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how do i handle it?
theres this guy name bill and he likes to start rumors like we mess around with each ( telling jokes and stuff ) and so he goes nate wants you ( nate is this one guy ) im like eww i dont care i dont like him. and so bill goes and tells nate rose likes you ( me =rose) and nate goes online and IMs me and is like I DONT LIKE YOU SMELLY ARAB YOUR VAG SMELLS FUNNY AND YOUR UGLY and he just keeps goinng on dissing me and i diss him back
but now he wont stop and its bothering me. i have him in third hour and like what do i do?
ignore him?
cuss at him?
i just dont know whats the best
i mean if someone were calling you names and all that would you honestly just sit there and ignore them?
i ignored him now when he sent this
in third hour it always smells like fish because you never close your legs take out the dead fucken corpes out of ur vajj
oh and the LAST thing i would ever do is tell a teacher or adult, so dont say it
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Tell him if he's so pathetic that he has to sit there and act like an idiot, then you don't know why in the world ANYONE in their right mind likes him. Also tell him that there's no way you ever liked him, that was just a rumor, and a stupid one at that :)
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i would totally ignore him. He obviously dosnt dserve your attention. He prob. likes you. Boys are stupid like that;; instead of actually telling a girl they like them,, they say supid things, and they dont always reliz how much it hurts.
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Why, yes. I would ignore him. I would also laugh with him like "Oh, yah! You should be a stand-up comedian..." I've done it before, and it works once he realizes he isn't getting a rise out of you.
Besides, why should you care what he thinks? Why should you give him the satisfaction of knowing he is getting under your skin? Said satisfaction is what he seeks. What he thinks and says about you obviously proves his intelligence, now doesn't it?
The fact that he calls you a "smelly Arab" also goes to show that he is a racist pig and not worth a shred of your time, effort, or worries. Not worth one single waste of your breath. Right?
Whenever he says things like that to you, just keep in mind how absolutely hilarious it is that he has this strange obsession with your "vag". He sure likes to talk about it, doesn't he?
Don't retaliate- just think of that and laugh your ass off at what he says. ;)
Be the better person, and just keep your angry thoughts to yourself. Don't cuss him or retaliate.
ygs-29/f
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just don't let him know it bothers you cause' if he knows it bothers you it is just like fuel to the fire if you do the same things that he is doing to you it makes you just as bad and it tells him it bothers you.
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Never ever cuss at him. You would be just sinking down to his level. I say you should tell a teacher or adulkt because it can be a big problem.Otherwise you should just look at him directly in then eyes and give him an evil look and do that until he lookes away. Hopefully you will tell an adult but if you dont, never back down.
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Yes I would ignore him. Because after all my years of experience, I have learned that this is what works. Although when I was your age, I would have found it hard also. If he doesn't get any reaction out of you, he EVENTUALLY will stop, and no it won't be as soon as you want it to stop, but it will stop. If you answer him, he will answer back, and so on and so on. It may never end. I am surprised that Bill said Nate likes you, when he obviously doesn't. Could it be that bill was testing you, and maybe he is the one who likes you. The other thing you can try is to just laugh at him, show him you have confidence in yourself and it doesn't matter what he says, you know it isn't true. (and you do know that) they hate it when you laugh at them, because they are trying to make you mad. Say yes your right, out loud and laugh. Since that is not the reaction he is looking for, he won't know what to say. If he succeeds in upsetting you, THAT IS THE REACTION he is looking for and will continue. He will continue until he makes you cry if he can. So be strong, just laugh and say whatever. (if that is what kids say today.)
I hope this helps. Please believe me. things do get better when you are an adult and are hanging out with other adults. Adults you choose to be with. Your stuck in school with who ever goes to your school.
Take care
Michele
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im sorry but this is online abuse and you neeeeeed to tell an adult. and because he called you a racist name you can get a restraining order put on him. but you really need to tell an adult.
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