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i liked this girl i started dating who i thought was an innocent girl. in fact i didn't even try to kiss her until the third date because of how innocent i thought she was. well the thing is after i kissed her and don't ask me why we started talking about sexual experiences ( i thought she had practically none so what did i have to fear). well i found out she is what is known as a virgin slut or virgin whore, a girl who is still a virgin but has kissed around 40 guys and had blown off 4 guys just because she was horny and returning the favor after they had sucked her off.
i feel a little disgusted with the horny attitude with random guys in the past and don't know what i should think.
anyway, she is leaving the country for a year so we broke up but still talk as friends. we only kissed so i didn't even get blown off myself but she is going to do some religion studies outside the country, meaning no more sex life for at least that year (no kissing, no nothing). the thing is she went to Aruba as her last opportunity to party and i hate the feeling i get when i think about the certainty of she kissing at least a couple of guys a night (which really doesn't bother me that much)and the possibility of she sucking a guy off just because she is horny (that one does bother me).
i know this inst exactly a question but i need counsel from someone.
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Your problem is not with her, but with the disconnect between what she is and what you imagined she is. People don't parachute into your life without a history of their own. And girls do not spend their lives saving themselves so as to fulfil your personal fantasies of what they should be.
I'm sorry to tell you, but you will not find an "innocent" girl anywhere. Not these days. Your chances are zero, and getting smaller each year. This is a fact that you need to come to terms with. If you find a girl attractive, then other guys do as well. Plenty of those guys are skilled at persuading women to have sex, and sooner or later, one of those guys will hit on her at the right time, in the right circumstances.
Deal with the world as it is, not as you think it ought to be.
(PS: It's very unlikely that this girl really is a virgin.)
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Women have told me that they love my husband and would do anything to get with him. I've been told that he is THEIR exact type and ask why is he with me. I am not an ugly woman and I scratch my head wondering what they see in him. He is attractive to me and very nice but this is becoming a problem. The checker at our local store asked him if she could be the strawberries on his shortcake. He tells me when some woman hits on him which makes matters worse. There's woman at his job that makes him lunch and he says he just takes it because its free food and that he isn't interested in her. What is going on? This has become a frequent event (once or twice a week) at least. Some women will smile all in his face even if we go out somewhere together and or stand near us & make loud comments like "Why is he with her?" . One woman told him that if he became bored with me, she was available. Is he encouraging this behavior? I see other attractive, married men and nobody is making the moves on them! What's up?
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"I think it's time to take out the serious voice and have a talk with Mr. Husband. He should at least say that he is happily married."
Ron777, this would not discourage them in the least. Not even a little bit. If anything, it's a plus.
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An old boyfriend, lives in another state, texts me, calls me, sends me pics of his kids. He is divorced. It was 30+ years that we didn't talk. Found me on facebook. Could this mean he might want to get back together? We share, on the phone, everything going on in our lives. I am a 55 year old woman. (link)
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If I did this, I would be hoping that the g/f from 30 years ago still looks as hot as she did way back when, and maybe I could get laid.
Yeah, it's pretty much all we think about.
Hope this helps.
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I've been engaged since September of last year. My fiancé's sister just got engaged a month ago. My wedding is in September 2015. Her fiancé wants to have the wedding in May 2015. They have only been dating for 2 years. My fiancé and I have been together for 7 years. We were going to get married this year but I've had a lot of medical complications. I'm upset about that fact they want to get married before us and want to take away our thunder. I think it's rude and disrespectful. His parents originally said they would stand up for us and tell her to wait and now they don't want to. My fiancé and I are getting into fights about this. We are suppose to talk to his sister and fiancé but honestly I'm so upset. Don't know what to do.
Sincerely,
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This is going to sound rough but:
Your medical problems have postponed your own wedding. But why should *your* problems postpone the wedding of someone you are not even related to yet? Why should *your* medical problems be something *she* has to put *her* life on hold for?
You want to know something? They are not getting married to "steal your thunder". They are getting married because they want to get married. Their wedding isn't all about you. Actually, most things aren't all about you.
Go celebrate your future sister-in-law's special day and be good about it. If you do, she'll be a great help to you when your own day comes. Show that you an be part of the family. If you don't, well, your fiancé is going to have to start wondering if you understand that family is important.
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Hi. I want to post acting videos on YouTube I have scripts from different movies and I want to act them out. But none of my friends are really interested in acting. I know that I'm good at acting I'm 100% sure of it. So should I act out the whole script by myself and post that on YouTube? (link)
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Glasses answer is better than mine.
I was going to say "Yes, this is totally something you should do."
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Hi, I am a13 year old girl and I am entering my school's science fair but I need a little help. I wanted to do something really cool and original but everything I think of is so cliché. So what is an original project. (It needs to have a control, indepent and dependent variables, and an expiriment.) Thamks!!!!
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Kinda difficult to not be cliche, because most kinds of science that can be done by 13-year-olds have already been done.
Social science? Number of likes that different kinds of facebook posts get? You'll have to work out a way to categorize different kinds of posts.
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Hello. I am a young 22 year old male and have a concern about penis size. Now, most likely I just need confidence in myself and/or assurance, but still I'd thought I'd ask and hopefully get some educated answers and insight.
Well, I'm 22 and my penis is around 5-5.5 in. when fully erected, and when flaccid sometimes 1-3 inches. Would you say that's normal or average?
Honestly, I think it's average for me. Now, I'm kind of a chubby guy so would losing weight help add more length or something? Does any form of medicine help increase it?
Now, reason for my concern. I'm sort of seeing this girl and well, guess it's kind of a complicated open relationship and well she thinks I'm small for her. We've openly talked about previous sex partners we each had and well, guess a majority of her previous sex partners were quite well endowed down there. Like she's been with guys who were like 8-11 in. big around the age of 19-20 and I'm sitting there finding it hard to believe that's possible. I am able to please her, but there are times where she comments on my size and I think to myself she's just joking, even says she is, but sometimes it kind of gets to me.
We even went to a book store and explored the sexuality section and read that the average size is like 5 inches, and then she goes ahead and guesses average must be small to her then, but isn't sure of herself though, but the way she says it makes me think she prefers them big and kind of worries me?
So what's a good healthy mind set I should keep? I really like her and am trying my best to try and make her trust relationships again, that way we can be something exclusive to each other.. (link)
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Your penis is normal. Well within the normal range. If your gf thinks that porn or her vibrator are a good guide to normal size, she's wrong.
Don't put up with disrespect and snide comments directed at your member. Oh, and don't be tempted to respond in kind about her stretched-out pussy. It never plays out well.
At the end of the day, if she can't learn a little basic courtesy, or thinks that courtesy is unnecessary in a relationship, then this one ain't a keeper. If anyone needs some advice, she does.
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What does it mean when someone says ''rather risk it all than play it safe' ? Please super curious my ex wrote this and I wanna know what it could mean. (link)
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Maybe he's saying that he has chosen to not settle.
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my mom is a uptight. I'm going into the freakin 8 grade and she has parental controls on the computer only giving me five min a day and barely any websites. she has 3 computers, one of which is a laptop, an iPhone, an ipod, and a n iPad! One computer was supposed to eb for the kids but then she put on all these settings.... the iPod is supposed to be my bday gift but she changed it into her extra phone. i can't do anything. she makes these dumb rules like u can't lock the door in the second bathroom which is my bathroom.i can't wear some clothes i have cause she wants to pick out my outfit when we are going to some places not every wear tho. She yells at me when i break one of her rules or talk to her while she's on her electronics cause she says I'm disgracing her. I get it when she s coin bills but when she is on Facebook?WHAT! it makes me feel like I'm doing something bad all the time cause I'm used to so much yelling.WDID? (link)
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All of this sounds very normal. For both of you.
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Jist of what happened in the past
- I liked his best friend, same college
- We met and even though things got messed up ended up liking each other
- Started dating when he passed out (im still doing my undergrad)
- we have been dating a year. I'm 19 he's 22
- our parents know about us and we have met both sides
- we met in college and then he passed out and started giving exams
- he couldn't clear the exams he gave so his parents got paranoid about him going on the wrong path or getting distracted because of me
- he promised his mom hed clear the last exam for us to prove to her he can do something
- he started working with this ngo in town so we would see each very often
- our friends knew and he even told his best buds that he'd marry me if we continue dating for a while
- we never had any problems even though he is a bit flirtatious with other women he was loyal to me
- Had a few fights because of the guys friends I had but it was all sorted out
A week back since I'm on vacation across the country he texted me saying that his result came out and he didn't clear it so he had to break up to concentrate on his career
He said he still loved me but he had to let this go since we were mad about each other. He said he hoped we got back together but couldn't promise anything for the future and didn't want to give me false hopes.
He said I was the best thing that happened to him. He also said his parents raised him and he needs to make them proud by achieving something in life and hence he needs to give up all the distractions in his life.
Its been a week and he wouldn't answer any of my calls or messages and has completely cut off. He told his friends he called it off and didn't give a reason and he wouldn't reply back to my friends at all.
I don't know what to do. I want him back because I love him even if it involves waiting but I don't know what is going on in his mind. I am also scared out of stupidity hed go any do something really reckless to get over me.
I don't know what to say to him when we meet when I get back but I am willing to do anything to rectify this. Do you have any advice as to why this happened and it could truly get him back? Or am I living in a dream world where fairytales exist and he is truly over me? (link)
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Maybe you should do what he is doing - concentrate on something other than a relationship for a while.
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It's been almost two weeks since he told me that it's over. and no matter how he explains, I still have questions, everyday, in my head. like, does he still love me the way he used to? how long should I wait? will I even get to talk to him again? will he talk to me again? what I really want, is for him to love me again like we used to. I miss everything, and I just took it for granted. I wanna see how he's doing, I wanna know when will he talk to me again? what is he really doing?
okay, what really happened. at the beginning of the month, we had a fight at night. ended in tears. I was frustrated with him not doing anything with his life and us not going out and having fun like young people do. he's frustrated that I was always unhappy and negative all the time. I wouldn't have been like so if he did what I told him to do. but after that, he completely blocked me. a few days later,I went to talk to him, he says that what I did made him really anxious that's why he couldn't be with me anymore. he says that he still loves me but we can't be together. we have to work on ourselves or else we'll be toxic for each other. but in the past he did a lot of things which are irresponsible that made me question his actions sometimes and every time I confront, always ends with "it's all your fault", so right now, I don't really know whether to trust him or not. even more so when we're apart because I constantly feel that we might grow apart, and I constantly think about him and miss him. sure, he's a little young, he bothers me all the time, frustrates me all the time, but I love him, and what I did, I would give the world if it means that I could get him back.
so, my question is, how do I get him to unblock me and how long I should wait to see him again? (link)
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Don't stalk people. Find someone new.
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hey guys can you give me some ideas of stand up arts to mix with aikido? i am from cyprus btw (link)
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IIRC, Steven Segal mixes Akido and Jujitsu.
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To start off I'm 20 years old (well officially in August anyways) and I've been with my fiance a year and one month. We met at a bowling alley and four months later we were getting a place together. We've lived together ever since and he proposed to be on our one year anniversary.
I love him more than I ever thought I could love anybody. He's my very best friend and I die inside thinking of him not being in my life.
Something is wrong though and I don't think I can go through with marrying him. We haven't been intimate in almost three months and more and more I find myself aggravated with him. He's not the dream man I pictured married and I know there is no such thing as perfect but all of my friends think I can do better. He plays video games every night for hours as soon as he comes home from work, he throws his clothes everywhere, refuses to shower more than once every several days, brushes his teeth seldom, he won't clean and he can't cook. Lately I've been wondering where all his money is going as he never seems to have more than $50 even though he makes around 2k a month and he only has to pay half our bills (which if I do the math doesn't add up) since I pay the other half. He always has to have the last word and thinks he's right 100% of the time. His arrogance is equal to his ignorance and he has no remorse for the sick or dying. He hates my parents and hates all my friends.
However he's as funny as can be and charming, he's sweet to me and loving when I really need him to be, he tolerates my bad moods and has always been very loyal to me. He has his own car and like I said previously has a full time job and pays his side of the bills which is a plus for people as young as us.
I do all the cooking and the cleaning and I pay my half of the bills, I also work full time and have my own car and more bills than he does and I know at times I can be a handful as I tend to be a bit emotional. I support him in everything he does and love him no matter what he does, I always forgive him and find ways to make our life better.
Lately I feel things haven't been going well. He seems to be listening to me less and less and playing video games with his friends more and more. He comes home from work late and doesn't seem to want to spend much time with me though he insists he loves me when I confront him about it. I'm growing tired of his childish and gross ways and I don't want to spend the rest of my life playing mommy.
Last night an old friend I used to speak to before I even met my fiance came back into my life. I'll be honest I met him online but texted him for years and got to know him. I stopped talking to him for about a year and half maybe two years and last time I spoke with him I felt like he was the one for me and that we had so much in common but at that time the circumstances were all wrong. I was still living with my parents and didn't even have a car to see him with or any freedom at all really and noting to offer to a relationship. Obviously now I do and he's made it evident he's still very interested in me and yes, I've told him about my fiance and everything else. He has the dream job, the dream car, he makes a lot of money, he's very intelligent and boasts about all the places he's been and wants to take me to. The only thing that doesn't seem right is the fact that he isn't and hasn't been in a relationship as long as I've known him or at least not one he's come clean about. He's told me of a fling and that's it and said he didn't feel about her like he did about me and that he didn't want to lead her on. If he has such a perfect life then why doesn't he have super models flocking all over him and why is he interested in me? He's sent me flowers, chocolates and a teddy bear before and wrote my name on his lamborghini in snow one winter and sent me photos...
He seems to be everything I'm actually looking for and because he's much older (in his 30's) than my current fiance he's also much more mature. The temptation to see him is weighing on me and I feel like if I miss the chance to know how we would be together I'll regret it and wonder about it forever. I want to at least meet him and I've already discussed bringing a friend with me if I did to ensure my safety and he was fine with that. However I don't want to throw away my current relationship either as I said before I love my fiance but I don't want to waste my life with him either when I could have been looking at my soulmate this entire time and never even took the chance...
A life spent with him (even if not permanent) seems much more beneficial than a life spent trying to make something of myself in my current relationship but how do I even go about finding out how real this guy is without the potential of getting myself killed or something and how do I know if my current relationship is worth sticking around for?
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It's over. When you break up with your fiancee, be decent to him. This is no-one's fault.
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Hello there. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. At first I was truly in love with him but now I feel different. I dont love him like I used to. When I hugged him or kissed him or told him I loved him, I felt something. I felt like I was in love but I dont feel it anymore now. I love him so much and I want to be with him. He`s truly the best boyfriend Ive ever had. I really dont want to hurt him, he was hurt bad on his previous relationship. What should I do or what should I tell him? please help (link)
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Break up, and try to be civilised about it.
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I started dating a girl in December, I'm not going to say all the normal love stuff, because, this was a normal relationship, we believed we were perfect for eachother, we loved eachother, ect. Her parents liked me, I went to church and all with them, they were Catholic I'm Baptist.
Well, she would always say how she's always hungry, she doesn't eat as much (later finding out they sometimes don't give her food for like a day or two), her parents call her names like slut, whore, bitch, just cause their mad or so, or they'd slap her, like, they slap her all the time when they don't get their way basically. Sometimes they whip them (her and her sister) with a belt I believe, but it never leaves bruises so she thinks it's "not illegal" because of that, but it burns and hurts her like hell. One time she said "my mother whipped me with a belt 15 times because I drew on the blinds"
Anyways on with the story, everything was normal, until the day before valentines day, her mom grounded her because we were 30 minutes late from the lake which was half a mile away. February 17th or 18th I forget, she got in a argument with her mom, as always the slapping, name calling, she was unhappy. We ran away in the middle of the night together, she said she was going to run away even if I didn't.
So, I protected her, we ran away, we were gone for 18 hours. When we came back, we went into the house and talked to the parents, well, the parents are HIGHLY manipulative and all so remember this later. The mother said how she doesn't even want my girlfriend there, if it wasn't for the dad she wouldn't be there, and responsibility this responsibility that, basically saying their all gonna die if she doesn't do things right, her mother is literally mentally unstable or something... The cop came obviously, the dad said I was a good kid he liked me and all, and we hugged when I left. Everything was normal.
The next day I went there, the mom was mad obviously, we hanged out for 2 or 3 weeks in a normal way. Then I had to goto another state for 3 weeks, I told them I was leaving, and I really was, but I had problems and went to the state over instead with my family for 5 days. Well, we snuck out when I got back because we knew we wouldn't be able to see eachother until the weekend, we always wanted to see eachother. This wasn't the first time we snuck out, and we've been caught 3 times before by her parents. They forgave us though each time.
This time, I lied to the mom sadly saying I was in Missouri. Acted like I was worried the next day ect, the sister had told the mom the truth I guess. The mother 2 days later (March 7th) filed a Protection Order, for no legit reason. Ill say the statements later. The P.O. was served to me March 9th
The dad, is like loyal to the wife because their catholic and all, not to bash the religion in any way. But he just is. I know he would never do this, he didn't file anything. Anyways I went to the house to reconcile with him and he just kept saying go, go, go bla bla no reason then just started saying I was too old. He knew I wasnt, he liked me, he was just doing this for the wife. Cops ended up coming I still refused to leave because I wanted to reconcile, then they tresspassed me.
Anyways, March 17th, I went to walmart, they were all there, the dad walked like "Hey (my name), I see you got a job!" What? "You're wearing your uniform!" Oh yeah "Well, bye!" he was all happy and everything.
After seeing me 3 more times he left with my gf to the car.
March 20th came, the P.O. court date, the statements on it were "Ran away, sneaking out to the lake several times, reporting bullying and saying everything will be okay" I reported her being bullied from people.. And they think thats bad? Hah. Well, the mom anyways. We told the judge about how their using me as a disclipinary tool, how they call her names and mental abuse, how I always just helped her. Not really detailing it but that's short for it, Judge said "Everything was in good intentions for her nothing was done wrong, all he did was help her." and set the P.O. for 3 months.
We got letters on March 24th and March 27th saying how they hurt her she doesn't wanna be there that they say their the "dictators" of the family and they slap her, call her bitch and slut, and that her Aunt threatened to kill me and has a plan and a gun in her car. And will do anything for her mom she doesn't care cause she loves her mom.
Sad.
April 3rd we violated it, she was being starved I heard so I was going to take her to McDonalds, cops caught us within 5 minutes because I "ran a stop sign", well I was on a slope. It was dark, so yeah.
April 9th, the mother chased me, followed me, I ran from her to my friends house and a cop started grabbing me for no reason when he came to investigate so I pushed him and got charged for assault and battery and a violation, went to jail for 6 days. I really did nothing wrong, this cop just started grabbing me then shoving me into the police car because I yelled my mothers number at my friend because he wouldnt let me call her, I KNEW the cops wouldn't call her thats why I tried. Cop wasnt listening to me say they were chasing me before all this, he detained me as soon as he saw me in my truck he said get out and I did then I was like am i being detained he was like yes. He cant do that without any further cause...
So yeah I was arrested. Went to jail for 6 days and now I'm under 24/7 supervision for awhile, we believe their going to give me probation in another state...
Well, we have around 3 open DHS cases on her, then 2 more from other people we believe. But DHS hasn't visited her since ending of March, its May now. And their all open cases.
Now here's where things get interesting, this just happened, and is why I'm looking for help.
2 days ago she showed up to my house, freezing, wet, covered in grass. It was a 4 mile walk to out here, through the lake woods and all. I was so sad I let her in, got her my sweats and got her warm, held her, she explained what happened how they hurt her and she doesn't wanna be there, she showed me a bruise which is the size of a french fry, my friend and her said it was bigger, it's 4 days old, still blood red.
Her mother ended up showing up, we called the cops, but she was saying she doesn't wanna be there they hurt her they hit her they call her names and just wanted help... A Sheriff came in, I was in the other room then because the PO, my mother was with them, my Gf had said all I've said how they hurt her and call her names she doesnt wanna be with them shes scared and unhappy and some stories on how they hurt before.
So sheriff took her to the police car and then talked to us then talked to her parents. There was another sheriff here then, they pulled out a letter. They talked for like 30 minutes. Now before we continue, this family is highly manipulative, believable, looks normal but when you leave their house their evil and hitting her. They've lie to the POLICE (not sheriff) to think were Sex Traffickers, idk if they believe it just because "were from Arizona" and my mother said it was okay if my Gf wanted to live with us, when she ran away, if it was okay with the parents. So because of that they lie about some stuff.
My gf said to the sheriff how when the police come her parents make them goto the room and their never really questioned or get to talk that the police and her parents just get along... So now theres gonna be more DHS and police involved I guess.
Anyways, sheriff sent her back with the mom, said theres going to be in-house DHS counciling, police, and all. It's devestating because my GF absoloutely doesnt want to be with them, they seriously hurt her. They wont let her go with her real mom the sheriff said "THAT IS NOT POSSIBLE" in a loud voice, because the mother lied to them we think.
The letter the mother showed them was a letter, in short, saying "I'm running away to see (my name)" which ruined everything I think. Because cops said she didn't run away because they hurt her, which is WHY she did run away, she told me, but yes, she came to me to tell me first, she wanted help they do hurt her.
What can we do?!
I've made about a 6 page letter to the dad since theres no Protection Order from him...
Were not doing this just so we can see eachother, that's part of the reason, but they really hurt her she wants out.
I have just turned 17 and she has just turned 15, at the end of April and beginning of May.
When she came here she said her mother had said "Now I see why (cousins name) mother let her boyfriend move in." (link)
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Short answer: get away from this girl and never see her again.
Longer answer: everything she has ever told you is a lie. "They are starving me!" Is she skinny? Bones poking out? No, I thought not. "They are whipping me with a belt!" But no bruises or marks. Amazing. Dude - I got whipped with a parental belt when I was a kid. Trust me, it leaves marks. They are not the size of a (McDonalds) french fry. "Oooh, my parents are so smooth and manipulating and belivable!" You poor sap.
"a cop started grabbing me for no reason when he came to investigate so I pushed him and got charged for assault and battery and a violation, went to jail for 6 days"
Jesus. You do not fight a cop. Ever.
Look man. *Even if this girl is telling the truth*, rescuing her will F your life up. Think about her life. Can you see her ever being a nice little wifey, cooking a wholesome dinner, raising her kids well?
Actually, that point bears repeating. DO YOU WANT THIS PERSON TO BE THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN? Hell: I wouldn't wish her on *any* kid, let alone one of my own.
And she's only 15. Christ. And you are 17. Do you mind if I shout at you for a bit? No? Cool.
*** GET THIS PERSON OUT OF YOUR LIFE BEFORE YOU TURN 18. ***
The second the big hand and the little hand point at 12 on your next bday, stuff just got real. Assault a cop, and you won't just get six days. Abduct a CHILD from her PARENTS, and you won't just get a stern talking-to. Some states have "Romeo and Juliet" laws. If yours doesn't, YOU WILL GET A CRIMINAL RECORD AS A PAEDOPHILE FOR LIFE.
And she doesn't care, because she lives for drama. You are just a bit player in the movie she stars in, the one that's all about her.
You need to get serious, son, it's desperately important. Getting serious means cutting off *ALL CONTACT* with this lying psycho and her psycho family. There will be other p*ssy. This one will ruin you.
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My ear was bothering me. The only way for it to feel better was to keep tapping on it. Well i've been doing that for like 2 or 3 days straight. Now my mind like hears the tapping. But it's in my mind... My ear still hurts though. I'm going to the doctor like 9 hours from now for my ear but I can't stop tapping it because that's the only way for it to feel better. Help! (link)
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Ear infection. Expect antibiotics.
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I am a 17 year old female and my cousin who is 42 years old says she noticed that I have been acting differently and wanted to know if I had sex with my boyfriend and I lied and told told her no but wh en in reality I did should I have toold her the truth (link)
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If you think you should have told her the truth, you still can. You might get better advice from her than you\'ll get here.
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I'm Catholic/Christian (not sure the difference) and I've heard of these evil cults, who worship devils and help demons, the devil, and other evil spirits to harass innocent GOOD people such as Jews, Christians and Catholics, and unsuspecting atheists who I don't support but are most vulnerable since they don't even think it exsists so don't know that they need to tell a preist, and I've heard a group of occult practicers have kidnapped 200 girls from school and started selling them for sex. How horrible! Despicable, evil runts! Why? They isolate and torture they're children, raising them without running water or electricity, never letting them leave, poor tortured helpless children, I hope they run away! And they teach them you'll go to hell if you masturbate or have sex! Plain awful! They do unspeakably evil, horrible thing and have the nerve to call Christians and Catholics evil, those who are happy, peaceful and loving, and the Jews who they seem to hate and torture the most, but are actually loyal: always having each other's back, rich and smart with money, and have great education. They should be the one being killed and suffering, those hideous cults! God bless those who suffer from they're evilness. (link)
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Well, there\'s a complex question.
First, a \"cult\" is not the same thing as \"the occult\". A cult is a small religion, or even a branch or offshoot of another religion. The veneration of some particular saint can be called the \"cult\" of that saint, especially if its associated with special rituals and stuff.
\"Occult\" means \"hidden\", its about religions or spiritual stuff that\'s hidden from the masses of the uninitiated.
The dudes in Africa who kidnapped the girls, well, there\'s a few things you have wrong.
They are not occult, they are muslims. Islam is one of the four biggest religions n the world. These guys, however, are a small(ish) sect. I don\'t know if you\'d call them a \"cult\" or not.
They are called \"Boko Haram\", which means \"school is forbidden\". They are africans who believe that white man\'s education system is from the devil. (And there are plenty of christians in America who believe the same thing, especially when schools start teaching evolution).
They are not selling the girls \"for sex\", in the sense of prostituting them, they are selling them into marriage. They believe that a girl should not be getting an education and filling her head with secular ideas, but that she should be decently married to a nice muslim man and having babies. Once again - there\'s plenty of christians in america who basically think the same thing.
And the one thing that everyone is ignoring is that these same people have been killing boys who go to school for years. They have been killing boys and letting the girls go - but no-one cared until it\'s like \"OMG! Teh Sex!\".
As for \"raising them without running water or electricity\" - they are in Africa. Just about no-one has running water or electricity. They are poor. It\'s not something special they are doing just to be mean.
Hope this helps.
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I lost my phone at college and after I found it at the doorman's desk,I found that he has been fiddling with it. I had pattern lock on and I think my phone may have locked itself because he entered the wrong pattern too many times. But then I tried calling my phone and I couldn't answer the call. Could it be that my phone is really locked,or that the screen is broken? My phone is a Samsung Galaxy S4. (link)
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\"My phone won\'t react to touch.\"
Neither will my wife.
BAZINGA!
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this is odd but i need someone who knows a little something about when it comes to hiring plumbers.
I rent a two bed, two bath place and we continually have plumbing issues. we have the standard low flush/low consumption toilets which clog ALL THE TIME, even to the point to where even a standard plunger cannot unclog it. Well ive had a leaking tub faucet for the past month and called my management company to fix the leaking THAT, but also asked to have the plumber check out one of my toilets as well (just a quick look to make sure theres nothing legitimately wrong with that toilet ) my question is, it is normal or fair for the property management to charge ME for the plumber to come out to fix the faucet?
last time i called to have management send a plumber to unclog my toilet, (cause my son flushed the toilet paper spinner down it) i got charge 400 bucks! just for that! and he did the same thing i just asked this guy to do. i soooo dont wanna get charged 400 bucks because i also asked him to check out my toilet while he was here fixing the leaky faucet. = / i cant afford that.
can they do that?? i know that theres certain things that THEY have to cover, but idk if they can try to pin the toilet thing on me, there was nothing wrong with the toilet, he said he would let them know that. The toilet just has a small throat and clogs easier then the better toilets. (link)
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What does your lease say? You know, the legal document that you and your landlord agreed to - that thing. Fish it out and read it.
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