Guaranteed...I'm probably younger than you think. I know there's a time and place for everything so at times I seem pretty mature and serious. But believe me when I'm with my friends I'm the biggest goofy goober around XD. Don't let my scary girl picture fool you. I'm just wise beyond my years.
Life is unpredictable. All the mysteries and surprises, you never know what may come your way BUT that's exactly what makes it worth while. So don't panic because you don't "have it all together" because in all honesty no one truly does. We all need advice sometimes and I love giving it out. Don't be afraid to inbox me because I'll be more than happy to try to help you with any problem. In closing: Peace, love and happiness.
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So i really like this guy and he likes me. He has done a lot more than i have and ive done basically nothing. I'm supposed to hang out with him sometime at his house and im very nervous. I have not kissed a guy since i was in the 6th grade and im in the 10th right now. Ive had bf's but it was always so weird and awkward until now. This is the first time in a very long time where i like someone a lot. And im very nervous with everything and i dont know what to do. Im very afraid that im going to suck at everything because im so inexperienced. So what do i do to get better or how do i handle the situatuion. I'm not planning on having sex with him but other things might come up if not when im there then some other time so i just need help on how to handle it and what to do. (link)
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First of all try to shake all the nervousness off and relax. I remember my first time being over one of my ex boyfriend's house. I was so nervous just like you are, I flat out told him. And he tried his best to make me feel comfortable. Just tell yourself to chill out. You are with a guy you are so into so try your best to have a good time but don't do anything you don't want to. Its good to have boundaries.
If you guys do fool around or whatever just let him take the lead. Like you said he is far more experienced than you are so he should know what to do. Just have fun with it.
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Hello there.
I was just wondering... what are some fun ways to kiss? Like one example would be to put an ice cube in your mouth and pass it back and forth. BUt i was wondering what are some fun ways to kiss someone else? I am trying to get some new ways to make kissing more exciting for me and my boyfriend, just so we can play around with it.
I rate high for GOOD answers! =]
Thanks
Madd. (link)
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The Tease-
Look at your boyfriend's lips and lean in to kiss him but DON'T. Kiss the spots next to his lips, his cheeks, his forehead. Just anywhere on his face but his lips. Its actually pretty sexy because your boyfriend will be craving for a smooch.
The Bubble gum Pop-
This one is funny, as long as your comfortable with your guy. Pop in a piece of gum. Something like hubba bubba or something good to blow bubbles with. Lean in to kiss your guy. During a french kiss, when he opens his mouth, this is what you do...hurry up and blow a bubble and pop it in his mouth. Its actually really fun if your boyfriend is goofy.
There's more these are the first ones that came to my mind...
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My dad just recently told me he is gay. He hasnt told anyone his whole life accept for me. This is really difficult for me and I was wondering where I could find people to help support me through this hard and confusing time. (link)
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I'm sure this is hard to swallow but you can do it. Obviously your father trusts you to have told you something he's never told anyone else before.
So now let's think. What's so confusing about it? If this makes your father happy you should be okay with it. But it is hard to deal with. I suggest going to the website gurl.com then to the shout out boards. There should be a board about sexuality and people who know how to deal with it.
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Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months and we've had sex about 7-8 times. The only thing is it hurts still. It stopped hurting after the 4-5th time and now its hurting again. I dont know why this is but Im starting to worry about it abit as I dont know whats wrong. It also feels very tight down below and I thought that once you had sex it doesnt feel tight anymore.
Has anyone else experienced this? and is it normal?
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Its normal for some girls to still experience pain after having sex after multiples times of having it.
I knew a girl who had sex 15 times and still complained about the pain! So yeah it takes some people longer to start experiencing the pleasure (instead of the pain) of sex. Give it time, the pain will cease eventually. In the mean time try having you guy finger you more often so you won't be so tight down there.
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if you have butt sex are you still a virgin? (link)
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Well the answer to this question really depends on who you ask...
Some people think if you partcipate in any form of sex you are no longer a virgin. Including oral. Others will say vaginal intercourse alone no longer makes you a virgin.
Personally I think participating in vaginal and anal sex no longer makes you a virgin.
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19/f
I am 19 and my parents dont really allow me to do much. I feel like a child. My friends all make fun of me for being under such close watch and not being allowed to go places and do things like most 19 or 18 year old do, because i always have to ask my parents and hope that they will permit me to do something... I have no freedom. I've fairly recently gotten in trouble for trying to go out, because I said so, and I was like... its time to stop being controlled by my parents and get out and have some fun.
I had to deceive my parents so that i could do what i wanted to do. I couldn even leave the house without my mom looking out the door to see who was picking me up and to see if they were there yet...etc.... I didnt know my mom was going to follow me to the door, so that foiled my plan. I was going to walk up the road, but my mom was like "no, tell your friend to come pull up infront of the door". And then she saw that it was a male friend and not the female friend i told her it was. I got in a lot of trouble and got yelled at and lectured.. Now my parents say they dont trust me and i cant go anywhere or do anyyything. My friends say "you're 19, you can do what you want....etc."..
I want to know if it would be f***ed up or not if I were to just slip out the house and move one day and not tell my parents anything until I get there. I want to live with a certain guy, but, i mean, when i am ready to move in with him and when i'm sure thats what i want to do. And I will call my parents from my new residence, or better yet text them and be like "umm.... yeah.... i moved..."
They dont even want me meeting with this guy. They dont want me to meet with no guy or do anything. And I am so tired of my parents! I need to get away from them! I'm not going to even bother with introducing them to the guy, because they wont want me with him cuz he's 22 and i told my mom a little bit about him and she's like "you dont need to be with him. you dont need to be with anybody. You need to focus on school and focus on gettin yourself together first (work on myself in terms of anxiety problems etc.)" They just want to keep me as their boyfriend-less child for as long as they possibly can.
And I dont want to bother with telling them i plan on moving out. So do you think it would be messed up if i just moved out, and in with this guy, and just told them about it after the fact? Just so they know what happened to me.. and that way they cant do anything about it (link)
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Let's understand that your parents only do these things because they care about you but it seems like they have a problem with letting you go and letting you do what you want. Are you by any chance an only child?
If you do decide to move out, I suggest you tell your parents about it and then you could try and get your own place with their help maybe. I think this would be your best option.
But if you still want to move out with this guy. You should still tell your parents beforehand. I think they deserve at least that.
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There's this one boy and I'm crazy about him. I find him to be really sweet, funny and loving, with various other good qualities... most of the time. We met in person once and we've been talking on the phone, and writing back and forth for about 8 months.
Christmastime he got really mad at me for what seemed to be no reason. I would ask him what I did and why he was being so stand-offish towards me. He was going through a really hard time, he had no money in his bank account to see me, or buy me or anyone else a Christmas present.
In January I was really heartbroken and wrote him a letter of closure. He wrote me back saying that he still loved me and wanted me back in his life. So, we talked for like a week before he pushed me away again. He told me that he had feelings for another girl and was confused about how he felt about me. So, I “broke up” with him. He was going through a really hard time with having really bad dreams, one in which he killed me and another one in which his little sister got shot. Not to mention that he was almost diagnosed with lung cancer, from being a heavy smoker for 5 years and smoking a total of 10 years. His mom was also getting life-threatening surgery done.
On Valentines Day he sent me a message-in-a-bottle containing a poem, describing his true feelings for me, and rose petals. I thought that it was really sweet and romantic, so I text him saying “thank you!” He was like, “I wanted to let you know that I still love you, but nothing is changing.” However, we get back together that night after he called me.
Last Tuesday he got discharged from the army, he called me at the airport telling me how much he loved me and asked me to move to PA with him, he also told my mom that he wanted to see me but couldn't because he had a shattered wrist and ankle... so he wanted to find a way to see me. Then the next day, he breaks up with me, saying that he had sex with another girl and only had feelings for her and not for me.
During this time I find out that this so called girl doesn't exist. I thought something was weird because the story was always changing, so basically it was become a horrible lie. I think he's a really bad liar.
So, Thursday he texts me, after I text him telling him, “I'm sorry that you got discharged from the Army. You're going to do something great with your life anyway. You being in the service just wasn't part of God's plan.” He tells me that, that better have been the last text message that I ever send him. Then, he texts me and says, “Your right.” And I'm like, “About what?” He's like, “II didn't want to leave you, but I want to run away.” And I was like, “Where are you going to go?” And he was like, “I don't know, I'll make it up as go along.” And, it was just really weird.
Then he calls me, and I'm like, “You really scared me” He tells me, “Yeah, I like hurting people,” and I ask him, “Why?” He tells me, “Because people always hurt me,” And I tell him, “How did I hurt you?” And he's like, “By messing around with guys in hotel rooms.” He mentions how he hates everyone, not just me. Then, he tells me that he'll call me when he feels like it. I know that people have been mean to him, but I don't think that he hates anybody. I especially don't think that he hates me, but that might just be wishful thinking.
Here's why I say that, though, he helps people out. When my friend whose only 17 got pregnant he was there for her, mainly for me but he claims that my friends are also his friends. Right now, he's using the N-word to describe her. He always listens to me and confides in me when something difficult is going on in his life. And then, after he hurts me he regrets it.
Okay, when we were first talking, he told me that he was engaged. I really wanted to be with him, but I knew that I had to get over him. So, I gave head to two guys. One, I did out for mainly attraction purposes, and another one, I did basically because he reminded me of my guy.
I feel like he's finally telling me the truth, and that stuff is finally adding up. When I told him I felt really bad about it, and I realized that I hurt him really badly and he might be afraid of getting close to me because of that, like he thinks that I'm going to hurt him again. Every time I'm out of his life he does something to pull me back in. Could I be wrong? Or is my intuition telling me the truth?
My friend whose studying to be a psychology/counselor, which is kind of what I want to do too. Told me that it sounds like he's finally opening up to me and not to give up on him. My heart doesn't want to, even though he leaves me heartbroken a lot. I think that it's more like in this situation he wants to make me jealous, because of what I did. Is it possible that I'm right? Or, am I just overanalyzing?
What should I do? A lot of my friends and my family members are telling me to just give up that he sounds like a lost cause, that I'm never going to be able to have any guy friends and all this stuff, but I don't want to. I don't know if I could ever forgive myself for giving up on him. (link)
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Didn't you ask a question about this guy and this same situation before? Isn't he also sucidal?
Anyways, it seems like he really does need a friend or someone to lean on. But you are not responsible to save him. Move on. He is pushing you away, lying about his relationships with other girls, and he's even engaged (if he isn't lying). You deserve a stable relationship. Although I think it would be great if you still kept in contact with him. You obviously care about him so you should make sure he is okay every once in a while.
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please don't go on about how im such a terrible person because i already know :( so the other night i went to a party with my friend and she left me alone to go hook up with some guy..i didn't know anyone at the party so i just started talking to this guy, i thought he was really nice but i didn't want anything more than to talk to him and be friends. i got a little crazy and ended up alone with him and he stuck his tongue in my mouth (wanting to makeout)and i pushed him away right away and said no. (the horrible thing is i let him kiss me because the only guy i ever kissed was my current boyfriend and not gonna lie i was kinda curious to see what another guy ksses like...i know, COMPLETE MISTAKE on my part) i'm absolutely completely in love with my boyfriend of 8 months and i would never ever ever want to be without him...would you consider this cheating? and what should i do? like this guy says he sees me at school and i don't want it to be awkward? and i wanna be friends with him, im a really friendly person, i just don't want anything more because i love my boyfriend so much. any advice? thanks so much. (link)
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Ever hear of the saying "Curiosity killed the cat." Well in this case you let it screw with your relationship.
I'm not going to call you a horrible person because your not. You just made a mistake by cheating on your boyfriend but at least you want to come clean now. Just tell your boyfriend you made a huge mistake and you kissed another guy. Tell him how sorry you are and that it will never happen again because you love and only want to be with him. Of course he'll have questions so answer them honestly and hope for the best.
And as for the guy you kissed I actually wouldn't recoommend you being friends with him. I don't think your boyfriend would like that. You don't have to cut him completely off but you should consider keeping you distance before you accidently make another 'mistake'.
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Lol (it will be long sorry... just try to help..)
hi!! 13/female...moo..
Well...I like this guy...since...the beginning of this school year.. and we finally became friends...like a few months ago...in December ...or this January. Well... he became my friend and we started texting and talking on myspace. He started to look...stare at me. Well..I told him how I felt ..and he said he had a girl friend (at that time)...and he says he only likes me as a friend...and I only like him for his looks...and he told me that I can't like him for him because..we don't talk that much at school. Well WE CAN'T!! That's what pissed me off...he's a grade above me (he's in 8th I am in 7th) we...only can say hi...in the hallways and that's it. Well...I was so hurt...but I told him...that I was over him..(I lied) ...and the day after that we had a dance @ my school.. he stared at me a lot... he looked jealous...and I was like...dude... Ug...now.. he has a new girl friend named Andrea...well.. my friend just recently told me that...on the bus...she was making fun of him...saying he's a jurk...a short lil person...she said he was gay.. and that was like about a week before they went out. Now...what the hell it he doing with her?? My friend and I were at the water fountain outside the math room. Well...when he passed us he looked at me ...I smiled and looked away. Well... on his way back...he was with his friend grant..and the whole time ..he was staring at me. Well...my friends and I were playing around..I pushed her into the water fountain...and we started laughing... than she pushed me and I hit the wall and started lauhging. Well...at that time... grant pushed matt in front of me into the girls bathroom..I giggled...and my friend said that he smiled at me. I don't know...he is acting like he likes ME...he really does.. is he trying to make me jealous with that other girl?? Like ...I am confused. Well...now it's going to be real wierd...my friend told him about a embarrasing dream about him I had. Well.. I was whatching that show...the life of an american teenager...it was a long time...ago...and well..I had a dream that he knocked me up.. DON'T LAUGH , DON'T LAUGH!! ..and he wrote back saying" that disturbs him ...seriously". My friend told him its not my fault...and he says he knows. So.. I tried texting him...he didn't write back..do u think he's like...really...disturbed...or maybe does he like that dream...and he's embarrased bye that?? oh..I don't know.. well...my friend tells me...that he probably likes me he just doesn't want to date me because I am younger...I think that to..can someone help?? I really like this guy...and it hurts so much..when I see him with that girl. Please help...and he really cares for me 2...so can u peeps help?? Don't be harsh please...and I'll rate fairly...
thanks.. (link)
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Guys are pretty easy to figure out. It's all about decoding their signals and the things they say.
I'm not so sure if he exactly likes you. But you've caught his eye on several occasions so he is definitely somewhat interested in you. The fact that he pushed his friend while you were playing with yours tells me that he wants your attention. But the fact that he gives you so many excuses and that he has a girlfriend tells me that's all he wants. Sorry to put a damper on things but hey who knows what the future may hold. If his girlfriend and him breaks up you definitely have a chance.
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everytime i really like a quy i work so hard to qet him. he eventually starts likinq me then i stop likinq him. i know im not akward around quys because i only have like three err four chick friends then the rest are quys. i love hanqinq out with quys. its like my comfort zone. ahha. butt i dont know whats up with that. i just randomly stop likinq the quy &nd he thinks i was just tryinq to waste his time &nd stuff.
any ideas what miqht be wronq with me ? (link)
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You actually remind me a lot of myself. What you really like is the chase and not so much the guy. It seems like you're a flirt to honest, and there is nothing wrong with that or you. Well except the fact that you actually are wasting these guys' time. Think about it, you're unintentionally leading them on. Maybe you should make sure your actually into these guys' before you try and pursue them.
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18,f
i like my best friend. yeaaaaah i know, many say its a bad thing but like i really love the kid. the only thing, he had a girlfriend of almost three years, but they just broke things off like two months ago but still hangout and are still close friends which is still heartbreaking because who knows whats going on with them still you know. i just dont know if he likes me back or not. like whenever i bring up a guy he will act like he is not jealous at all and just be like "haha ok" or like someone told him i was going out with this guy and he got reallly mad at me for not telling him AND because he didnt like the kid at all, he was like you better not, oh my god how could you? but it wasnt true at all! i try to be flirty with him and when we're together it's really like a sexual attraction even though we havent done anything yet we flirt ALOT and he always touches me in a way that tells me he wants me. but when i text him sometimes he will be short with me and just be like "lol" or "ok" and it's like okaaaay? but then sometimes he will be all flirty with me when texting. and sometimes we'll be texting and i'll say something and he wont say anything back which makes me feel REALLY stupid. i just don't know what to do. i don't want to confront him about me liking him because i don't even know if he likes me like that and i wouldnt want to ruin our friendship because we're so close. (link)
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Firstly whatever him and his ex girlfriend is doing means nothing to you. He is now open and up for grabs. Your grabs that is :) there is countless actions you could take. Here's some...
Option 1:
Just gather up all your guts and confidence and tell him how you feel face to face. This way you will see his reaction and then you guys can talk about it.
Option 2:
Take a pencil and some paper. Now write a letter to him explaining everything you like about him and why and how long you've been having these feelings. The next time you guys' are alone give him the letter and ask him to read it. Then ask what he thinks about what your feelings or whatever.
Option 3:
Take zero action and hope for the best :(
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my boyfriend & his brother's birthday is in 3 weeks. Last year i didnt get anything for my boyfriends brother but i got my boyfriend a t-shirt.
This year i want to get something else for my boyfriend that i havent gotten him before that wont cost an arm & a leg.
i've gotten him- cologne, t-shirts, stuffed animals, Picture frame w/picture of us, & a blanket.
i just need something cute at preffurably under $50 for him just leave me as many ideas as possible.
Also i would like to get his brother something....nothing big just something for his birthday thats under $20.
Please leave me tons of ideas for both people.
i appreciate any answers.
Thanks in advance :) (link)
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You can get your boyfriend what I'm getting mine, who strangely, is also a twin.
A cute little gift basket that you decorated yourself. Put little decorated notes in it telling him what you like most about him, explaining your feelings, or whatever. Put his favorite edible treats in it (like candy, cookies, chips or whatever). The main thing is put stuff he would want in it. Place either a picture of yourself or a picture of the both of you in it. You could also buy something that he could wear maybe a nice hat, shirt or some shoes. Or whatever he's into.
I think it's a good gift idea because it's personal. You put a lot of work into it and it should show.
Now his twin, just buy him a CD and a card.
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i am 16 i really neeed to move out of my house.my dad just drinks all the time and my mom is always angry.because of my dad a have a sister that lives with me and she is constantly beating on me and yelling at me. how can i move out? (link)
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Let's really think about this situation. Do you have anywhere else stable to go? Do you think that you can support yourself? Do you have another guardian in mind?
If yes, to all three I say go for it. Pack up your stuff and go. Are you worried your parents will not let you? If so, I suggest seeking legal emancipation. This way your parents will have no rights to you. I just hope you have a job to support yourself.
Please get back to me on your situation.
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Well i'm the same person u suggested i tell her how i feel and i did but apparently her mom is 1 of those uptight parents that doesn't want her to have any bf's till she's 18 and we have decided to wait it out any suggestions on what to do while we wait (link)
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Always, always keep in touch with each other. Whenever you go back to your hometown go see her.
You should send her video letters. Meaning record yourself telling her a message and mail it to her. It's actually fun. When my ex boyfriend moved away we did that for a while. It kept us close for away until he got into new (negative) things where he lived. You could even web cam.
Send her letters. Sure you guys talk on the phone and that's cool and all but letters show effort and hand written sentiments are more personal every once in a while. Send her flowers on her birthday. Small actions are what show you care.
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Well that definitely changes things. Maybe you could send these things using a false name. Or one of her friends' names and let her know that its really you. Or just keep it strictly phone conversations.
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I just dont get this sunday school I go to. People are always asking this question like how are you doing and right now I am not doing that good and at times I dont feel like opening up mainly cause I am afraid that it could just get worse. And the teacher seems to be pissed at me like when he doesnt hear what I said he sounds like he is disrespected at what I said. Although first time I went there we could just say the answer to the question. (link)
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You should try and talk to someone close to you about this problem and the fact that you're not doing good. Do you attend church with your parents? If so, tell them. Maybe even suggest going to a different sunday school or talking to your sunday teacher.
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Ok I am Blake (15,sophomore) I play football and am in honors classes also important i have never had a girlfriend before that was more than a friend,and need help with a serious problem. I have a friend we have been friends for about 2 years, and i have never felt so attracted to a person in my life. We had many of the same classes before I moved a few weeks ago(a big source of my problem). It was always a joy to talk to her. We both shared honors classes digital imaging and more. She was perfect her personality her smile everything. Then my mom says we're moving and i almost die from the shock right after I moved I felt instantly depressed almost as if there is no meaning to life anymore. I have kept in touch with her since I moved by Texting, Talking over the phone,and Myspace. Though it is nothing like seeing her almost everyday in person. With our ages it makes the fact I moved even worse. I moved about 1 hour away from where I lived before. I care so much about her but I do not know if she feels the same way because I am not the most attractive person in the world. I miss her so much I would give everything I have just to be able to have the guts to tell her how i feel and have her say she feels the same way. I need help on how I can approach my situation and get a positive outcome.
Positive comments would be much appreciated thank you for any and all comments. (link)
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Have confidence in yourself.
You play football (which is huge turn on for a lot of girls). Apparently your smart and it seems like you have a kind heart. Sounds to me like your a good catch.
Now I have a question for you: Do you by any chance go back to your old town to visit?
If so, I say you arrange to see her and tell her how you feel. You may never know how things could have turned out if don't. If your kind of shy telephone her. Just say something like "(her name), it's something I want to tell you. I think your beautiful. Not only do you have looks but you also have a great personality to match. And I really do like you. I've been wondering if there is any chance that you might feel the same?" Now you are out in the open and she is in control at this moment. Let's hope she does feel the same.
Hope I helped
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what is your take on strippers do you think their trashy or do you have any level of respect for them? (link)
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I do not think strippers are trashy at all. So what if they want to take their clothes off? What's it to anyone? Why should anyone look down on them? No one is perfect so no one has room to judge. So yes I do have respect for strippers. Stripping doesn't make themm anyless of a person to me. If makes them feel sexy, puts food on their table, puts money in their pockets or whatever. If it makes them happy or stable well hey good for them.
I don't judge people. Its just not in my character.
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Well me and this guy really like eachother
but we are not going out (John). He lives about 3hrs away. and theres this other guy who really wants to have sex, but me and that guy have no feelings for eachother what so ever(Alex).I wasnt going to tell John about Alex,but John was telling me about how his brother was blocking him from going up2 a girl.Obviously I got jealous and told him about Alex. Soo then John told me he didnt want me2have sex so I decided not to have sex with alex, but people are telling me i shouldnt care about what john wants because we are not dating.
What do you think i should do?
P.S.
I know its not the best to have sex with sumone that i have no feelings for but i just wanna know if i should care about what John wants?..and should i base my decision on someone who im not with?
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Regardless if you two are official or not I think you should care about his feelings or what he wants. Why? Well let me explain.
When John told you about that girl and you got jealous to the point where you told him about Alex, didn't you want him to care? Yes you did. So why should you not care about what John wants when you want him to care about your feelings? You should.
But should you base your answer solely on John's feelings? No, always take your feelings into account and what will happen to you and John if you do sleep with Alex.
Hope I helped
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hey im 15.f
i have 2 questions to ask in this.
so heres the story (and oh yea who ever answers ill rate high because i really need help)
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about almost 2 weeks and those 2 weeks he fingered me. i gave me head and we had sex. alot of sex. my question is can i be any chance pragnet since we didnt use a condom the very first time and we were in he shower and he felt like he was gonna cum so he pulled out and waited a little and then we went agian. but he never came. that same day we used condoms but we had sex twice after the shower incident. then i came over agian yesterday and we had sex twice again but with a condom he came but we had a condom and everything was fine. but im just worried that what if i am pragnet and if there is a chance i can be.. because since the first time in the shower my mood changed and i got a small pain like all the way in mmy lower stomach by my vigina. im really scared and i dont know what to do im going to wait ffor my period to come but i dont know by then it might be to late.
another question is i regret having sex with him so much he says he likes me a lot but i feel like our relationship is moving wayyyyyyyy 2 fast and it old him that he said everything is fine and that he wont leave me because we had a thing in the past where i was dating my other boyfriend and he tried to convince me to break up with him so he must like me but idont what to do bout the sex ...and the moving fast
any help ill rate high thank u so much =] (link)
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Uh yes there is a chance you could be pregnant. Condoms are not 100% effective. And then again you guys didn't even use a condom the first time so there is a cghance you could be pregnant. Just wait awhile and see if you get your period.
And now...the best thing for you to do is tell your boyfriend you think you guys are moving too fast. And you need to slow down. Just express your feelings to him.
Hope I helped
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my friend is the biggest liar ever. her name is sarah. she did something recently, that is so close to unforgivable. it's really long so i won't go into detail and way to confusing. but basically to make it extremely short she went behind my back and my other friends back, and stabbed us both. what she did, was just so incredibly low.
Anyway, when we found out, she said she was sorry and would stop lying to us and wouldn't do what she did anymore. well, the other day, her other friend found out about it and asked her what happened, and she told her that it never happened and didn't know what she was talking about!!!
So she is continuing to lie. she is also lieing about really weird stuff. like her mom died along time ago. and she told this girl in her art class that her and her mom were going shopping. she doesn't have a step mom or any kind of mom figure in her life. (i'm her best friend, i would know.)
i don't know what to do. help? (link)
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The fibbing friend? I think everyone has encountered one of those. I know I have. Long story short we are no longer friends.
It seems like you've been pretty patient with her lying up until now so I applaud you for that. Patience is a virtue. But now it's time for a meeting. You and your friends should sit Sara down and talk to her about her constant lying. And why on earth would she lie about her mother being alive or dead? You should really ask her why she lies so much.
Then see if her lying ceases after you guys' meeting. If it doesn't you should reconsider being her friend.
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