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Old boyfriend back in my life after 30 years?
An old boyfriend, lives in another state, texts me, calls me, sends me pics of his kids. He is divorced. It was 30+ years that we didn't talk. Found me on facebook. Could this mean he might want to get back together? We share, on the phone, everything going on in our lives. I am a 55 year old woman.
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If I did this, I would be hoping that the g/f from 30 years ago still looks as hot as she did way back when, and maybe I could get laid.
Yeah, it's pretty much all we think about.
Hope this helps.
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I think he honestly is just trying to make plans with you so you guys can catch up on things. He's being friendly & is maybe trying to become friends with you again & catch up. It won't hurt to talk to him. Hope this helps!
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It could mean that you where an important part of his life and values you enough to want to reconnect, trust you enough to share his personal moments with you and sounds like he has opened up and feels comfortable with you.
It does sound like the ideal conditions to a healthy relationship, the question is however, do you want to get back together with him.
Keep in mind that both he and yourself have changed since, so you will both need to rediscover each other.
Without having any expectations, why not see where it leads. Don't put any pressure on yourself or him. Meet him half way go to the movies, go for coffee,and do it without any expectations and allow things to take their course as they are meant to be .. you may find yourself in the middle of a happy ending.
Good Luck
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Only time will tell what he is feeling. For now, why not meet up for lunch someday soon? I know he lives in another state, but it could be fun. Don't come right out and say that you want to be a couple, just meet up and see what happens. See if he takes the hint.
Toodles,
Miss Piggy
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Hey there!
Are you married? Single? Divorced?
I think it's sweet that you found an old boyfriend through facebook! It's nice that he's trying to have some communication with you. But as a wise woman, I'm sure you know that after a man gets divorced they tent to go a little coo-coo and just flirt with everyone they can get their hands on. So just be wary.
On the brightside, I think he might want to meet up or maybe catch up with you. Maybe you guys could arrange something like that? Who knows? Maybe you guys will have an awesome time and things can get rolling afterwards.
Best of luck!
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