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my friend, the pathological liar..
my friend is the biggest liar ever. her name is sarah. she did something recently, that is so close to unforgivable. it's really long so i won't go into detail and way to confusing. but basically to make it extremely short she went behind my back and my other friends back, and stabbed us both. what she did, was just so incredibly low.
Anyway, when we found out, she said she was sorry and would stop lying to us and wouldn't do what she did anymore. well, the other day, her other friend found out about it and asked her what happened, and she told her that it never happened and didn't know what she was talking about!!!
So she is continuing to lie. she is also lieing about really weird stuff. like her mom died along time ago. and she told this girl in her art class that her and her mom were going shopping. she doesn't have a step mom or any kind of mom figure in her life. (i'm her best friend, i would know.)
i don't know what to do. help?
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Obviously your friend lies for attention and going shopping with her mom probably makes her feel good, even if she is dead. Some other people were talking about shopping with their mom and so she lied. Anyway I had a friend since the 6th grade who lied and sleeps with a forty some year old gross trucker. My friends and I got sick of her, I would personally stop being friends with her. My old friend started making lies.
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Ok I had a friend like that KEY WORD had... It was the hardest decican of my life. We were the best of best of friends and finally I just couldn't handle it. All the lieing.... she tried lieing to me about my husband and how he dosn't love me and what not just a joke i'll tell ya. anyways enough about my problem all I was trying to say is wow do I know how you feel and I have been in this postition. I think the best thing is to end the friendship. It would be hard and it took me a long time and I miss her time to time but..... I don't have to deal with the lieing and backstabing and drama. That is a releif! Please do what your HEART is telling you but as you can see I have been in the same postion. Hope this helps. Good Luck! Oh and every time you think she is lieing or is trying to lie stand up to her and confront her. Again Good Luck!
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The fibbing friend? I think everyone has encountered one of those. I know I have. Long story short we are no longer friends.
It seems like you've been pretty patient with her lying up until now so I applaud you for that. Patience is a virtue. But now it's time for a meeting. You and your friends should sit Sara down and talk to her about her constant lying. And why on earth would she lie about her mother being alive or dead? You should really ask her why she lies so much.
Then see if her lying ceases after you guys' meeting. If it doesn't you should reconsider being her friend.
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