be straight-forward but don't hurt his feeling by saying it was a pity date cuz that will only make matters worse. Go with ur gut & you'll figure something out!
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ok so there is this one guy who i went out with last year but only for like 3 days cus what happened is he only asked me out cus he thought i was pretty and we had just met so we decided to jsut be friends, so this year we just seemed like friends, then suddenly he started like getting all over me and everything for like 2 weeks, now he is like ignoring me, what is he doing?
Umm.. he likes you. Or either he just wants to have sex with you. I'd really watch this dude. I mean.. he maybe just a major flirt that wants to take what you got.
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should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw?
Umm.. well.. 15lbs overweight is NOT that bad! Seriously! I mean gawl.. yeah guys can be shallow but its prolly something else besides ur weight or maybe its just the guy! Depends.. I mean I dont really kno you but you sound totally awesome! I'm sure any guy would prolly date you but listen.. it never hurts 2 lose a few pounds! Plus you'll feel better & you'll look better 2!
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha
OH sweetie! Well.. if you really love the guy I'd say screw ur dad & let him think what he wants cuz this guy sounds great & it seems like ur dad just doesnt understand.. but do dads ever? I would marry him not only cuz you love him but cuz hello.. he is ur baby's father & all. I can see where ur coming from, but if ur dad really loves you, he'll come around. He can't just ignore you. He IS your father after all.
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ok i have 4 dogs:
-Irish Setter
-Golden Retreiver
-Beagel
-Yorkie
And I have 3 cats:
-Siamese
-Sphynx
-Pursian
I need ALL different kinds of toys for these pets! just 1 toy wont be enough they all fight over it! Do any of yall know ne good cat & dog toys??? in need of help b4 pets go boring and sad!
Blue_Fusion
Gawl! That's loads of pets! My answer? Get each of them the same toy of a different color!
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Umm.. well.. there is this guy that I REALLY like & i kno that he likes me but what should I do? I mean gawl.. He NEVER talks 2 me
Well sweetie.. Here's my answer.. you really needa get up the nerve & go talk to him urself. Maybe he's waiting on you. Oh.. and out of curiousity.. If he never talks to you.. how do you kno that he likes you?
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