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Okay so i am hanging out with this guy i really like today. I know he likes me back and last time we hung out (sat) he kissed me.. with toungue. I want to make a move on him if he doesnt make any move on me today. I dont know how i should do it. What is a cute way to just.. kiss him without being like ackward? Also, i am worried about doing it cause maybe he just kissed me that once and thought" Hmm that was nice" but didnt plan on doing it again. I dont want to make it seem like im expecting it from now on (though it would be nice) hah
any answers would be appreciated/. =)
15/f btw (link)
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Run up behind him and put your hands over his eyes and just do that little guessing game thing. Then if he gives up/guesses, just give him a little kiss on the cheek. Then he might just start kissing you again. :)
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I am 23 and female. I dated a guy for 5 years and I found out that he cheated on me. Now I want to say that the cheating was a lot. It was around 10 girls. He slept with 5 of them, and the one was my best friend. Now with that said I also want to say that we were young when we dated, and he wasn't even 21 yet. Ok so I obviously broke up with him, and when I did the tables turned and he was depressed. He could not deal with the break-up and since then he has not been the same. It is going on 2 years since this happened. I did not date anyone seriosly for a 1 1/2 of that time. I could not find anyone I really wanted to date. I was going to go back to him, because I felt like there was no one else for me. Well I ended up meeting someone right before I was going to go back to him. This guy is great he does so much for me in every way possible. He is just a great guy. I love him very much and everything about him. The problem is it still hurts to think of my ex. I feel guilty because I know he is not ok, and that I need to help him and make him feel better. I am so confused lately I just can't get myself to think straight. Anyway I want to know if this is normal and I need to continue on with my life, or if I should not ignore the feelings for my ex that I still might have? (link)
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It's normal. I may not have ever been in love but guys have asked me out, I've rejected them, and I feel guilty. If your ex isn't right for you, don't go out with! You obviously feel guilty because you broke up with him. Well you need to sit down with him one day, and explain to him how badly he messed up and how it's just hard to trust him so you can't go out with him again, also because you found, another, trustworthy, honest guy for yourself.
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How do you make out? Any tips? Please don't just tell me that it comes naturally, I want to know how exaclty...
Tongue movement
How not to make it awqward
Where to put your hands
Anything extra ...
Thanks (link)
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This might not be the best advice...but hey, it's advice! Basically do everything the other person said, and [to add to their suggestions] just lean your head to the right.
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Ok well my friends are gonna get drunk after our grad.
should i go or not?
it's no pressure, they really are my friends. they do drugs sometimes but i'm the baby of the group so thye don't force me or anything and they dont' do it when I'm around.
I never did drugs or drank before.
But i just want one night jsut to feel drunk, you know?
I don't know..it's 50-50 to me (link)
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Well let's think about this...thinking...thinking...um, NO! Are you crazy? I don't mean to be rude but you're out of your mind, don't mess up your life. You'll probably feel guilty about this later. Just wait 3 more years, and you can get drunk (legally) as much as you want, just don't drive home.
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my razr just died and i'm not sure if i want to get another. Any other good cellphones out there right now that are around the same price as the razr?? (link)
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The Kyocera Slider Remix, Kyocera Strobe, Krzr, Sliver, Blackberry, Treo, Palm Treo, etc etc etc. Just look on the website for whatever phone company you have (i.e. US Cell, Alltel, and all those places should have a website)
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k well on august 26th i have jv volleyball tryouts.
i've never played before but im going to camps over the summer.
well my coach gave us conditioning to do over the summer.
30min cardo 5x a week.
25pushups, 100crunches, 4setsof15 crunches/lunges,50 jumps 3x a week.
well im not good a pushups.
&they have to be real pushups.
if i try to do as many as i can each day will i get better.
&if not how.
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I'm trying out for vball too and you NEED to be able to do pushups because you need all the upper body strength you can get. So just do as many as you can and eventually you'll get better :)
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is it possible to convert grams to meters or liters to meters? if so, how? websites would be appreciated =] (link)
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I'm pretty sure you can't since they're used for two different types of measuring. For example, I don't know how long 5 liters of pepsi is (Liters to meter):P
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Long but please read:
My parents are getting a divorce shortly mainly because my dad is 38 wanting to be 20 again. I have a bestfriend that comes around alot and she thinks my dad is hot and he knows that. He says that she is very attractive and so on. He text her all the time. Me and my friend work together and my dad will go in and talk to her then leave without saying a word to me or he will go in when im not even working like he has for the last 2 weeks according to my friend.
The other night i was pretty drunk and my friend and i were talking to my dad. I laid down on the floor and dosed off and i hard noises coming from my friend ( like her and my dad messing around ) after my sister came in the room i got up and went to the bathroom and started crying. After 10 min my friend came to check on me and i asked her if she was messing around with my dad and she said "no, i would never do that ___ i would never do anything to ruin our friendship". And of course i believe her she my bestfriend.
Lately my dad is very attached to his cell phone every time it chimes i know its my friend.He sleeps with the phone right next to him most nights and if you touch his phone he flips out. Well tonight he left his phone on the table so i snooped and i looked thourgh his pictures and i found one of my friend naked (from the waist up)
IM so hurt by this i dont know if i trust her shes lying to me. We're supposed to be bestfriends. Shes tells me she annoyed by my dad but that pictures proves that thats a lie. I dont know what to do anymore. I dont want to tell her i was looking through my dads phone and found this. I'm Graduating tomorrow and shes going to be there we are supposed to move in tomorrow as in get an apartment.
Please help im falling apart over this
thanks (link)
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Whoa. That's a pretty screwy thing your dad's doing. Tell your friend she needs to seriously stop hooking up with your dad since he's 20 years older than her. It's really perverted. I would just not talk to her anymore, and if she asks why you don't talk to her, just tell her the truth.
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the other day my friend invited me to her party. we are pretty good friends but not the closest. an hour later she told me the party was canceled cause her mom said she couldn't. well in everyone's away message it says "can't wait for sarah's party on saturday" so its obvious shes lying. i dont wanna bring it up to her and sound like a bitch or get her mad at me.. but like how should i bring it up? i really dont know why she'd do that to me. =/ the party is tomorrow night. (link)
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Well don't leave her a message or anything saying "Why did you lie to me?" because that would be REALLY rude, someone did that to my friend and it was just really rude. Just say 'So what was up with the party this weekend? I heard a lot of people say they were going but you said it was canceled...? I'm not mad or anything, I just wanna know.'
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17/f
Okay so I'm kind of overweight. I'm not a whale or anything, but I'm big enough to feel really uncomfortable wearing a bathing suit. Today I bought my bathing suit for the summer. I tried it on and I thought it was perfect for me. It's light at the top and it changes to darker shades towards the bottom. The top is a halter and it has a built-in skirt that conceals my less-appealing cures. I thought it look good because it concealed my huge butt while showing off my nice shoulders and neck.
Anyway, I get it home and my mom tells me it's an "old lady bathing suit." I got mad at said, "Well at least I'm not a slut!" Apparently, if it's not a skimpy two piece, it must be an "old lady bathing suit," in her opinion anyway.
What's your opinion on this? Should I get a different suit? I don't want to be laughed at when I go to the beach or to the pool. (link)
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That makes me furious when moms say stuff like that to their children. You wear whatever you feel comfortable in! I think it sounds VERY cute :) Please don't take it back just because of what your MOM thinks, I mean after all, what does she know about being 17 in 2007? NOTHING because I'm almost positive she's not the same age as you :P
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i dont wanna tan in the sun because that can cause skin canser and tanning beds R NOT GOOD so how can i get a natural looking tan without the bottle stuff that makes your skin look orange.THANKSSSS (link)
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The sun will only give you skin cancer if you don't use sunscreen. Just use SPF 15 and lay in the sun for a little while :)
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i came to the fact god is not real. the only person who truly loved me is my dad, and he died. my moms totally obsessed with herself. my friends talk about me all the time and boys are total liars and use me. im 13, and im about to give up and kill myself. my teachers think im stupid. nothing goes right. its not fair. i often cry and beg for someone to just hold me when im alone. i really need that. i just dont know what to do and i dont want to go to a theripist (link)
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Sweetie, just because your life isn't the best it can be, doesn't mean God isn't real. This is just the life he picked out for you, and if you kill yourself, you'll miss out on all of the great things God has in store for you. Please don't give up hope. Really, you'll miss out on SO MUCH stuff. You'll be in heaven, watching everyone have a good time while you're stuck up there, doing absolutely NOTHING. So please, just don't kill yourself.
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one of my students just found out that the guy that she likes is not interested on her,,,she is sad and disspointed. I have told her that she is pretty and she will find someone that will love her.
What can I do to make her feel special?
Also I am afraid that she ends up with a jerk...
you know nice girls most of the times end up with jerks.... (link)
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Just tell her that he wasn't the right one obviously and before she knows it, some amazing guy will start liking her. And HER fairytale will have a happy ending, no doubt about it :)
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theres this guy name bill and he likes to start rumors like we mess around with each ( telling jokes and stuff ) and so he goes nate wants you ( nate is this one guy ) im like eww i dont care i dont like him. and so bill goes and tells nate rose likes you ( me =rose) and nate goes online and IMs me and is like I DONT LIKE YOU SMELLY ARAB YOUR VAG SMELLS FUNNY AND YOUR UGLY and he just keeps goinng on dissing me and i diss him back
but now he wont stop and its bothering me. i have him in third hour and like what do i do?
ignore him?
cuss at him?
i just dont know whats the best
i mean if someone were calling you names and all that would you honestly just sit there and ignore them?
i ignored him now when he sent this
in third hour it always smells like fish because you never close your legs take out the dead fucken corpes out of ur vajj
oh and the LAST thing i would ever do is tell a teacher or adult, so dont say it (link)
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Tell him if he's so pathetic that he has to sit there and act like an idiot, then you don't know why in the world ANYONE in their right mind likes him. Also tell him that there's no way you ever liked him, that was just a rumor, and a stupid one at that :)
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ok, im 14/f and in 9th grade. im only five feet tall and i weigh between 85 && 95 pounds. im very skinny and always have been but people often accuse me of being anorexic or bulemic. but with the about of food i eat in one day you would wonder why im not obeese or w/e. i 'try' gaining weight but it doesnt work. the nurse at school had a few people talk to her and they're worried about me but im fine. she often weighs me and every so often ill lose or gain a pound or two. what do i do? how do i get people to stop accusing me? like, nothing wrong with me but why am i like this? (link)
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It's just how you are. You just ignore the comments and say 'whatever'. But if it really starts getting to you just say 'You know calling me too thin, is just as bad as calling someone too big.' and hopefully they'll stop because they know calling someone overweight is outright mean. Your nurse shouldn't accuse you, after all she IS a nurse and should know the signs for anorexia and bulemia. If she does just say 'I eat plenty, whether it's healthy or unhealthy, this is just the way I am.'
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16/f
Where I live, I'm only two years away from being at the legal drinking age. Of course it's bad for me to drink, but I rarely do. My question is about not drinking the alcohol, but just keeping it.
I have a place in my room where I can hide as much alcohol as I want and it will never be found. Whenever I get the chance to buy it, I do. But then I just stash it in that place and rarely drink it (once every few/several months at a party).
What I like to do however, is measure it, pour it and make calculations. I enjoy knowing that it's up there and calculating how much I have and what percentage of alcohol it contains. I'm not sure why I do this, but I find it interesting.
Could this lead to problems as an adult? Is this potentially risky behaviour? I guess I just like knowing I have something I shouldn't, and not feeing the need to actually drink it.
Thanks! =) (link)
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Every time I read this type of thing I sorta get sad because I can't count how many people I know who do underaged drinking and it makes me scared that I'll do it. Doing this could mess up your life, because when you get older and it's legal your measuring will more than likely stop and you'll just drink out of control because you already know you like it, so what's the point in taking baby steps with it, like you're doing now? Like someone else said, you might be a scientist when you 'grow up' but I think if you want a good career like that, you should quit your drinking and save it for when it's legal but still keep it under control :)
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okay, so whenever i bend my leg or something, it makes this cracking sound. Like, when i sit in a "criss cross apple sauce" position, or i sit on my knees it cracks. And..when i just bend my knee a lot, it cracks. What's wrong with it? What can i do to help my knee/leg? (link)
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Haaha people always think it's soo weird that my knees crack when I bend down or something, because they usually starts happening when you get older but it could just be a genetics thing. I'm only 13 and my knees constantly pop, like my mom's. It's not a problem :)
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I live in Australia =]
I'm finding it really hard to sleep at night. It takes me like 4 hours to get to sleep no matter how late or early I go to bed. It only happens on school nights and I HATE MY SCHOOL WITH A PASSION. I also had no troubles sleeping in Primary school and my first high school
So any suggestions on how to get to sleep? (link)
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Drink milk before you go to sleep because it has some stuff in it that makes you tired and read too. They both make you very tired. I have the same problem, I'll sit there and think about the most random things for like 30 minutes to an hour, but I can't help it. So just try what I said and I hope it works!
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I can not stop eating.
I lost 5 pounds last month,but all of as sudden now my body is going insane. it's like I NEED TO EAT, even when I don't feel hungry like today for example, I've had
a pudding, chocolate bar, jo louie, a sandwhich, bag of peanuts and smarties, grilled cheese, mac and cheese, crackers and cheese, oatmeal, chcolate eggs, big chocolate bunny, yogos, coffee, fruit-to-go.
And it's only 1 in the afternoon.
My stomach is HUGE, and hurts, but I still want to eat.
What can I do to get this under control?
I'm madly craving sweets. (link)
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Simple. Eat slower and you get full faster. You're probably just growing, I've been eating way more than normal lately, and like you, my stomach starts hurting sometimes. And also like you, I lost 3 punds a couple weekends ago (from being sick).
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my freinds 6 year old daughter started having her period. The doc said it might be a one time thing ... are there any ways this can hurt her or cause any damage to her? What if it isn't a one time thing? Are there any ways we can help her out? (link)
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I wouldn't call it 'normal' but it's not abnormal because I was watching Tyra Banks talk show and an 8 yearold girl had the same thing happen except I think she started her period when she was about 5. But you can take pills to slow it down a little. She'll very mature looking when she's just 7 or 8 but taking the pills will, like I said, help.
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