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.... ugg...dudes are soo confusing...
Lol (it will be long sorry... just try to help..)
hi!! 13/female...moo..
Well...I like this guy...since...the beginning of this school year.. and we finally became friends...like a few months ago...in December ...or this January. Well... he became my friend and we started texting and talking on myspace. He started to look...stare at me. Well..I told him how I felt ..and he said he had a girl friend (at that time)...and he says he only likes me as a friend...and I only like him for his looks...and he told me that I can't like him for him because..we don't talk that much at school. Well WE CAN'T!! That's what pissed me off...he's a grade above me (he's in 8th I am in 7th) we...only can say hi...in the hallways and that's it. Well...I was so hurt...but I told him...that I was over him..(I lied) ...and the day after that we had a dance @ my school.. he stared at me a lot... he looked jealous...and I was like...dude... Ug...now.. he has a new girl friend named Andrea...well.. my friend just recently told me that...on the bus...she was making fun of him...saying he's a jurk...a short lil person...she said he was gay.. and that was like about a week before they went out. Now...what the hell it he doing with her?? My friend and I were at the water fountain outside the math room. Well...when he passed us he looked at me ...I smiled and looked away. Well... on his way back...he was with his friend grant..and the whole time ..he was staring at me. Well...my friends and I were playing around..I pushed her into the water fountain...and we started laughing... than she pushed me and I hit the wall and started lauhging. Well...at that time... grant pushed matt in front of me into the girls bathroom..I giggled...and my friend said that he smiled at me. I don't know...he is acting like he likes ME...he really does.. is he trying to make me jealous with that other girl?? Like ...I am confused. Well...now it's going to be real wierd...my friend told him about a embarrasing dream about him I had. Well.. I was whatching that show...the life of an american teenager...it was a long time...ago...and well..I had a dream that he knocked me up.. DON'T LAUGH , DON'T LAUGH!! ..and he wrote back saying" that disturbs him ...seriously". My friend told him its not my fault...and he says he knows. So.. I tried texting him...he didn't write back..do u think he's like...really...disturbed...or maybe does he like that dream...and he's embarrased bye that?? oh..I don't know.. well...my friend tells me...that he probably likes me he just doesn't want to date me because I am younger...I think that to..can someone help?? I really like this guy...and it hurts so much..when I see him with that girl. Please help...and he really cares for me 2...so can u peeps help?? Don't be harsh please...and I'll rate fairly...
thanks..
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Guys are very confusing.
I'm not sure that you should ask him out.. if he did want to date you he'll ask you out don't worry.
But for a while i'd keep everything quiet for a while. If he thinks you're losing interst he might rethink things and go after you. Guys love the chase and if you're just always there it might not be appealing to him, he'll wanna come after you.
Hope this helps!
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Guys are pretty easy to figure out. It's all about decoding their signals and the things they say.
I'm not so sure if he exactly likes you. But you've caught his eye on several occasions so he is definitely somewhat interested in you. The fact that he pushed his friend while you were playing with yours tells me that he wants your attention. But the fact that he gives you so many excuses and that he has a girlfriend tells me that's all he wants. Sorry to put a damper on things but hey who knows what the future may hold. If his girlfriend and him breaks up you definitely have a chance.
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Although he already told you he doesn't like you in that way, he may have changed his mind (which is why he's acting the way he is), the best way to find out is to talk to him about it. Not through your friends or his friends, but just you two. The only problem with that is the fact that he already has a girlfriend, so if I were you, I'd wait until they break up & then talk to him about it, because you don't want to intrude on their relationship. After they break up, if he still says he only likes you as a friend, move on. Find someone who will like you as more than just a friend. You're still pretty young, too, so don't stress out too much about relationships.
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