Member Since: June 22, 2013
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Last Update: November 6, 2015
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I feel as if you did not completely read my question nor understand how depression or anxiety works. I did not say that my boyfriend is the one that needs me, it's my family that needs me. There are many reasons to why they do, I just did not state them. Please stop making assumptions.
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Discrimination doesn't change one's ethnic makeup. Also, this is a toxic answer.
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Thanks for the feedback. I am actually very active at the moment. I may not do sports, but I work on daily stretches and warm ups, and then move on to my workout (a combination of handsprings, handstands, handstand turns, back walkovers, back limbers, front walkovers & limbers, cartwheels, round offs, and much much more. The only reason I want to seek out professional help, Is because I would like to clean up my skills and work towards higher leveled skills such as aerials and back handsprings, as they are unsafe to do without a spotter. Not to mention this gym is specifically meant for all ages and skill levels. Thank you.
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I use the word "baby" interchangably with child. There's something about the idea of carrying my boyfriend's baby.
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I came here to look for support and possibly anyone else who had been through something similar that could offer advice. I did not come here to be treated with mockery and complete disrespect. Where do you get off talking to someone like that? I pray you never have a daughter because your attitude towards women is totally abhorrent and God forbid she ever be in the situation I was in she would have to listen to you tell her it was her fault. I clearly stated that I did not know if the sex was consensual, never did I say I would seek retribution for this man. How dare you. You set the clock back on rape 100 years. Male of female, no one should have to wake up bleeding and wonder if they fought to not he raped. Whether it was rape or not that is a horrible feeling. You have no idea what that feels like. You should be ashamed of yourself.
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Holy shit! This is the worst fucking advice I've ever gotten here! I came to you for advice on how to help two people I care about and you give me this shit? "My picture of A begins to come into focus." Uh, yeah right. That's laughable. You listened to nothing I said. Who the fuck said they were having sex anyway? Did you read that in my post? No, you just assumed it because you think that dating= sex simply because YOU can't keep it in your pants. They weren't having sex because D's not a horn dog who pushes women into having sex if they don't want to and A didn't want to. "People tend to think better of attractive people than they deserve, and it seems to me that that's what you are doing here" I don't care whether she looks like Jennifer Anniston or Ugly Betty. I was just explaining to you why D didn't think he was good enough for her, but again, you didn't listen. This is not the first woman that D has pushed away. "So A was only doing D because she was temporarily without her preferred "the D"? No, he pushed her away just like he pushes all of his girlfriends away by being so paranoid, needy, and the way he accused her of cheating on him when she wasn't. She had no interest in J or anyone else until she stared wanting to get away from D because he was PUSHING her away. "He religion means nothing to her, her relationship with J means nothing to her, and poor Mr D (whose penis she was using for a while, until J came back) means less than nothing to her." That's completely backwards. She was the religious one and HE mocked HER beliefs. Like missundersmock said, she was the one trying to make things work, not him. He was lazy and didn't want to put forth an effort as usual and if he gets advice like this, he'll think it's okay to NEVER put forth an effort and he'll wind up alone because of it. She's crazy about J and she WAS crazy about D until he pushed her away. Now dumping P for D, sure that was bad, but in her defense, she and P weren't serious and they broke up BEFORE she and D started dating. It wasn't a reason for D to be psycho paranoid that A would CHEAT on him like he thinks ALL of his girlfriends cheat on him. He treats EVERYONE like this and it worries me. Having kind of become friends with A as well, I was worried about her too. I have friends who have dated guys who made threats like his before and once, it ended with the guy going Chris Brown on the girl and going to jail for it, so I didn't know whether to take it seriously or not. I mean come on, standing outside of her bedroom window all night while she sleeps? That's not normal or healthy at all. If he's weird enough to do that, then who knows what else he's weird enough to do? My nightmare is (or at least was) that one day, he'd follow through with his threat, beat A and J into a coma, and wind up in jail with a criminal record or it. I came here for help in preventing that, but you didn't help a damn bit. You made it worse Now, I'm still worried, but I'm also pissed. D needs help, not reassurance that the way he's behaving is normal and okay. He doesn't need to be told that he DOESN'T have a problem. You really shouldn't be giving advice to anyone if this is the best you can do at helping.
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Yeah,you have definitely seen too many movies.
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That's world trade, surely? The oil-rich middle-eastern states have done OK for themselves trading oil for 'worthless' US dollars (the de facto international currency surely, at least until China take-over!)
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Thank you very much for going out of your way to answer me!
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Thank you for the EXCELLENT suggestion! I did just as you said first and it was a hit. Thanks again!
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thank you so much for your advice. i really needed to hear that. i was writing very quickly and i think what i wrote came out wrong. I am not married yet. I'm saying that i thought that once i moved out, it would be different. but, since it isn't, i'm still hanging on to the hope that it will be different once i get married (which isn't far away)... but that since moving out didn't make a difference, i don't think being married will. thank you so much for your caring and listening. God bless xoxo
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Well yes but that's not really an answer to my question. I think you probably misunderstood. I don't have to decide if "i want to be one of those women", I know I don't. My question was how to let go of all this anger I have towards myself and towards him.
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Thank you, there was no abuse, she lied about everything and I got in the middle of it. Lesson learned. :(
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Thank you for the push to do it. :)
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Thank you so much for your response. I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.
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Yes i know thank you, i actually lost it (which odd because i usually save everything) so id have to ask for another copy. but it was just a quick question that i already got an answer to. thank you though.
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Your response offended me. I was not referring to sex; I was referring to a relationship. You don't know me and you shouldn't judge me by my age. Sex is not "something random" to me, and if I gave off that vibe in my question, then excuse me.
Thanks for your time.
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Its not what I want from him. I love him he wasn't raising his son until recently hes always paid child support though. We were young 15 and 16 to be exact it ended over a "lie" he had told even though we never chested on each other I held on to him lying I was young pregnant and trusted him
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Ok, thanks for clearing that up :) Just because sometimes I get annoyed too at the occasional attention seeker on here & those questions where it'd have been quicker to ask Google than wait days on here. Just find it interesting how you react to them :)
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Sorry to break it to you, but I don't support her financially. She pays her own rent, groceries, bills, etc.
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Thank you, the articles are interesting, but this didn't help me. I do not think porn is a bad thing and my boyfriend is not suffering from any sort of ailment due to porn. Also, I don't really need to know how to make our sex better because we're pretty open about what we both like. My question was more how do I approach this situation and I don't feel that reading about how porn is bad is the answer because I don't believe that.
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You really didn't answer the question. But thanks for trying.
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That is not the reaso. If you dont have something helpful to say then keep your mouth shut.
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No not even bedrooms sonetimes even in the kitchen randomly last time it happened i just went home im not a slut
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First of all, I HAVE SEEN A DOCTOR! I just saw one not even a month ago, if I went to the doctor every time I thought something was wrong i'd be there every other week and my parent's would be broke. Doctor's are not free, if you weren't aware.
And I am not a train wreck or a "silly" girl I knew exactly what I was doing, and he's been my first everything, i'm not some kind of slut who sleeps around with a lot of guys this is the first time it's ever happened to me so idk what you mean by "How bad are you going to let these bumps and discharges and god know what else get?" I don't have an STD and neither does he and if you read the question clearly enough you'd see that, seeing as I said "I got STD tested and my result came back clear" and when did I say something just "kinda" happened between us? I also never said I had nothing to do it? Also he didn't cum inside me he cummed ON me so yeah
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