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They Think Im A Lesbian
ok. the other day my one friend went and sent me a link that said xanga and a couple other links that said buddy4uprofile and all so i thought they were all her info stuff. so i clicked on them alll and it came up that they were a bunch of porno sites and 3 of em i think were lesbian sites. I clicked outta them as soon as i realized wut they were and yelled at her for it. Well, today my mom woke up and yelled at me for them becuz she gets emails telling her what i go on. Well, now she thinks i am a lesbian even tho she says she believe me i kno neither of my parents do becuz my dad always. and i mean always says he loves me when he leaves to take her to work and he didnt until i said i love you too. I know they think im a lesbian and that they hate me even tho im not. i hate this and i dont want them thinking this. I told them a hundred times what happened and theyre like, "wut did the advicenato people tell u to say that." what do i do to make them believe me?
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Bring home guy friends and get one of them to act as your boyfriend...Then once they see that your not really a lesbian, you could pretend you dumped your "boyfriend" and everything would go back to normal again! Or you can ask your friend (the one that sent you those sites) to talk to your parents for you and explain that she really did send you those sites <---"by mistake"...Or you can go up to your mom and tell her why in the world would you, yourself go on those sites if you knew that she would find out later???
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Ok.. 1st of all, ur parents suck. Get a boyfriend or a rebound dude & prove to them that you are most definately NOT gay. Start dressing gurlie & doing gurlie things to prove that you are not gay & if you can actually manage this get a PlayGURL magazine with all DUDES in it to prove that you are not gay. I believe that you aren't gay & I mean.. maybe you already do all those things & if you have, then I dunno what to tell you but I wish you the best of luck! *Steph*
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show your mom this..you know..you are not a lesbian..just because YOUR loser friend thought that was funny..does not make you one..maybe she is one..and was just fishing around for her.
So..show your mom this..MOM she is not a lesbian...ok..it was her friend...and do you think she would be that stupid to do that when you can see where she goes on your privacy report??
Duh!!!
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Show them your question. Parents believe the worst, always, because that's all they hear about. The statistics are always how many teens are homosexual, not how many aren't. How many smoke, not how many who did have quit. How many died in alcohol related accidents and AIDs and the list goes on and on. They're being stupid, not just to be stupid, but because they've been trained to think their kids are lying and doing all this stuff. Show them your question. Big hug and lots of support!
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Try talking to your friend and see if she will tell your parents what really happend.. if she's a true friend.. she will help you out.. otherwise.. she's not.. I would do it for you!!
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tell them the truth about your friend. it was a prank, and you're not a lesbian.
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Tell them what really happened and tell them that they have no reason not to believe you. Im sure after a while they'll realize that thinking there daughter was a lesbian was just stupid. Plus a couple things you could do to make them change there minds are by putting up guy posters all over your walls, getting a boyfriend, or just go hang out wth a bunch of guys. But hey parents will be parents you can't change what they think right away.
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Well sorry to hear about what happened. If they think you are a lesbian then just make it clear to them that you arent. It doesnt really matter what they think anyway. What you could also try is flirting CONSTANTLY with guys and try making a new bf? good luck
xo.melanie
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